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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it too soon to propose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

14 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok well im 41 divorced for 9 years and i don't have children. I'm in a relationship 15 months with an Irish girl living in America. We met about 16 months ago at a wedding and were friends first until we got into a relationship. To be honest when we met at first i didn't t... (459 words)

What prepartions should I make for losing my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts. Just after the stage of dating, myself and my partner proposed taking things further. We became really intimate. He became very sexually aroused. I didn't though :-/ We were in a situation where we almost had sex although I bottled it :( I wasn't at all se... (137 words)

How do I learn not to sabotage great relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I ruined a chance with a great guy.. again!! Probably because he wasn't a dick, or messed with my head by playing games like other guys always did... It was going really good, but I stupidly started to act like I was busy, just to see if he was still interested and h... (286 words)

He says he was in a bad place at the time ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my boyfriend of 10 years had been involved in a texting relationship. I also found a large amount of computer file folders with womens pictures. Each woman had their own folder. The women were downloaded pictures from facebook, so most of them I knew. One ... (123 words)

How can I cope up with being single again...I don't know how to do this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared of being alone. 24, with a lof of my friends getting engaged/married...what is up with people?? I broke up with my boyfriend in October last year. Since then, i haven't dated anyone. I haven't even met anyone as such. An old friend of mine asked me out...but ... (188 words)

Tips on how not to come across as 'clingy'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend have beeb together for 1 year and he is the love of my life. Hes my best friend and true love all in one. But latly we have been having problems. I geuss. He says im to clingy and annoying, even emmbaresing :(... But he is not affectio... (164 words)

I can't prove it's an ex texting my 14yo sex comments!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I caught my ex sexualy cheating for the second time. This was 9 months ago. Since the split she had constantly tried to get me back. She blamed me both times saying i had neglected her needs, in which she couldnt explain why. Since she accepted i was never going back it has ... (130 words)

Never had a 'real' orgasm

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have never experienced a 'real' g-spot orgasm. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now and have had to fake it every time. When we first started having sex, we had it a lot - he wasn't amazing then but he lost his virginity to me, so I just assumed that he'd get... (293 words)

How do I let the small stuff go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to learn to pick my battles with my bf but I don't know how. When something upsets me, I try to evaluate it, and even when I think it's not a big deal, but am still offended, I feel like saying to myself that it's not worth fighting over just minimizes or trivializes my ... (311 words)

How do you let a guy know you think he's cute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you let a guy know that you think he is cute, without making things awkward afterwards? I'm very quiet and so is the guy in question.... (28 words)

Is he too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and recently started dating 31 year old man. We get on well, but is 11 years too big an age gap for a relationship to work in the long run? ... (33 words)

How do you find out if a man is gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Let's say you like a guy at work and have doubts whether he is gay or straight. Is it a good idea to ask another co-worker (declared gay) about the first one? Can it be that the second guy goes and tells the guy I like about my suspicion? What would you do to find out for sure? ... (64 words)

Prom dilemma

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help I bought a dress for prom and over the last month I have put on weight. And I need to loose weight quick and fast I'm a fussy eater and I can't to fancy diets I just need a plan to help me loose weight in under a month hope someone can help me I would be very ... (94 words)

The ex , the old guy, the inlaws and my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 an my life is a big disgrace an sham . I m in a relationship wit a split up male who is twice my age wit two adults kids near enough my age . I ve being with him for nearly 6years now things were ok till his ex got cancer , I stood by him an she got through it an just ... (1042 words)

We want to leave our spouses for each other...are we doing the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am married to a controlling husband 17 yrs older than me i no longer luv him cos of his nature,i fell in luv with a married man 5yrs older than me we have the same likes and dislikes,we think about the the same things,we are planing to leave our passive spouses and leave ... (70 words)

Is he a player. Should I stop texting him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts! I went clubbing for the first time on Thursday night. I met a guy 4 years older than me. He kept trying to snog me :-/ I swapped numbers with him. Thing is he has tried phoning me 3 times. He has text me asking if we could meet up again, but he also said ... (134 words)

Should I wait until after graduation to tell her how I've been feeling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost 100% positive that i have fallen in love. But it is wrong on so many levels.First of all, it is one of my teachers, and second of all she is the same sex as me. That has disapproval written all over it. I am a senior in high school, 18 years old and she is 28 so ... (703 words)

I never wanted to be in this gay relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and D have been texting and talking on the phone since three years now. Since 1 yr we are in touch on the phone. We have grown so close that I have become too addicted to him. I think about him too much, but these days he cuts off all connections with me for a day or two and ... (175 words)

I asked him for a second date, was this bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I met a guy online. We communicated via email for about two weeks, really nice and interesting and long messages. We went on a first date yesterday evening. He commuted by train 3 hours here and back to see me. We talked for 4.5 hours, and he left because I sugges... (182 words)

How do you move on when you still have hope for reconciliation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - We broke up 2 weeks ago. Tried to be friends but I love him to much to stay 'friendzoned'. I want him and miss him terribly, even though the breakup was inevitable. Unfortunately, the last bit of contact we had was pretty ugly, and the only time either of us had lashed out ... (260 words)

Am I paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. my husband of 10 years is acting up .2yrs ago I went on went to visit my family and he stayed with our 2 kids. when got back after two months,told me a bad rumur was spreading at his work that he was having an affair with his PA and said was not true. she always ... (205 words)

What's your take on all this. He's been through a lot and I'm confused and a little curious about what you think....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long so I'll try to set the details out clearly. I would like some insight, but no bad judgements please. "Liam" is an 18 year old male. He doesn't trust anyone after continuous bullying and physical abuse from peers. The closest person to him, his dad, died ... (410 words)

Should I move on and date other guys after my break up and risk losing my ex for good or hang around and wait for a reconciliation and risk being bitterly disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

14 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts, I've just come out of a 6 year relationship. My ex broke it off because he said he needed some space to think about where his life is headed and for some independence. I accept this and understand as we were together for a long time and we both value our space an... (186 words)