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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Scheduled to work 2 years overseas and now I think I've met "the one"! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that when ever something is planned e.g. overseas travel someone really cool comes into your life. Ive been out of a relationship for a wee while now and around a month or so ago I was set up with this amazing guy. we have gotten to know each other and i find myself ... (144 words)

Six months after the breakup I still numb and empty. Will I ever be me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel this way? is this normal?:(? My ex boyfriend broke up with me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore. He ripped my heart out. I've never been hurt. I loved him so much. Thought I've finally found the one. He wants us to be friends and says I ha... (163 words)

Is this common to have chronic impotence without medical cause?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age - I need some helpful advice here, because I'm close to lose my wife, after long marriage. I'm impotent, and I had several medical investigation, because I thought it must have a medical cause, as I didn't think, it was psychological issue. But they never found anything wrong ... (129 words)

Runaway from a bad drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - After leaving a guy alone for four months we started kinda of talking again I'm the one that does the communication first and then he response back to me but the problem is that he said he loved me, mind you when we get around others we are fighting or just have some fun but ... (131 words)

I want to be with my friend's ex. Should I tell her or just forget about him?

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19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, after finally escaping from a 2 year emotionally abusive relationship, I have met the perfect man, he's lovely, caring, funny, sensitive, a real gentleman, and the reason I know this is his real personality and not just a front... I have known the man 4 years, and for the ... (365 words)

Why all of a sudden did she stop texting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been texting this girl for the past four days, we've been texting back and forth always having something to say, just seem to get along really great and have banter! Then yesterday I texted her and she hasn't replied, in fact it's nearly been two days.. I'm not being a ... (116 words)

Why would someone cheat and then come up with excuses?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age - Just out of curiosity I would like to hear other opinions on why someone would cheat on either a wife/husband or a live in BF/GF? and then come up with all kinds of excuses as to why they can't give the other person what it is they want IE; "i have to take care of my sick ... (85 words)

Is he embarrassed to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy told me he lvd me but i never believed him. i later find out that a friend of mine was warning him to stay away from me cuz she thought he wasnt the right guy 4 me. wheneva we chat he constantly keep askin me about that girl. He has even been calling her even n my ... (106 words)

The ex and I work together and she makes things really uncomfortable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - basically we ended things 6 months back and I was angry at her for doing horrible thing to me and we made peace because we had good time being together and since 3-4 months her behavior is now much more hostile towards me,after flip flopping there is no problem btw us finally ... (168 words)

How do you live up to the reputation of a man's 1st love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend almost half a year. its my 2nd relationship. hes had lots if im honest but only ever been in love once, with his fisrt girlfriend. and i feel like i'll never be able to match her or be as good as her. he told me himself im 2nd best and that she was ... (104 words)

My husband was sex texting his ex and I can't trust him now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - about a year ago i found that my husband to be, was sex texting his ex. i almost left him, but we just had a baby and i really love him (typical). he has been proving to me all year how devoted he is to the family. we r a family of 5. 2 other children from another marriage. i ... (159 words)

Boyfriend all of a sudden making new friends and it bothers me

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19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I are on a break. Anyway, before, he'd never really make any new friends especially girls. Now all of a sudden he went out for his friend's 21st birthday and he added on Facebook 2 of the girls that were there. I got a little jealous of the one I'd never ... (330 words)

Doggy style caused a tear. Will it heal on its own?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend around 2 months and was a virgin before I met him. We have a pretty decent sex life and are very happy together. Today, however, we attempted to do doggy-style, which I, obviously, have never done before. It was very painful and we gave up and did it ... (135 words)

Online fling caused my guy to walk out of a 3 year relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is a stupid online fling what i had a good reason for my guy of 3 years to walk out on me and our 2 kids? I never even went meeting the guy. The worst i did was a bit of naughty chat. Would you agony aunts think he was looking for an excuse to bail out? You dont walk out over ... (65 words)

I'm not an Alpha Male but do I still have a chance with Women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have the most bizzar issue in the world of dating and I am certian that I am the only heterosexual male who has encountered this. I've been very successful but I was alway thought of in a negative light by my family so I have never really seen myself as the desirable guy that ... (513 words)

He tells me through facebook that we can't go out because he has no cash??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so upset. I was supposed to be going out with this guy, and he replied to a comment i sent him on his facebook page saying " I can't believe it. I have no cash. They haven't processed my claim. I have to sit alone, in my new home ". Then he wrote another comment saying " ... (235 words)

I've had 2 relationships but slept with 60 guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, im 21 and have slept with 60 boys, but only ever had 2 serious realtionships. i know i have to change my ways but i dont know how help !!... (35 words)

In love with another man, how do I leave my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a very difficult situation. I could really use everybody's help. I have been married for many years and have children. I have not been happy in my marriage for the last several years but stayed because of the children, financial security and because I was comfortable ... (370 words)

Do men like romantic, tender sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i love to create a romantic atmosphere (scented candles ,rose petals ,silk sheets ,nice music ,food and wine ) making love slowly ,looking into the guy eyes ,hearing his breath and pulling him closer to me.... am i too idealistic ... (47 words)

Sticky Situation pregnant and confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So im currently 5 months pregnant, and have been in this relationship for a little over 10 months. We certainly rushed into things real quick and not I am not only regreting the fact that we rushed it so quick but the situation im in as well. I stay at home all day pretty much ... (377 words)

How can I tell this teacher that I respect and appreciate what he does for my class?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, just a quick one :) There is a teacher (no, I don't fancy him/ love him etc) but I do really appreciate him. He is such a lovely guy even in class and we have had a few out of class discussions. We get on well, but I am nothing special to him really. He put... (311 words)

Are there women and men that think (like me) that oral sex is not romantic ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - u can`t feel the emotional connection with ur lover , i know that it feels good but not that good to me i`d rather have sex i`m talking about a loving,tender relathionship not a one night stand u can`t look in their eyes and feel the connection nor hear their breath... (73 words)

Have you ever dated your brother or sister's friend and then asked after them over the years

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19 January 2012 (F) - Have you ever dated your brother's or sister's friend in the past for a short period and as the years went by did you ever have a thought of looking them up again ie turning up on their doorstep 3 years later. Also did you ever ask your sibling about what that ex was up to ... (106 words)

Why isn't a man ready to commit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I wouldn't have problem with that at all if I was living close to the one I love, but I'm not. We're a 12hr flight apart (he's from the USA and I'm from Europe) and it's not very easy to deal with the distance. We have been together for a year and a half now, he tells me he ... (827 words)

Why would you stay with someone who ruined your life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does he say these horrible things to me? My partner and i of 7 yrs have called time on our relationship. After another incident of abuse both phyisical and verbal in front of my kids i told him id had enough. although i only have the odd bruise he seems to think it wasnt ... (250 words)

Do I need to continue or end it?

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19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! Do I need to continue or end it? We've been together for 3 years. People always told me that he's cheating on me, but I don't mind because I know he's into me. That time I don't believe there are people like that who really cheats their girlfriends ( I guess I have ... (318 words)

Getting my marriage back on track - please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear All Helping souls, I am from a south asian country - India - and have a problem. Being a workaholic I have repeatedly given preference to my work over family and wife. (family has one 3.5 years old child and we are married for 6 years). We are 38-32 years old c... (575 words)

Before he asks, should I tell my b/f who was the last guy I slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend at a club event i attend every month, he and i hit it off and since he was from out of state and didnt know anyone i introduced him to my friends, he socializes mostly with a couple i introduced him too, and hes becoming good friends with the guy. Only ... (206 words)

I cant orgasm during intercourse is it my fault or his?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im very physically and mentally attracted to my boyfriend, but when we had sex i NEVER orgasm, i only orgasm when he fingers me, when we have sex it lasts awhile, long enough to where i should have "gotten off" but i dont even though the sensation is there that im about to, but ... (91 words)

Is it ok to cry tears of joy or is it too much too soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating a guy for only a few months now, and i can honestly admit i love 100% everything about him and hes amazing and treats me with the most respect and supports me Sometimes i feel so happy when im alone, i cry in tears of happiness that i found someone so special ... (173 words)

How to keep my new girlfriend from cheating, without seeming over-bearing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a girl, with a girlfriend and we have been together for a month and a few days. I looked at her facebook the other day and a girl she used to have a thing with has been messaging her, and she's been texting her phone also. To keep my girlfriend from cheating i have bee... (138 words)

How to word those thanksyous ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - all of my family members generously gave me money for Christmas, please can you give me some tips of what to write in a thank you note. I always write 'it was greatly appreciated' and want it to be different this year , thank you ... (45 words)

My feelings are so strong that I have trouble dating other girls but she only want to be friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So there's this girl that's pretty much my bestest friend. The fun we can have together is un-freaking believable, and I love her to death. A little while back we were kinda poking at the idea of being a little more than friends. She admitted to me that she had had a crush on ... (275 words)

I don't know the cause of his shut down.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this guy late last year like November who according to me, we were friends then perhaps began dating but he wanted a full relationship with me being his girlfriend which I accepted this January. We had a small misunderstanding with me not acknowleging him on my ... (185 words)

Not being told the truth about the past. Am I expecting too much or thinking too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been going out for about 10 months and we intend to have a future together and working on it. We are in our early thirties. We are at the dating stage, living separately, and intend to move in together when the time is right. I have a few things I want to get out ... (516 words)

He flirts with me. Do you think I MIGHT be coming out of the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - SO... I liked this guy all summer he's 29 I'm 21 he works as a bar back at this bar i frequent. So i see him every weekend when i go to play pool. He flirted with me constantly throughout the summer and lead me to believe that he liked me too. he hinted that we were compatib... (736 words)

We didn't actually have full blown sex, but could I be pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this may sound weird, I've never had sex before, but I am planning on with my boyfriend in a few months. Anyway yesterday me and my boyfriend tried putting his member in down there just to see if it would work/fit, he took it out after 5 seconds because it was ... (86 words)

Every time I visit my boyfriend and then go home, he says I don't love him, I abandoned him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time I visit my boyfriend, and then go home, he says I don't love him, I abandoned him, and starts acting like a jerk, being critical, not calling, or answering the phone for weeks on end, etc. So much drama. And somehow we get back to talking again, and he admits he has ... (145 words)

How should I approach guys I'm interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a gay senior in high school, and though it's not extremely "hard" in the sense that their are (many) homophobes, nobody else is out, to the general public at least. However, I was wondering how to approach a guy, closeted or curious, to maybe get with, either long-term or ... (119 words)

The ex and her text

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I go crazy every single time I see my boyfriends ex commenting on his facebook status I just wish she was not there or even in his friends. Every time I ask him to delete her, he says he is afraid it will cause drama. My thought is she is an ex she serves no purpose ... (173 words)

Noisy sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is making noise during sex important?... (6 words)

The ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4481 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my friends ex boyfriend likes me and I don't think you should date your friends ex`s, but all my other friends said it would be fine. So he asked me out and I said no and now some of my friends are mad at me but the friend who`s ex it was is happy I said no, but I kind of ... (67 words)

She's a keeper but what she did hurt me, should I stay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months. I'm pretty sure that's not a lot for some people. But for me this is my first long relationship. We have been best friends through it all. I really love her so much. So about a month back there was an accident. My ... (246 words)

How do I ask my gf to have sex?

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19 January 2012 (M) age 26-29 - So I want to have sex with my gf, and I don't know if she wants it or not. Both of us are 16, and we've been dating for a month and a half. and both of us are virgins. anyone got advice??... (43 words)

Are these signs that she likes me? And is she too old for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi im in a dilemma and i have 2 simple questions i need answered,so here it goes. So i started talking to this girl at school and shes the sister of one of my friends. She's cool and i am attracted to her. Today she told me she was freezing and she told me to feel her hand so... (213 words)

What should I do to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my best friend. But I'm not sure if he does or not. But I can't tell him, I'm afraid of loosing him. I just wanna forget this feeling, I'm tired of getting hurt again and again. Please can anyone tell me any way of getting out of this pain. He doesn't love me, he is just ... (92 words)

I found out she cheated, should I stay or go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with that girl for over a year now, but I feel like she has a little problems with the word commitment. She has two kids for two different fathers, and the second one when she had it, she was not even divorced. I have found out she has cheated with her ex while she ... (90 words)

This is long but very important. I need your help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - In order to get my point across I have to tell the whole story, sorry if this is long:/ So I come from a history of girls ruining me. Well, just one actually.. She was my first and i had strong feeling for her. In short, everything she told me was a lie and ended up sleepin... (1553 words)

Boyfriend being childish about going down on me. Anyone else having the same issues? What did you do about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, its more something to rage off a bit. I've seen these topics a lot but still, I just NEED to rage it off. The point is, I've been in a very loving relationship for like 7 months now, and we're sexually very active, I have given my boyfriend blowjobs from like, sinc... (548 words)

Is he just keeping me on the side, or is he really saying the truth?

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19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend has been broke up over a week now... we broke up cause he said he needed a break from the relationship cause he needs to focus on graduating high school. He works and goes to school and he said me being mad at him all the time for hanging out with his ... (313 words)

Men, do you watch porn? Woman, are you okay with your man watching it?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I need to know answersfrom men an women! Men do you all watch porn? Me an my boyfriend of 6 years has had this issue I the past year I found him lookin at porn. So it hurts that he has to look at other women it's not like he's watching a video for the act! Would any man ... (104 words)

We talked about a three-way but my boyfriend won't even talk to the other girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello For about a year now me and my boyfriend have talked about the idea of having another girl in our relationship. Mostly in a sexual way, but not purely just that... we actually want a 3 way relationship. Anyway, so we talk about this A LOT, and thinking back, I'm pretty... (198 words)

Boyfriend contacts suicidal ex-girlfriend

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19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short: my boyfriend regularly contacts his suicidal ex-girlfriend to make sure she is not going to kill herself and he lied to me about this contact for a long time because he didn't think I would understand and it hurts him to talk about. We were in a long d... (679 words)

How can I change this pattern?

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19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I know in one way I sounded be complaining but I'm fed up of being used. Don't get me wrong I do get male attention and fo get called hot, sexy, beatuiful went u go out and get questioned why am I single, but truthly I font know the answer. I was in a reationship fo... (262 words)

Is this girls behaviour normal or am I just going nuts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I started to talk this girl last week online. We live in the same area and have some mutual friends. We ended up talking to each other for long periods of time, eventually got her number and now we text all day and she likes me to ring her at night. We are going to meet Friday. ... (179 words)

Ladies -- I can't reach the O!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a big issue ladies!! i cant NOT reach the big O! it's not like i'm new to having sex either. it feels good when my guy fingers me and when i have clitoral stimulation with my vibrator but when i have sex i dont feel anything, maybe some pain or discomfort but definitely ... (71 words)

I thought he loved me and he said I was special and it hurt me that he suddenly felt nothing.

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19 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I’m going through a hard time with a guy. I met him quite recently and when we first started going out it was perfect. Just fantastic. He told me he loved me after just a few weeks and I felt the same back he said he wanted to live with me in a few months time once... (530 words)

College g/f asked a guy to hook up while drunk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I met my girlfriend towards the end of my junior year. She was a senior at the time and I was nervous about getting attatched because she would be leaving for college. After hanging out everyday in the summer i started to really like her and I decided to ask her out. I was ... (325 words)