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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Awkward breakup but I still want to be with him. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend broke up with me today. I hadn't expected this at all, but lately I'd been noticing that he'd been a bit distant. So I decided to ask him today if he actually liked me at all. He put his head down so I couldn't see his face and said, "I don't know." I asked again. ... (211 words)

I need a creative and romantic way to ask my boyfriend to prom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basic scoop: I'm in a relationship with a guy who lives a few cities away. It takes about forty-five or more, depending on traffic, to go to his house, or vice versa. So obviously we don't go to the same school together. It's senior year, and, as the girl in the relation... (215 words)

Does being blown a kiss mean anything?

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11 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was blown a kiss today by a girl in university. We met but didn't really know one another at all a few months ago, but have been chatting a lot online lately.... we get on, but...I dunno is this meaning anything? (we had just had a brief chat and she blew me a kiss as we... (82 words)

Am I in the running to get hurt big time even though he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I hope you can help me as I just don't know how to play this situation that I am in. My fella and I have been together 6 months, he has kids from a previous relationship. I haven't met them yet, as I thought its best to take things slow, for their sake and mine. It has ... (292 words)

I wish I'd shown him what he meant to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all! I'll keep this as brief as possible. But I dated my ex housemate a couple of months back. When we lived together, I was attracted to him, and although he portrays the silent/loner type, I knew that he was a good person and just something about him got under my skin. ... (423 words)

I'm afraid I've been dumped and I'm devastated!

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11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please help,i have been dating this man for 3months but he is my ex,in the first relationship we dated for six months now two weeks ago his phone wasnt going through he was off,,since then i have been trying to call him his phone is still of i have send messages and when it ... (215 words)

Queefing during doggy-style, is there any way to stop it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend have sexual intercourse, we tried the 'doggy style' position, I love it because of the deep penetration but whenever we do it, my vagina makes a weird 'farting' noise? People call it a 'queef'. When it happens I stop and I'm like whats that?! And my ... (71 words)

I have broken things off with the 'other guy' and now I feel heartbroken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice, I have been cheating on my partner of 7 years (who I have a child with) for 3 months. I have slept with this other man twice, met up with him 8 times and have been speaking/texting on the phone to him everyday. A week ago we decided that it had to ... (232 words)

Should I encourage my friend to work on his marriage or support him to leave it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

11 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - A friend of mine is going through a lot of pain. His wife cheated on him a few years back for 3 years. The affair ended in 2008 when he found it out. It was so bad that he is not sure that his son is biologically his. There is a 50% chance. He is a good father to his son and ... (284 words)

Found boyfriend on a fetish website!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. He is very kind, sweet and generous and I've never had any doubts that he's a good person. The only real problem we've had is his porn usage - I don't like it, I think the majority is degrading to women, but he insists every guy ... (578 words)

Should I send him a private message or post it on his FB wall?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you prefer writing comments on someone's wall on Facebook, or sending them private messages? I want to arrange a date with this guy, but I'm not sure whether to send him a comment or a private message. I'm worried in case he won't see the private message, like, if he forgets ... (140 words)

Should I come out? too much is at stake but I'm suffocating like this

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey dear agony aunts^^ i had made a question some days ago about how to tell all the people that wanna set me up with guys to leave me alone. well i finally got the edge to that but i think of coming out anyway. see my dad and i had a talk just now and i get the feeling ... (309 words)

How can we our first time spectacular?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so early last year I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend at the time. So that was my "first time" whether I liked it or not. Yeah, I know, how lovely. Anyway, I now have a new, wonderful boyfriend whome is a virgin and we're discussing having sex. However, h... (115 words)

My friend kissed me and I'm gay, I'm not sure what to do now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My really close female friend kissed me today and I'm kind of freaking out :/ I'm gay and in the year above her. I'm openly gay at school but not to the point of being obvious and she knows that I wouldn't be interested for obvious reasons. I handled the situation as goo... (105 words)

I feel I'm being pressured to move in with my boyfriend. I'm fine where I am!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd appreciate your perspectives on whether I should move in with my bf or whether it is ok for me to want to keep things as they are, as I feel I am being pressurised into something I don't want to do:( He's been asking me to move into his flat for months, and I've... (872 words)

Had SUCH an embarrassing moment on this date, is he now scared away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Question This was SUCH an embarrassing date, did he get scared away? Details I've been dating someone for 5 months, I'm head over heels for him. He always calls and texts, he has romanced me and we have gotten closer by the day. A couple weeks ago we went to this carniv... (559 words)

Should I put an end to things or see where they go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4479 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is what Im doing wrong?? Im in love with my ex for starters, he lives somewhere else from me atm but in around 6 months I'll be back to seeing him regularly and if I'm being honest there is a chance we could get back together...we still flirt all the time, miss each other ... (435 words)

My worry over my smell is destroying our intimacy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused about the way I am feeling at the moment. I have been dating my boyfriend for nine months now and things are going generally well. At the beginning of our relationship, I was very keen and 'all over him'. Lately, however, I am refusing to kiss him on the l... (252 words)

Should I try call him to work things out, or let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend,called me when I was talking with my dad on phone and I did not pick. Now after my call, he called me back,and just said this,'you are trying' and cut the call. I try calling but he was not picking up, then I sent him a text,telling him not to allow his jealousy ... (149 words)

Help pretty please major crisis!

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11 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so on Monday after school I saw my crush going home and he was walking over the bridge and he saw me. I was in complete shock because I didn't know that he walks now, however he told me that he's always gonna walk this way because he has to, and sometimes I see him from ... (138 words)

Why am I so jealous of this girl? And how can I stop this, it's ruining our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for 3years. Since we started working a year ago,i became very jealous of a certain female coworker of his. They're always together during work hours, sometimes hangout in groups of 3-4 after work, text occasionally. They went out of town with other ... (290 words)

Long distance phone sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are long distance and recently he's been saying he wants to hear me come over the phone. The problem is I feel silly, I'm not a kid but I get the giggles and when we do do this I want it to be amazing - I want him to be thinking about it days/weeks later... (76 words)

How can I get him involved in conversation and what should I talk about?

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11 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help :( I really like him and i had a whole day with him today at school, and we didn't talk much he just smiles or answers a question who is given to someone else, but he doesn't jump in he says it after the other person has answered. there is no proper conversation. ... (168 words)

I can't stand my boyfriend's best friend and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having an issue with my boyfriend's bestfriend. They've been friends since they were babies but I can't stand him. I just think he's an idiot and a bad influence. I normally have a high tolerance for people but I actually can't stand to be around this guy. He's moving ... (197 words)

Lack of a "filter" vs. chooses not to think before speaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How could I have been expected to remain in a relationship with a person who "has no filter" and thereby often hurt me (unintentional as it may have been). How could I continue to give chance after chance of reconciliation (over a year's worth of chances), to forgive over and ... (238 words)

I feel like he's slipping away. How do I handle this? He keeps me 'at arms length' emotionally

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I turned 16 in august last year and started a weekly (2 hour) drama group, I'm in the 13-16 year olds class and there's a guy in the 17-20 year olds class (he turns 18 in a few months). I only see him in the lunch break (40 minutes) and we normally spend that time together just ... (399 words)

How does one make new friends at this age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I find myself in my thirties and without friends of either gender. I worked abroad and lost contact with everyone and now do a very solitary job which brings me into contact with people only on a professional basis where personal relationships with clients is absolutely not ... (149 words)

Did I wreck a chance at a third date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

11 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I met this guy online and after a couple of months he flew to see me. On our first real meeting he brought a friend and all three of us had drinks. He covered my portion of the bill. The second time I met up with him over coffee, I paid although he offered to pay and said ... (141 words)

Can't orgasm with condom!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the prob, I can't cum whilst wearing a condom...I recently had sex with a condom for the first time (2 nights in a row and didn't cum on either) , I've had sex without before and had no problem with ejaculation. Is there anybody that has had this prob that can of... (58 words)

Can't reach orgasm during sex.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I sort of recently started seeing someone who's made me realise that I have never been in a real relationship before. He treats me like a goddess and sometimes I can't believe I get to have someone like him. Only problem is, I've never been able to cum during s... (149 words)

I miss my ex so much it hurts and I can't stop crying!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My story is a little complicated so I will try to make it short as possible. I was enganged to a guy. We were together for 4 years. I found out that he cheated on me... (several times) so I left him. I left him without a fight... I just packed my all my stuff and moved out ... (253 words)

Should I end my long term, long distance relationship? Its been 3 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

11 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All Ive been in a Long Distance Relationship for 3 years now, its not as extreme as some, we are just over 3 hours apart, and spend friday to sunday together every week without fail. All our holidays are used to spend extra time together. We talk every day, ... (438 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to end the relationship over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i just need some basic advice as to how i should handle this situation and if i'm justified for feeling how i do. i've been seeing this girl for a few months now. very slowly at first. very casual. but then it progressed into something more serious over time. well in the begi... (498 words)

My wife withholds physical affection. Is there hope she will ever change?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (M) age 51-59 - I have been reading a lot of the stories on this site about men whose wives have lost their sexual desire. This happened to my wife, too, many years ago. I think we have had sex just once in 10 years and maybe only a few times in 15 years. We have been together 20. That's a... (935 words)

I think she likes me, but so many things are getting in the way of us being together! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Well... I started liking this girl (freshman) a month or 2 into school... homecoming was coming up, and i asked her, but she declined because she said she couldnt... i didnt take it harshly because i knew she was taking honors classes (although i didnt really understand because ... (281 words)

How can I change and show her I want to be there for her 100%?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has distance herself from me because she feels im selfish and is inconsiderate and when she needs me im not there...what can i do to change that about myself, to let her know i what to be there 100% for her..i do have alot of self issues i need to address but I've ... (69 words)

We are only having sex once a month! What is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - ive been seeing my boyfriend for nearly two years,we get on brilliant and have great times together ,but when it comes down to sex its just not happening ,we getr lots of free time together, my boyfriend also does 12 hour shifts and sometimes feels tired, ive told him id dress ... (145 words)

Am I being a wuss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I just did a post about this girl I had a 3 week thing with going back to college in a different state for the next semester. I'm handling it well (I think), trying not to care and not being clingy or anything. The bummer is that I still like her (I tend to h... (163 words)

We had something but he has a girlfriend. How can we remain friends but set clear boundaries?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very confused. There's a guy I met who's in an long distance, long term relationship with his girlfriend. We live far away, but will live near one another in a few months time. After we first met, he pursued me heavily, despite his girlfriend. After a while, I got unc... (295 words)

I cheated and he just won't stop bringing it up!! Advice pls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hi. So, I'm 18 now from the last time I posted, which I was 17... I now have a new relationship, been with this guy for 6 months. anyway it's been the hardest relationship I have been in. First of all I will state that after my ex, I went into a period of sleeping a... (219 words)

I am lonely and need words of kindness.... Advice for making friends and dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

11 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts, I'm just feeling a bit low and need some words of kindness. Where do you suggest I go? I don't feel like going to a place of worship and I have no friends who would ever help me. They'd only get me to help them. I'm nearing 30 and have always been single. Every ti... (312 words)

Living & Sleeping situation is complicated... we want to spend more time together but the distance is a problem. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Sleeping arrangements and Living situations? So my boyfriend and I have been together for about six months but known each other for about a year and a half. Our relationship is solid and we see each other every day, we are at the stage where we want to see each other every ch... (647 words)

A moral friendship question?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. I'm cool with a guy who was really close with this girl who just recently passed away of cancer. I didn't personally know her. The girl who died was married. Ok. I'm really interested in getting to know her husband. He is also cool with my guy friend. Now is it wrong of me ... (177 words)

To what extent is it considered stringing someone along?

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11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When a guy calls you all the time and shows interest in you, then doesn't call as much anymore but still returns your phone calls when you call him, is that considered stringing along? When men aren't interested in a woman but they know she is interested in them, do they still ... (83 words)

My girlfriend is coming to visit me at uni, but I haven't told my friends here I'm gay!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well basically my girlfriend is coming up to see me next week as I'm in uni but my friends don't know I'm gay and I'm scared this will break her heart if I don't tell them who she really is but I'm also really scared to tell my friends I'm gay so i don't know what to do.... (62 words)

How can I get over him when we just had a baby together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm going to try and make this as short as possible. me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year we have a 5 month old daughter together. he broke up with me today cause he said now is the time he don't want a relationship, i asked him why he broke up with me and he said ... (204 words)

My ex wants to hang out with me but has a boyfriend!

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11 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So my ex and I went out for 3 years and we broke up. Now a month after our break she started dating this other guy (ling distance) and after 4 months we started hanging out but I couldn't take the fact that she's dating someone else, so I stopped talking to her, so now after a ... (113 words)

I've loved him since day one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

11 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is a bit of a complicated one... I've known the love of my life for 9years, but I was only 16 when we met so my parents were unhappy about us dating (he was 20). So despite never having a normal relationship, we have never lost contact completely. We both moved on a... (442 words)