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writes:I used to have a crush on this guy at school and we recently found each other on facebook. We didn't go out with each other back then though, and he didn't know i had a crush on him then. I sent him a message once, wishing him a happy birthday, and he wrote back thanking me and asked how i was, and i told him and asked how he was. We only spoke that once, and it was a while ago. I still think he is good looking. I've only started fancying him again since we found each other on facebook. I haven't fancied him all the time since school. He doesn't look much different from when we were at school. I have just noticed that he has broken up with his girlfriend, as he changed his status from " in a relationship " to " single ". Do you have any advice on how i could speak to him again, and how i might be able to ask him out eventually ?. Or should i just talk to him and see if he asks me out ?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2012): try just starting up a conversation with him on facebook and then suggest meeting up sometime, to catch up, get to know each other again. If all goes well, arrange to meet up again. Ask for his number, so you can contact him more easily. After you've met up a couple of times, and you connect well, and you still feel you fancy him and want to go out with him, then make your move. It's best to ask him out face to face, but if you prefer, especially if you're nervous about these things, then asking him on facebook is fine. Good luck, hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2012): I would casually send him a message saying along the lines of 'Happy New Year, if you fancy a drink and a catch up in 2012 it would be great to see you'. Then leave it at that. He could read this as a 'friends' thing which is probably the best option. Leave to ball in his court after that.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Well you'll want to give it a little time after the breakup to let him move on. You don't want to be a rebound. Until then be friendly, be there for him, talk to him, etc...When you think enough time has passed you should ask him out. If you are too shy to do it in person, do it over facebook.
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