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writes:Hi friends, one problem i have is that when i meet a guy...i will be fascinated by his looks and all but when we start dating, i begin to really dislike him and begin to give excuses and we will end up seperating. pls how do i treat this? Can i ever be married with this behaviour? Reply to this Question
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 No offense, but countries like Nigeria, India, the Middle East, and the other countries in Africa all have this problem of tradition vs reality.If you have internet, you do not need to think the way you think. The only reason a marriage will last is because you have a demonstrable love for one another that you develop over time as you get to know each other physically, emotionally, and spiritually.Forget about marriage for now. It is like a person in year 8 worrying about whether or not he will have good enough vision to become an astronaut.You have 1001 steps before you get to the part you are worrying about.Find the right guy... Then worry about dating... then worry about being in a serious relationship... then worry about moving in together... then worry about marriage... That is how human nature works!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 February 2013):
 The purpose of dating is to find out if you like the guy enough to look past his flaws. When you are young you can afford to be discriminating. It just means you won't get married and stuck with a guy you don't like. You can call yourself picky but what's more important here, getting married right away or your happiness? At your age marriage shouldn't even be on your mind.
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