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writes: Hi, I had been with my boyfriend for 1 year 3 months when he decided to break up with me because we couldn't seem to compromise on when both of us would be available to meet up. I tried to set another day when we could meet up, but all of a sudden, out of the blue, he broke up with me saying 'let's see what it would be like'. I was really hurt so I persuaded him for 1 month, asking him to come back, but he kept saying that he was not sure how he felt. I finally told him that I had to move on so he should set me straight and make up his mind. So he said he wanted to be friends and then contacted me and asked to meet up. I met up with him and he brought up the subject of getting back together and so I took him back. Well after 4 months, he has broken up with me again. Throughout our relationship he constantly needs space, and a month before our breakup he kept making excuses as to why he couldn't call me or why he couldn't meet up. He has blamed me for the relationship not working and says that we were growing apart, but it was him who was distancing himself from me all along. He said he didn't want to be tied down anymore, but he spent time with most of his friends anyway. Can anyone tell me why he seems so unsure of what he wants, and why has he told me that he enjoys my company still, especially if he doesn't want me as a girlfriend? Why does a young guy act so confused in a relationship?
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reader, shania  +, writes (22 December 2005):
 I tell u why a young guy like that,acts so confused in a relationship,his immaturity,and his age.He just couldnt make his mind up and when he did he blamed you for the problem,why? because it eased his guilt.Just except the relationship is over,i suggest you move on and meet someone else who will know what he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2005): Totally forget about him and move on; he's messing with your head. If he keeps on being friends with you, going out with you, being back friends with you and so on he shouldn't be your friend either. So forget about the guy, he's so not worth it.
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