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Can we ever just be friends again, after having one night of sex?

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Question - (12 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2009)
A age , anonymous writes:

I am in a serious LDR, we plan to get together soon.

Recently, I met a really nice guy online (not a dating site) We began "chatting" almost daily. We had very mind-stimulating conversations and it was very enjoyable. One night I had too much to drink, and we were chatting. One thing led to another and I invited him over. He was here in a flash! As you are probably imagining, we ended up sleeping together. Probably because we are both very lonely. My problem is that I am concerned that I may have screwed-up my friendship with him. I don't want him to think I have any ulterior motives...I just want his friendship...do you think it could go back to the way it was? Or have we crossed the line, and can never go back???

I know we betrayed the trust of our respective partners. And I feel guilty about that...but I will never confess this to my guy who I love deeply! I'd really like your opinions on this!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009):

Wow... well other people like my cousin who had alot of relationships is still friends with her ex's so yuo guys can probably still be friends talk to him about it.

Even though i havent had any REAL relationships i think that you should just talk about what happened, and see if he can be reasonable.

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