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writes:Hello mates,,so i got a problem,This new guy came to our school and he is really cute well... sort of, and in a few weeks we formed a really special bond and everyone would always think i like him or he likes me.I ignored them but then again i started thinking about it but before i could confirm my feelings he already ended up in a relationship, but that didnt stop him from always wanting to be around me, he'd hold my hands tell me he loves me (though he probably meant it in a friendly way) but all my pals tell me he likes me!But he has a girlfriend!What should i do???
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reader, shoez  +, writes (17 February 2013):
yeah i'm in the same situation. he might genuinely like you. but does he like you enough to change his life for you. that's the million dollar question. if he's a decent guy, he must feel very confused his end as well. For you, you should just tell him you like him but unless he breaks up with his gf you guys are just friends - which means no holding hands, no sex.......keep him as a friend, in case he breaks up one day.....but keep your options open
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (17 February 2013):
It’s great that you’ve got a good friendship with this guy, but I’m sure you can see how holding your hand and saying he loves you is crossing a line that his girlfriend is unlikely to find acceptable. So perhaps you need to tell him that this kind of thing can’t be done whilst he’s in a relationship. IF he does like you the responsibility’s with him to end his relationship and if he doesn’t, it’s just friendship for you both.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, ihavetoomanythoughts  +, writes (17 February 2013):
 Tell him that you feel uncomfortable with the fact that he has a girlfriend but seems to be making moves on you. If he persists, then he doesn't respect you or his girlfriend and you should move on. If he leaves his girlfriend, you should be careful about dating him too soon. I know school can be a pretty harsh place and you don't want your experience to be ruined with dirty gossip. The main thing is to make a decision that will allow you to maintain your integrity, otherwise you might be in for a tough ride on the gossip mill.
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