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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said I'm allowed over to his house any time I want, but is it ok to just show up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy has given me his address and he said i am invited to his place anytime, so do you think it's ok if i just go there, without sending him a message asking if it's ok, or saying when, e.t.c ?. He only lives about a 15 minute drive away from where i live, so it's not too ... (61 words)

His friend recently died, and our date was on the day of the funeral. Was it wrong of me to suggest another date some other day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was supposed to go on a date with a guy I just met on friday night. A friend of him/guy he knew well died two days ago, and he texted me tonight and said he had to go to a funeral and "memorynight" on friday. I said I understood and that i was sorry to hear about it, but I ... (94 words)

Her ex and the father of her child has no idea about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 5 months, her ex had to move into hers for reasons I won't disclose for about a month. I was cool with it the because I trust her. Any way he's moved out now and I found out he has no idea about me, when he called the other night ... (165 words)

I have an overpowering desire to have a baby with my fiance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I am a 19yo sophomore in college, living with my fiance, who I have been with for just over a year now. We are very happy together, even now with the stresses of maintaining a household and us both getting through college. We're best friends. I have always thought t... (134 words)

I want to trust him again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hey, how do you know when you can re-trust someone? I ask because i still feel troubled from time to time about my bf of 16 months. Everything's great right now, but i caught him sexting an ex-workmate at 6 months, confronted him right away and was told it was meaningless and ... (254 words)

Does he love me or does he not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - so i went out with this guy last night.... it was a half blind date of sorts since i knew him but he didnt know me. I intitiated contact... i saw him, i liked him and i sent him an email i got from his friend... which he responded to...and then he kept quiet for a while. so ... (435 words)

He said if things ever go wrong between him and his girlfriend I'd be first on his list. I don't like second-best but I like him so much. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - For the first time in my life i beleive i have finally meet someone that i acutally fancy which is really rare for me. Ive been talking to him now for about a month and hes great, hes got a great personality hes a dab hand at doing card tricks and his look... (435 words)

I'm just so angry with him for having another child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feel like I'm stuck in this mess and really need some answers or guidance from ppl that have been through what I'm going through. So I have been with my fiance since 2007 around Christmas time of 2010 I have found out that he was cheating on me so after Christmas I had left ... (385 words)

Is it possible to be loved, even though I am hot tempered and jealous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a type of person with a hot temper and jealousy. Can someone teach me how to love? What can i do? ... (24 words)

What should a teenager wear to a posh restaurant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I am to go out with a "friend" on saturday night for dinner and I don't know what to wear, basically. We're both 17 so it's not like I have a suit and I wouldn't really feel comfortable in a shirt/trousers. It is a posh restaurant and it will be most likely all ... (100 words)

Feeling down because...I want to go back to my old school!

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25 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im an adolescent of 15 years old..... my life is a bunch of nothing... i repeated a class last year and this year i have to choose my subjects for next year. i don't know have any idea what subjects to choose, i am very confused and i changes school too.... in fact my mind ... (297 words)

He flirts secretly with other women on Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is pretty much perfect. he always makes time for me. he trusts me. we never argue. he always tells me he loves me, and how he wants to one day get married and have a family. he always tells me he never speaks to other girls anymore, never flirts with anyone else ... (146 words)

Will he make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I told my friend that I liked a guy in our college class and I am convinced she told him (although I will never know for certain) because he is making more small talk, teasing, and I caught him looking at me a few times. I hope he likes me too? What are my chances of him m... (63 words)

My boyfriend has genital herpes. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I'm dating a guy for a while who has admitted that he suffers from genital herpes. We haven't had sex yet. He claims that he has been cured but I was reading somewhere that herpes is incurable. Now I happen to be in love with him and I would like to know the implications of ... (65 words)

One final meeting with the ex to talk things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing this guy for a few months. Now that I think back, it was really unsatisfactory. I put up with a lot of crap and I was miserable but I put a good front. I mean, I was happy, but only when things seemed to be going great. So we ended it with him cheating on me. At f... (322 words)

Please help me get past my trust issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just can not get the thought of my boyfriend cheating out of my head. In May 2011 he started lying to me http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-suspect-my-bf-is-cheating-and-need.html It is now January and i still can not move on. I love him and i want to believe he didn't do ... (209 words)

What is his problem? He disappears for days and is uncontactable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now we get along well AND we understand each other perfectly were even compatible zodiac sign wise ( hes a scorpio AND I'm a Pisces ) and everything is perfect except for the fact that every once in awhile he likes to ... (169 words)

I miss him but don't want to come across as clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i like a lot is definitely still in love with his ex. It was obvious, cause it was his status on facebook today. I'm worried about him, cause he gets pretty depressed when he thinks about her. Should i ask him if he is okay? But before you answer that, here's a little... (225 words)

Problems with a blended family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 2 plus years. My wife has 3 children all living with us ranging from 23 to 15. We lived together prior to us getting together for around three years. But I worked evening and got off work after everyone has gone to bed so I did'nt see what was going on... (149 words)

I am older than him. He finds fault all the time. How do I deal with this relationship? Is he over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age - ModNote: two questions combined, as clearly about the same issues I love my man and even though he's younger than me. He makes a fuss about things and everything he say is true and I'm always a liar. We get together and he pick some of the most smallest things to fuss about... (200 words)

What are the negative aspects of the porn industry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My apologies if this question has been asked before. Can somebody tell me of the negative aspects of the porn industry? Not the effects of porn on viewers... things which those behind the scenes are often subjected to. I'm trying to deter myself from watching porn and think t... (66 words)

If I don't learn to relax the relationship will have problems down the road

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have some questions about how to avoid being needy/clingy and how to relax and let things happen at their own pace... First, some background: I have been seeing a woman now for three months or so. Our situation is somewhat complicated by the fact that she's recently... (593 words)

Poor communication, a misunderstanding and so her friends abused me for being late. Should I be aggrieved with her since she was unsupportive to me re abuse by her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So this is my story. I have always wanted to be with this girl and finally, she agreed. We've been dating for a bit more than a year now. We got our ups and downs but all in all, it was pretty good, except for the fact that it was "just" "pretty good". Not head over hee... (575 words)

Girlfriend going off physical affection killing relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some serious advise!.. I'm gay and ive been dating this lovely girl for about 6 months now.. We're both 18 and the first few months of our relationship were fantastic and we had fun and amazing sex.. We broke up for a month last year, and now we've been back together... (326 words)

I just got married and am not interested in sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello please advise me; i am a newlywed with just about a month in marriage. i got married as a virgin but since then i have been having trouble making love to my husband; i am simply not interested. what could be the problem and how can i overcome this?... (53 words)

"Feeling insecure about them Toys in the Bedroom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here it goes its my b-day and my man has surprised me yet again. He wants to buy a toy dildo and use it on me for HIS own pleasure. But its MY b-day im the one who should be getten Pleasured. Right? I was down for it at first.but started thinkin mabe he cant get it up or hes ... (109 words)

Now that I'm being noticed should I go for it and have sex as much as possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - American rapper Mike Jones has a song (censored version) where he says "Back then they didn’t want me, Now I’m hot, they all on me"...I feel like I’m living a similar situation and it’s confusing me as to how to proceed/live (if that makes any sense?) Background: ... (575 words)

Adam or Eve, am I being played?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - am i jealous, stupid, controlling, or just kidding myself loving this person? what would you do? I have dated this 30 year old Micronesian for 3 months before we decided to be official. It was nice, I planned a whole day for the to of us and the theme for the day was ca... (1174 words)

What's wrong with sexting someone else while in a committed relationship?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - why is sexting (sending racy/sexually suggestive texts and FB messages) wrong? I can't see a problem with it and have been sexting an ex-colleague who i have no intention of seeing in reality. My gf of 6 months (who i love and am serious about) found out last night and was ... (95 words)

This guy used me and I dropped him out of my life. Then why am I feeling jealous about his one-night stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Coming up 2 years ago I fell head over heels for this guy I knew through a mutual friend. We became best friends so quickly and we had an amazing bond. He began purposely leading me on and generally finding fun in messing with my head. But I was so happy just knowing him... (266 words)

Why am I angry with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a tough one to explain, where do I start. My father was very abusive, controlling and walked all over my mother, and I grew up watching this. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, I am 18 and he is 15 years older than me. Things were great at first, we were so in ... (238 words)

Boyfriend has become verbally abusive after finding out I had sex before I met him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my bf 2 yrs ago. I am 24 and he is 28. We love each other so much but the problem is my past. I had another bf in my past before I met him. I loved that guy too(but not as much as this one) but he just cheated me. I didn't want to have sex until marriage but he said we ... (370 words)

If I drink energy drinks can I have sex multiple times?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Me and my girlfriend are going on a trip to New York City and she been making comments like having sex all the time multiple times a day on this trip. It's only days, I'm a little nervous I won't perform okay. She is 31 and I'm 20 and a virgin and I just feel she ha... (114 words)

Does he just not love me anymore and is afraid to tell me, or is he dating someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend has been broke up over a week now... we broke up cause he said he needed a break from the relationship cause he needs to focus on graduating high school, he works and goes to school and he said me being mad at him all the time for hanging out with his ... (308 words)

Is it a good thing to jump back into the relationship so fast and move in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy a yr ago he was 41 and I was 20. and at the time i was in trade school, working and taking care of my gmom. And he was working none stop and had to move to atl for his job. The relationship didnt last very long because we didnt have enough time for each oth... (171 words)

What should I do with my girlfriend how do I make myself More of a challenge

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 and a half months things are going good! We fought a bit about 2 weeks ago but were good now, we were talking about love and she ended up saying to me u love me don't u , I denied it for a while but later in the night I ended ... (244 words)

My friend plans on using her boyfriend as a meal ticket!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't about me but a friend. She's the same age as me, 20, and a sophomore education major. However she sees her boyfriend as a meal ticket and doesn't think she will work after graduation. She actually believes she will get married within the next 2 or 3 years! The ... (102 words)

Husband wants me to have threesomes and I don't want to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and have been married for almost 3 years now but my husband kept wanting me to sleep with girls so he can watch I was ok with that then he started wanting to do the full threesome and I was sceptical about it but felt I had to to keep him happy so I did and it hurt ... (108 words)

I love my boyfriend and my ex boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a realationship with a guy since 7 months. We both love n care for each other truly. I am very happy bieng engaged with him. . . But there's a new problem coming up. Before this relationshp, i had an ex boyfrnd. That time i broke up with him with the issue that ... (185 words)

Is it fair for me to chase after this sweet guy knowing I don't really want him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Right now, I'm facing a connundrum. I'm a college student so most people want to tell me to focus on school and not a relationship. But I'm under so much pressure I feel like I need someone I can lean on and trust and who isn't looking for forever right now. There is a guy I ... (208 words)

Regaining partners trust after lying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I regain my partners trust after lying to him for so long? I didn't cheat on him, but I did lie about what I was doing prior to moving in with him... (35 words)

Can a woman eventually turn into a bi-sexual after an age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Can a woman eventually turn into a bi-sexual after an age? I've been with my partner for about 15 years and she's 37 years old now. She has always told me that she has hated the idea of lesbian sex. But lately she has started tell me that she only want pretty and sexy female ... (121 words)

Is this girl dropping me hints she likes women or is she teasing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a lesbian and I have this female coworker who I disclosed my attraction to women. She has a boyfriend, but lately she's been licking her lips at me and sticking her tongue out in provocative ways. Maybe I started this when I blew her a kiss. She loves touching ... (171 words)

I want more commitment and want to live with my B/f but he has no interest in it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. we love each other alot. I would really like to settle down soon and maybe think of having children. But I dont feel like we want the same things. I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to move in with me a year ago and he ... (229 words)

My guy doesn't like me on top!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My man isn't satisfied with me ontop ... I've done all the tips from cosmopolitan and different sites. Still he seems unsatisfied ...its so bad to where when I see his unhappiness I get sick of trying and walk out the room...I feel less of a woman. I asked my x about it he said ... (87 words)

Pregnant and having cramps. Should I go to the doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya! i feel really silly asking this, especially on here lol! but i know how amazing you guys are :) so.. im 20 weeks pregnant! finding out on monday whether im getting a little him or her :) this is my first pregnancy (second.. i misscarried in may at just 5 weeks) but ... (151 words)

How do I deal with her past that is the opposite of my views? I know she's changed but the images are out there!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

25 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - [Mod note: please note that the poster is 22 years of age, not 32. The poster should consider starting a new account so this doesn't create confusion later.]] So, I'm a 22 year old guy beginning a new relationship with a girl. I'm not one to jump into anything related to roma... (562 words)

He puts his arms around me and makes a lot of sexual comments. Any idea why he's acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this guy like me? I have a friend that I've known for a couple of years but recently he's started acting differently and I'm not sure why. My friends all think it's because he like me but I think he might just be doing it to get a reaction out of me because I tend to ... (177 words)

I can't bring myself to ring and invite him out, so how can I move things on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

25 January 2012 (F)

age - I have a big crush on a man I use to work with. It started with him and I have now left over a year and can not stop thinking about him. We are ion touch at xmas and I hinted a meeting but he did not response directly. Thinking of sending an anonymous valentine card. ... (115 words)