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How do I build up the courage to ask this guy out?

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Question - (2 January 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, my previous question, that I asked yesterday, was about the guy I really like and what to do, I'm not going to go in to too much detail, see the question titled 'I'm too nervous to ask him out. What should I do?' if you want to know.

Basically, I've decided that I will ask him out, face to face, but I don't know how to go about it or how to build up the courage to ask him. I haven't ever asked anyone before, nor have I ever been asked out face to face, so I have never experienced it.

I am a very nervous person and, although I know he likes me too, quite a bit by the sounds of it, he likes someone else too and can't decide between us. I am worried that he wont say yes because he still cant choose or because he has already chosen her.

When I started liking him, I already liked someone else but I soon stopped liking them because I liked him. I'm worried that if I wait to long to ask him, or I don't ask him at all, he'll start to like her more and stop liking me all together.

I really like him and want to be with him, but don't know how to ask him out. How should I go about asking him, and how can I build up the courage to ask him?

thanks

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A female reader, kazzer2k9 United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2012):

kazzer2k9 agony aunti had this problem and what i did was asked him to meet me in private and asked him then.

i built up the courage by pretending to ask him out but in front of a mirror when no-one is around, just pretend he is your reflection in the mirror,i did it now me and my bf have been goin out for 3 years nearly

hope this helps xxx

kazzer2k9

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