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writes:HELLO guys A bit of a problam hear after spliting with my guy so he can go back to his ex the mother of his child, he said we could stay mates and that he would really like to, but not sure if she would let him be friends with me, He cheated on her once and she never got over it, they are kinda together he says but she needs to be able to trust him again, so now i cant see him anymore, im aloud to call him when hes at work and im on lunch break but not in evenings as he will be over hers,he also said not everyday so say i spoke to him 2day i will next speak to him on thursday, he has to deleate my number off his phone but he will still have it at work, The thing is why does he want me to phone him still i dont mind doing it as we still get on and i do still like talking to him on the phone, is it to keep me sweet just incase it doesnt work out with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Get out of the relationship right away whatever it is, it just won't work. Find somebody who can be all yours, someone who has not attached his strings yet to anyone. I believe everybody deserves to be absolutely happy and that includes you. Move on, be happy and ask God for guidance.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 October 2008):
You are the person who asked the same question before and I think the advice you got then still stands.
I don;t think he's being calculated and keeping you as a plan B, but he is lying to his girlfriend by telling her he's cut contact.
He sounds like a slimeball at any rate.
Stop calling and find someone new.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Forget about this guy. You are not desperate. There are lots of guys out there that will be interested in you. Stop wasting your time and life with somebody who does not appreciate you. Get out there and find somebody worthy of your love and attention.
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