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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's back with his wife and I am finding it hard to cope, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This had been one of the hardest days of my life and i have finally realised that i meant absoloutely nothing at all to him. I have not spoken to my ex for a month, not including the text i got just over two weeks ago. My ex responded a month ago to my many mesages saying t... (718 words)

He flirts with other girls too, so what do I do from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When i say i have bad luck when it comes to guys, "bad luck" doesn't even begin to cover it. I recently asked out this guy who i thought liked me to only to realize he thought of me as just a friend. but when i backed off he started flirting even more. it was like playing a ... (561 words)

How do I date him again when he broke up with me saying I had bad breath?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so embarrassed! I have been seeing this guy for 2 years, last year we broke up because he was not being affectionate with me.. he then told me that i have really bad breath. I was devastated and went to the dentist and doctor to be checked out, everything was said to be ... (243 words)

How do I make my move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I was hoping to get some advice on something. There's this girl who I recently met, a collegue of my best friend, who apparently has taken a shine to me. Me being oblivious as always hadn't noticed it. My friends tell me that it's possible that she's shy and wo... (141 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend because I can't get a job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - should i leave him . okay ive been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now . when we frist got togther i had a job and was making money and pulling my own weight well for the last year and a half ive been with out work and it has made things hard for him he lives on a fixed ... (141 words)

Was this guy touching me in a non-sexual way? Is that even possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of a long story, it's partly about what happened yesterday and partly about my entire life... Please bear with me! I'm an almost 20 year old girl, I'm a virgin and I've never had a boyfriend, and lately I've been getting frustrated about it. It's not that guys we... (492 words)

Could he be embarrassed by his family, or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for around 5 months now but i still haven't met any of his family. I am also under the impression he doesn't want me too as whenever his mum suggests coming to see him while he's in my company he gets out of it as quickly as possible and he ... (187 words)

I want to get back at my playboy ex boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to get my ex who is a playboy back. He is currently flirting with me after for so long we havent met. How do i play the game of playing hard and not giving him what him want to make him want me more? When he wants to kiss me, what should i do? We dont live i... (145 words)

What can I do with my lazy husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

- Please help, My new husband is so lazy. We both work full time (together) and normally get on ok. We have been together for 7 years but only recently decided to marry. A couple of years ago we bought a small house that needed some work doing on it.. Unfortunatly a month af... (163 words)

Boyfriend's crazy ex is harassing me. Should I just end things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend had a crazy ex who pops up at his house and now she's calling my phone and writing me on fb off his pg she hacked into. they havent been together for almost a year. she got him put in jail a few weeks back for something dumb that she made up and im tired of all her ... (99 words)

How do I get things back to the way they were with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 16 of age, and Gay. I have not come out to any one ever. I had a crush on a guy in my school. People always assumed that he was gay, and so did I. I started chatting with him last vacations over facebook. It turns out that we were similar in every way possible. We had the ... (447 words)

Help me with party planning!

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2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What can I do for my 21st birthday party this summer? I had a boat party last year and want to top it! Vegas is too expensive and I live in England so no beach parties, atlantic city or anything of that sort really. I was thinking of doing a really fun themed party, bu... (123 words)

My wife is angry so often and I really don't usually understand her thinking

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has become generally angry and I have no idea how to manage it. To me it's irrational, but it might make sense to someone out there in the ether who can offer some advice. As background, we live comfortably, have two young kids who are doing well both in school and ... (251 words)

How do I stay positive when my boyfriend could be in jail for six months?

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2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im so stressed and depressed, my boyfriend has been in jail for 20 days so far and most likely will be incarcerated for 3-6 months. I've been talking on the phone and visiting him alot but i just feel like its not enough i know i cant do more but i just wish i could. im so out ... (98 words)

Should I start really thinking about who my real friends are?

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2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I hope you can help me out here... So my boyfriend shares a flatmate with his friend, Graham. for new years eve his flat mate suggested that they have a party in their flat, alot of their friends all live far away as they only live in this city for university. this was... (629 words)

I know he comes home to me but why does he have to be so close to these other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I would just like some advice on how to handle my situation and If I am being too jealous? I was dating a guy a while back which didn't work out as he had only been single for about 3 weeks and didn't want to jump back into a relationship. Anyway a few months ago he got b... (257 words)

How do I build up the courage to ask this guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, my previous question, that I asked yesterday, was about the guy I really like and what to do, I'm not going to go in to too much detail, see the question titled 'I'm too nervous to ask him out. What should I do?' if you want to know. Basically, I've decided that I w... (257 words)

Is passion in a platonic relationship possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My virgin girlfriend (28) of 1.5 years and I (27) have a wonderful, loving relationship. The lack of intimacy troubles me but there's only so many times you can bring this topic up without seeming like your pressuring her. Would you all be so kind as to share your thoughts ... (211 words)

My ex and I have a FWB relationship now, but during intimate moment he said he wanted more, then said he was kidding. How do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex, John, have had an on-again, off-again relationship for the past two years. We met through mutual friends and just talked and were friends for about 9 months and then decided to give love a try. We broke up after a couple months because he had a lot of financial ... (401 words)

When is it ok just to give up because you don't know what to do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone that takes time to read my question!!! But in just Really sad and down. I've posted on here a couple of months back about me not having a way to school and how I don't know what Should I do?!! Its a new year ( Happy 2012) but same problem. I Really don't know Wha... (404 words)

I feel guilty doing things my mother disapproves of, but should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Over the past year, I have begun the process of "growing up". I'm getting ready to graduate from college, moving out of my mom's house, I've been applying for jobs, etc. In a few days, I'm leaving for a New Year's vacation with my boyfriend, and this will be the f... (173 words)

I'm thinking I'm holding onto this girl in the hopes that when she loses weight, I'll already be the one dating her...is this a bad thought?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - so ive been talking to this girl over msn and we have connected straight away. we like all the same stuff and we have been talking to each other basically all day everyday since we started talking vis texting and msn. we both like each other and we are meeting up of th... (189 words)

I'm a boy and I like the guy that helps me in History. How do I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 years old boy and I'm bi. I've got a guy that helps me in History and he's 28 and, to be honest, I really like him as a man. I'm 99.9% sure he's gay, based on the way he acts, speaks etc and sometimes, when he's into his teaching very much and touches my leg I can ... (213 words)

How can I speak to him other than facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to have a crush on this guy at school and we recently found each other on facebook. We didn't go out with each other back then though, and he didn't know i had a crush on him then. I sent him a message once, wishing him a happy birthday, and he wrote back thanking me and ... (190 words)

I want him to feel like it's his loss...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, please don't tell me not to bother or there is no point doing this. Because I really want to, so just any advice on how to do this will be helpful! I met this guy about a week ago, he is so very confident in himself and sure that he can get any and every girl. Whic... (312 words)

I'm in love with her, but she wants nothing to do with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - there this girl I loved when I was young and I feel like I still do, you see this girl was the girl who got my attention in a way I couldn't imagine and the way I felt about her before was beyond amazing and when ever I saw her, I always told myself she is the love my life ... (137 words)

Is she trying to make a move on my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles there's something about the relationship btw my bf and his close friend (let's call her J) that's bugging me. The other day I asked how his day out with J went and he told me that she said she loved him out of the blue. And it wasn't "I love as a friend", ... (252 words)

Aspie obsessed over girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I am a aspie (a person with Asperger's Syndrome) and could use some advise concerning my current crush. For those of you who don't know about asperger's... well I am pretty bad at reading body language and have been (and probably will always be) clueless even when ... (1302 words)

After everything that has happened, I'm sad for days on end, but don't want to get medicated!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya, I'm 31 and married with 2 children an 8year old and one about to turn 1. I would consider myself a happy go lucky person that takes everything in my stride normally. recently I have found everyday things harder and herder to cope with, and I keep feeling upset and crying ... (239 words)

B/f cheated on me while I was pregnant. How do I let him know how very much he hurt me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend cheated on me while i was pregnant with our 3rd child with his friend sister. He paid her money for oral sex, he told me about it a week after it happened and it broke me up inside, he says he is sorry and has shown it but i need to let him know how much it hurt ... (85 words)

Why can't my boyfriend just tell this girl he isn't interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. During this time there has been another girl in the background. They do have a past were they were once friends which led to a bit more but nothing serious came of it. However she cant seem to leave hi... (220 words)

Getting over someone when you don't want to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How the hell do i get over someone that i really don't want to get over? It's been 2 months and i'm still sitting here at 2 in the morning unable to sleep. ... (33 words)

I don't know her name, but I know I'm in love with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys i'm in love with a girl who lives in my neighbourhood.its been a year since i have fell in love with her, but its been long since i haven't seen her .i don't know much about her, even not her name but all i know is i love her she was living in another town for a whil... (123 words)

I've been offered a year job in Asia but after a horrible experience there, I'm not sure if I should go back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Nearly a decade ago when I was still in my late teens, I was travelling in Thailand and I had an incident that has left me reeling ever since. I had been drinking so no excuses there but a Thai girl approached and started talking to me. I can't remember why I followed her but ... (561 words)

Pregnant to my married ex lover!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I had been having an affair with a married man for nearly two years when it came to an abrupt end 6 weeks ago when his wife caught him on the phone to me. We have not spoken since however we did work at the same company and he got me dismissed for harrasing his wi... (237 words)

Our friendship is slowly going downhill.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl and I have worked together for a little over a year. I never really talked to her much until around July. We seemed to hit it off and we would hang out every lunch and break. I found out she had a boyfriend and I was fine with that. We still hung out. Maybe about a ... (360 words)

I'm worried about something going horribly wrong the first time we have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was wondering how to prepare for losing my virginity. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and he is a virgin also. We both want to have sex, he's just a little more confident about it. I'm scared that something is going to go horribly wrong. So what are some tips to help me prepare ... (64 words)

I'm afraid my body is strange and a guy won't like it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and my vagina lips and labia hang farther down than most girls. I've read about this online because of my insecurities... And so far, most of the results say that it's normal. But i'm still scared that I will be judged for it (I refuse to have any appearance-related ... (130 words)

In a relationship with man, but this needs to end! Please help because he refuses!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m in a huge dilemma. I am in a relationship with a man I’m not supposed to. I want to end this. First off, let me say that throughout my whole life, I have been very insecure and I lacked a huge amount of confidence. I was very vulnerable to any male influence, so when thi... (528 words)

He is always accusing me! Does this mean he's upto no good? help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with my bf 4 yrs now and he's had trust issues from the beginning. For starters I've always been loyal and I show him how much I love him. At first I chalked things off to insecurites, he's very jealous as well. He can be very hot and cold, some anger issue... (151 words)

Should I go out with a girl who isn't a Christian?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids, I am a very strong Believer and follower of Jesus Christ (in other words, I'm a Christian) and I think I'm in love with a girl that isn't Christian. Is this alright? Should I go for this girl and ask her out? Sincerely, A madly in-love guy.... (65 words)

What should I do? I love her but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids, There's this girl that I'm CRAZY FOR. She says that I'm her "favorite guy" and that she'd "rather hang out with me than any of her other guy friends." We talk every day and I've been building up the courage to ask her out, when I found out recently that SH... (183 words)

Sex turned into love with my boss 20 years older than me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im 20 i started texting my boss after a few months of working for him, hes 20 years older than me and things started to get steamy he wanted things to move on but i wouldnt because of the age the whole work thing. but we kept.texting then i agreed to just have sex with him no ... (133 words)

What is the physical disadvantage of not having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - whats the physical disadvantage of not having sex, will something bad happen when you stay a virgin for long, and its not like its a choice its just that if there's no right sexual partner?... (35 words)

Should I stop being in contact with my ex? Or break up with my boyfriend? CONFUSED!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating a guy named matthew for over two months now.my best guy friend,andrew , who is also my ex, tried to kiss me on new years knowing that i have a boyfriend.that night he txt me.and he never txts me.hardly ever at all.i was surprised.he told me that i was really ... (175 words)

My friend is becoming a slut and its worrying me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Recently, my best friend who I have been friends with for 10 years is becoming a real slut, she's 14 and doing things with 20 year olds and turning to drink more and more frequently. I myself have never drunk or done any of these things, but I'm really really worried about how ... (69 words)

I didn't mean to, but now I'm stuck faking orgasms for my boyfriend!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The first time me and my boyfriend did anything sexual, which was just fingering, I faked it. I dont know why, but I could tell he was getting tired, and frustrated, because i've never actually orgasmed before, and although it felt really good, I didn't want him to feel like a ... (137 words)

Would a guy stick around if a girl didn't trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Would a guy stick around a girl who accused him of random things and have so much patience to hope one day she trusts him if he really was doing those things? I.e. flirting, sending pictures, etc. She had no evidence of him cheating but she accused and he got sick of it but ... (93 words)

We've been friends for years, should we not try to date again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I started dating this guy about 2 weeks ago. But he's not just any guy .. he has been one of my closest friends for like 8 years... I've known the guy since we were in junior high and we've actually tried dating in the past but it has never really worked out mostly ... (382 words)

How can I give my boyfriend hints for him to touch me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! Im 14 years old, and me and boyfriend (who is also 14) have been dating for four months now. My boyfriend is a very kind and gental person, and he has never asked me to do anything i don't want to, or he thinks i don't want to, and i appreciate it alot! I don't mean sex... (174 words)

He's 16, my friend's brother, should I try to get his attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi agony aunts :) I'm having a bit of a quarrel with myself lately..I like this boy, who I'm kinda good friends with. And we hang out sometimes because he's my friends brother, but she's pretty ok with it so dont freak out. And she sometimes drops hints that he might like me ... (134 words)

How do you talk to a guy about sex without ruining their self confidence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have a fantastic sex life. We are very comfortable with each other, and we communicate very well. He is a very generous lover, as am I, and I feel like we're both spoiled! The problem is, we recently had an argument where the number of guys I've slept ... (437 words)

I have been having a relationship (no sex) with a married man, because I was in need of money. I want to end this now, but how do I do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What I am about to tell you is something that I have not admitted to ANYONE. I am so afraid of being judged.. I am about to pour my heart out, so please be honest but try not to be unkind. I met an older man. Let's call him Theo. I was attracted to him right away... he... (989 words)

My friends hang out without me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I wrong for getting mad when my friends hang out without me.... When they were mad at eachother they talked to me all the time but then when I helped them patch things up they don't talk to me unless one gets mad at someone and need to vent which isn't often and the other ... (105 words)

Drunken encounter and now he won't respond!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I went to a New Year's party and was reintroduced to this guy *Justin, 15*. He went to my school for only a couple months in 4th grade, and now we're both in 9th, with us never speaking, then his mom died so he moved and I hadn't seen him since. Well, he happened to be at the ... (377 words)

I said I would respect her decision but then I questioned it.

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2 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Been good friends with this girl for a long time now, I think almost a year. We dated when we first met, but at the time school got in the way and we had to end it :P She was recently seeing someone, so I kinda just setteled for being friends. She recently asked m... (476 words)

My B/f was chatting with another girl, about cuddling and licking chocolate off her breasts!! How do I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - He left himself logged in and curiosity got the better of me. I recognize the girl he spoke to and i think he's been with her in the past before me. Him: Hey 3 Her: Hey Him: How are you baby? Her: Good thanks, yourself? Him: Good thanks. :) Do you think it would ... (325 words)

How can I save our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you think how common mid-life crises is? Are there many marriage brakes down from the husband's mid-life crises? And what do you think, what are the sign's of that? I see several of my friends, that their husband is leaving with a young woman, after several years of ... (153 words)

I'm in love with one of my best friends. Should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4499 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - I think I love one of my best friends, the only problem is that I've only really met her once and will most likely only see her once a year- her dad is a family friend who was invited on a camping trip which was how I met her- despite meeting her only once, I probably speak to ... (108 words)

B/f in a coma because he tried to save my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was on a double date with my best friend, so all together there was me and my boyfriend, and my best friend and his girlfriend. We were walking back home when suddenly a car came speeding past us (turns out it was a drunk driver). I probably would have gotten seriously... (237 words)

I'm afraid my insecurities will push people away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a wonderful girl since the start of November. We have went on about 5 dates, text most days and call each other once a week. I am 26 and she is 22. I don't date often, and I have only had one relationship. I have a tenancy to sabotage my relationships because ... (260 words)

If I am a girl 17 and he is 4 years my junior then who makes the first move? Is this OK?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

2 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some help. I am in love with a close friend but I don't know what to do about it. I am a girl 17 years old, but I am 4 years older than him, so who should make the first move? Who should make the first move me a girl or him a guy 4 years younger than me. Pleas... (84 words)