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How do I stop sexting crap with my ex girlfriend?

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Question - (17 February 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2013)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Guys, i dont know how to handle this situation.

Me and my highschool sweetheart have texting for a while now after a gap of about 4 years. I kind of like another girl now, and i am seriously considering her as my partner.

But lately my texting the exgf turned to sexting, we are talking about it all the time! I dont want to but i give in and either her or me starts the sext.

How do i tell her its not healthy, and also i dont want to avoid her because she is a sweet girl, how do i talk normally to her and stop this secting crap!? Please help me!!

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A female reader, lmao1989 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2013):

lmao1989 agony auntWhy don't you next time she texts you or tries sexting you tell her you don't feel it's healthy and that you are interested in someone and want to try and make it work and that this sexting isn't going to help you, seems like she's trying to keep a hold on you stop it now before you lose this other girl.

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2013):

R1 agony auntShe is obviously hoping you will get back together. It's not fair to lead her on if that's not what you want. If she is a sweet girl leave her alone. You can't be friends with someone you sext. Stop texting etc.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (18 February 2013):

YouWish agony auntCut off contact. Staying in constant contact with an ex is a dealbreaker for other girls, and if you're interested and make a move on someone else, they'll go ballistic to see an ongoing sexting relationship with an ex. How would you feel if your girlfriend were texting an ex often like you are?

Time to cut the cord on this one.

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