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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:So I really like this guy at my gym and he's always looking at me whenever I look up and my thought is that he might like me because I don't think it's a coincidence that a guy would be staring at me for seven months.Anyway I signed up to personal training with him and I feel there's something there.The day after Valentine’s Day when I saw him he asked who I spent it with I said with a girly friend and he said he took an older woman out dinner because she didn't have a Valentine (how sweet!) and he told me he had made me a Valentine mix CD.Why did he do that on valentines? I like him so muchI found out he plays piano, he's into poems and works most of the time.Why would he do that? He treats me different from other girls and I really like him:(I'm so shy around him and he seems nervous too. I like him so much I've never felt that way before.I'm 23 and he's 25.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (17 February 2013):
If he didn't look good he wouldn't be doing his job. If he wasn't flirty he wouldn't be doing his job.
So, that alone doesn't mean he likes you. Just don't fall for it by buying a bunch of sessions to spend time with him. (I guarantee the older lady did!)
Just ask him out. Keep work and play separate.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (17 February 2013):
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He made you a Valentines mix CD.Thats not something you do for random people.
Just ask him to go for a drink/coffee after your next session.Simple.
He knows your single now so there's nothing stopping him asking you out really,unless he thinks you don't like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): Another personal trainer story. This is what they do, to lure girls in signing up with them. They look, so what? Is there anything else going on? For all these months did he invite you out? No? I thought so.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): Casually say what a bummer I was wanting to go and see this film and now my friend won't go... Lol and see what he says, he is not stupid so he will either ignore it or take you up on it. Hope it goes well sweetie, the valentines cd is real sweet of him to do for you.. That I would take as a hint haha .
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reader, shoez +, writes (17 February 2013):
ask him out. you have nothing to lose
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