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What is the physical disadvantage of not having sex?

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Question - (2 January 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2012)
A male South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

whats the physical disadvantage of not having sex, will something bad happen when you stay a virgin for long, and its not like its a choice its just that if there's no right sexual partner?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012):

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but what happens when if I think or dream of hot girls or just someone I love doing sexual activities, but I am single and at the moment I can't find love or the right person, and usually a guy when he wakes up his penis is erect, and for me when it does I feel that pain on my lower stomach and sometimes lower back, I don't know why. maybe its because of the sperm that I should take out. I don't know

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A male reader, SonOfMan Christmas Island +, writes (5 January 2012):

SonOfMan agony auntThere are no disadvantages. There are many people who have lived their whole lives without having sex. It is just one part of a relationship.

Don't give in to any pressures about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2012):

"What is the physical disadvantage of not having sex?"

There is none.

Nothing bad will happen if you stay a virgin "long," bad things can happen it you have sex too soon, sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies topping the list.

That's why God gave guys right (or left) hands, so you can keep the pump primed in the meantime, giving you complete assurance it will be in proper working order once you fire it up.

It's like having a Ferrari in the garage during winter. Don't want to risk taking it out on the road, but good idea to start the engine regularly to prevent the fluids from congealing.

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A male reader, adekunle emmanuel Nigeria +, writes (2 January 2012):

Don't allow anybody to deceive you, either man or woman there is time for everything in life, don't rush yourself into sex activities, and don't let me deceive you once the men out there knows that you are willing to have sex, they can turn you to another thing and destroy your future. please for now concentrate on what ever good you are doing for now, when you thru and you no that you are ready, you can be thinking about marriage. but not sex first.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 January 2012):

person12345 agony auntNothing bad happens, certainly not physically. There is no biological necessity for your body to have sex. Think about monks. They don't have sex OR masturbate and they're fine. Don't worry that there will be consequences for not having sex. Lots of people don't lose their virginity until their mid or late twenties.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (2 January 2012):

DoubleM agony auntMust agree with "Starlights" that there is nothing bad that happens being a virgin for a long time. However, eventually, when you find the right person, sex is a very healthy activity that has many health benefits, both physically and psychologically. It is an important part of biological life, but there is no particular hurry.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2012):

Starlights agony auntNothing bad happens to you if you stay a virgin.

( I should know I was a virgin for a very long time in my life lol )

Physical advantages of no sex i have found are:

1. Increase of love for oneself

2. teaches discipline, control, calmness

3. can have time to focus on more important issues through out the day

Hope this helps!

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