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writes: hey so i love this boy and we have unknowingly liked each other for over a year.anyway,we went out for like one week months ago and we broke up cus we were both traveling with jobs in the summer. we got back 2 gether when school started again and i broke up with him after like 1 and 1/2 months because for some reason i always think that there is no way possible he could love me as much as he said he did and i had that "wall" around my heart and i ended up breaking my own heart. we both still like each other and i love him but i asked him back out and he kept sayin he needed time i even offered that if he wanted to say no that i would be fine if he did that.but what he said was that he wanted to ask me out in like a few days but he needs more time. what do i do? i am very stubborn and i dont like giving in too much but if thats what i need to do then i will . please help!! oh and im sorry this question is so long~lol~
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (27 December 2005):
 Hi firechic, i think u should give him time as he says. meanwhile u should use that opportunity to reflect why the relationship failed previously.
You seem to be pushing this guy away and still trying to drag him close the same time. u did indicate that u have built a wall around your heart it seems that u must have been pretty hurt before and u r still scared of it happening again. U have to discuss all this with your guy so at least he understands some of your actions and try to be patient and understanding. might help u deal with him and built on your confidence with him.
I sincerely wish u the best and please remember dont shut him out if you really love her.
Good luck
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