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Archived questions from: 2 February, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Do men treat their girlfriends differently???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Do men treat their girlfriends differently? If so, why? I broke up with my ex just over a year ago. I thought I was getting over him quite well until I saw some photos of him on a social networking site with his new girlfriend. She talks of...

I can't live without him but my emotions are telling me otherwise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hello. Im 17 nearly 18 years of age and i have been with my boyfriend, Gunner for nearing 8 months now, i know that it isnt that long compared to others on here but i still love him. Recently i had quite bad PMS and it made me feel like i didnt love ...

Just lost the woman I truly love... please help...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - hi, My name is Gerard, first off, me and my girlfriend broke up a few weeks ago, she;s dating this other guy now and we've been through this all before, over the past 6 years of being with her i've had to wait for her while she was with other guys ...

Does he still want to get back together after I moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been broken up for 11 days. we still talk everyday, but the thing i wanna know is. he told me that he wanted to get back together with me a few days ago but at the time i didn't wont to. i told him why and that was because...

I'm having trouble getting over her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up a month ago, and I'm having trouble getting over her. We broke up because we were in a long distance relationship that didn't work out. I visited her, and it was clear her feelings had changed. I still loved her, but she wan...

I get urges to call him after the breakup...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfirend of 2 years just broke up with me 3 days ago and I feel horrible for many reasons. First, the break up was one of the most dramatic events of my life. It happenned in his place after we had a big argument over something stupid and he ...

My boyfriend wants to study overseas for 7 years. Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4817 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I met in a tertiary instituition. We've been together for a year plus, and currently in our final year awaiting graduation. Naturally, we have our own plans after graduation. I plan to work locally. However, my boyfriend gave me a ...

I want him back after ditching him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - well, i recently broke up with this guy lets call him 'JJ' and i broke up with him because my friends were putting lots of pressure on us and i didn't feel comfortable with it at all. the thing is, i know it ws a stupid reason to break up wit him...

Should I stay and fight or let her go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I have been in and out of a long distance relationship with a girl for over 3 years now. We have known each other for a long time as we've run in similar circles and we've been great friends even prior to our relationship. She is 10 years older ...

What I don't understand is why would she have sabotaged this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up last week. We had been dating for a year. The first 6 months were great and we never fought. The last 6 months have been turbulent with episodes of fights and making up almost on a monthly basis. The periods between ...

She broke up saying the relationship had become a burden

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I got to know my ex-gf in Q4 2009, we share some same interests and hobbies, and it wasn't long before we got together. The relationship lasted for 9 months, and it was her first relationship. It was a wonderful one, and I thought we made ...

She finally confessed her infidelity. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - This is a very confused guy who loves her girlfriends of 6 years to bits. However,my Girlfriend finally confessed to me the guy entered her but stopped when she shouted because it hurt. (From the description, I know personally how difficul...

Is he afraid of his feelings and the direction we were headed in or was I being toyed with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for three months and changes his mind on what he wants every two weeks it seems like. When we started seeing eachother, he was excited yet hesitant to meet my daughter. He met Jess and told me he was unsure of the situation ...

She wanted space, broke up, and already she's in a new relationship. Why will she not answer my questions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My ex of 25 months and I broke up but a week after we broke up she got into a relationship. She say with a dude she said was her friend. When I ask is she moving on, she won't answer my ? She wants our 8 by 10 photo we took, the promise ring, and ...

I want to be married soon, but we're in 2 different life stages. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - iam 24 and have a diploma and studying further. my girlfriend is 17 and still doing secondary education.iam planning to have a wife in early 2013. so do these differnces matter in a marriage life?what if she is selected for university studies,should ...

How can we start being civil with each other following the break-up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Confused by my ex! My ex and i spilt at the start of the year we had been together 7 yrs got a 2 yr old and a 6 yr old. There had been a few issues regarding trust and i had discovered he had bought someone a dress via the internet in october ...

How do I give up and not be so crazy when it comes to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I need help getting over my ex we were together for 5 years and during that time he got one of my ex friends pregnant.and.than cheated on me after. A lot happened after that and he drove me crazy I because obsessed with checking to see where he was ...

I dumped her, yet I'm turning into a wuss over her. What's a good action plan to get me coping again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - What is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 months back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I hardly eat, my condo's filthy, I don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and b...

I broke up with her so shouldn't I be the one who's ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - What the dickens is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 mos back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I half a** eat, condo's filthy, don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and ...

Is there really a fool-proof way to get your ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Okay I hear there is a way to get your ex back or at least give you a really good chance. Normally I wouldn't try, but the ex is the father of my 6 month old son. He has treated me better than anyone. I love him, but he has a low tolerance for fi...

I didn't realize my true love until I emotionally abused her away....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I made a many bluders but the biggest blunder of all has costed me my health, sanity and job. I ended up homeless and dependent on vodka to wash away the pain. I've recovered in all with the exception of love. Is there a chance that the swan wh...

Why am I still not over this girl and what can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - Here's the basis of the background story: I transferred schools (from public to private) my sophomore year in high school, first day of school I saw the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and ended up having three other classes with her and ...

He wants a break - has he got cold feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend of 8 years just asked for a break one week ago. He says he needs time to think about us and just concentrate on work. The request for a break came at a time where everything is ok in our relationship. Some backround on us,In the ...

I have my reasons why I feel like my ex is still watching me. How can I best distance myself from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hello Aunts, i was let go by my guy nine months and few days ago. I closed my aol account, changed telephone details. I'm frightened my ex is watching me. I'm not with a replacement guy yet. Is he watching out for any replacement guy for me be with...

My boy friend has started being aggressive to me. Is dumping him the best idea?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was great when we were friends but when we started going out he. Since then he's changed. He's started acting more aggresive, controlling, rude, ect. and when I wanted to talk to him about it, he broke up with me on Facebook and then ...

What's a good solution to my sadness that we're not together now? I'm really confused and I may have given him the wrong impression.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - im really confused. My ex boyfriend and I went out for about two and half months, but we've liked each other for about six months. we didn't kiss or anything, but i still liked him sooo much. he gave me a necklace for christmas (well he gave ...

What I should do or what should I have done. I am still in shock to find my husband also cheated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Dear All, I have always been a faithful wife. I even looked down on those whom got their lives messed up by having an affair. A little over a year ago, I ran into a man whom counseled my ex and I when I went through the divorce. I was so m...

I don't want our relationship to end on this sour note. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I was in an odd relationship, I dated a wonderful girl for 1.5 years. We lived together, we had great and bad times, but we loved each other. She moved to Georgia after college to be with her family. I stayed in Wisconsin for I had a job and house. ...

It's been 3 months since she said she needed some space. Is this over?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My mistress of 4 years told me she "needs some space". Her friends told her we should not talk or e-mail for a few months. we both miss doing things together (not just the sex). It's been 3 long months . Is it over ? Neither one of us (I think) h...

Should I break things off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - Here is the thing. I met a girl who was interested in me before. She broke up with an a**hole who treats her like ****, but got her pregnant. Everything was great at first; I told her how I felt about her, she said she was in love with me too. I ...

Love triangle... how do I break up with him in the nicest way possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have a really sweet and loving boyfriend, hes a great guy,but i have a problem. Im still in love with an ex, and he's changed for the better, me and my ex still love each other alot, but i dontknow how to go about this. My ex recently dumped his ...

I don't think its fair to start a relationship with this guy if I'm not completely over my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - hi ive posted on here a long time ago. So if any of you read my other questions, some were about a guy i was involved with. We ended up dating and i was extremely happy. However we broke up about a year ago. I was devistated and i basically gave up ...

How do people make up after arguments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - How do people make up after arguments? My soon-to-be ex used to say that because I started most arguments (it is true), I should make up to him. He would refuse to give me any affection because I would not, in his words, deserve it for abusing him ...