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writes:My ex boyfriend dumped me four weeks ago. We texted each other every day for the next three weeks. Then one day I did not reply to a tx he sent me. I left it three days. Then I txtd him back. He replied but I did not. Then he textd me the next day to ask if I was ignoring him! Then he texted me Christmas Day saying "Happy Chrimbo gorgeous! Hope you and your family have a gooden!" Why did he do this? I haven't textd back because I don't know if he is messing me around or if he does still like me?
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reader, gigilover +, writes (27 December 2005):
wat i reckon personally is he still has feelings for you and can't let go of you,he obviously cares about you alot!you didnt say whether you still had feelings for him so i cant really help you as much as id like, but one thing id do is ask him straight what is going on so you both know where you stand!!And tell him how you feel and see how he reacts!!
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reader, sheshe445 +, writes (27 December 2005):
 dont ignore him thats the worse thing to do that ust ruins everything that you had,all you can do is talk to him about his feelings for you. if he still has them but you dont feel the connection anymore than you should tell him that because it was his mistake for dumping you not yours!!!!!
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reader, honey_62002 +, writes (27 December 2005):
My ex boyfriend has been doing this to me as well and its very confusing. It makes you wonder if they think they have made a mistake and want you back doesnt it? Even if you don't want him back you still ponder it i'm sure. Well i suppose every situation is different. Maybe he wants to be friends, but if you cannot do that because you still have feelings there then i would suggest you stop texting him. Next time he texts you just tell him you need a break from him contacting you so you are able to move on and start fresh. Then the hard part is sticking to it.
Good luck! :-)
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