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Struggle living with a family who always judges me

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Question - (17 February 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *oseLovex writes:

Okay well here we go, a few months ago i decided i was moving to italy to become a nanny, so i moved there and everything but the family i was staying with (strangers) i didnt get on with them so i came back, but ever since ive came back my family have been horrible to me they treat me much worse than all my brothers and sisters and no im not saying that because all brothers and sisters think that ill show you why.

In the living room the other day everyones talking normally, and i go to my mum i just normally say 'mum' she turns round shouts 'WHAT?!' so iwas like oh it doesnt matter then so she says stop being such an attention seeker all the time ??

next thing last week i smashed my head on the edge of the tv and i have had a really bad headache since and i keep forgetting things like really badly its not normal ever since i tell my mum and all she says is stop being so self absorbed and attention seeking... i never complain about being ill and this one time she moans, all i asked is for he to take me to the doctors and she goes off on one, i forgot my best friends birthday, i forgot my boy bestfriends uncles funeral and everything so im feeling rotten and all my mum says is ' atleast i remember my bestfriends birthday still frkm high school great friend you are becka'

another incident (this is all in one week my normal day routine)

they keep saying im self absorbed and that i dont do anything for anyone else!:@ i never do anything for myself when my mums at uni i clean the whole house for her so she doesnt have to do it i muck out the horses stables so she doesnt have to do it, my sisters baby i help her with her in the mornings so my sister can get some sleep even though im exhausted myself but no i still help out! i always put others first

i dont know what to do

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A female reader, lmao1989 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2013):

lmao1989 agony auntWhen you went to italy did you tell them you were going to do that?

did they get the money for you?

Maybe they felt you were too irrational because can you speak their language?

Maybe you should of gotten to know the family first before going there and learning the language.

Maybe they're just annoyed because they thought you'd give it a go and perhaps felt you wasted money whether it was theres or your own.

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