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Should I leave my boyfriend because I can't get a job?

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Question - (2 January 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2012)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

should i leave him . okay ive been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now . when we frist got togther i had a job and was making money and pulling my own weight well for the last year and a half ive been with out work and it has made things hard for him he lives on a fixed income . some times i think it would be cheaper on him if i moved out untill i can get another job. and i have been looking for work just about everyday . hes always saying how he used to beable to get this and that and cant do those things any more so my question is should i stay or go

i fell bad enough as it is i hate living off him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012):

This is what life is all about UPS and DOWNS. This is a great test for your relationship. How the both of you work through this tough time says alot about your love for one another. With the way jobs are all around the world so many people are losing their jobs and they need their love ones to be there for them and help. So, you may feel bad but as long as you are out there trying and looking for a job what more can he ask for.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012):

I think you should talk to him and tell him what your feeling and ask him if he would want you to move out. I know how hard it is when your looking for work and are living off your boyfriend. I am sure that you pull your weight in other ways, and he might not want you to move out. I would talk to him and work it out with him and find a solution together. Good Luck.

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