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writes:I was on a double date with my best friend, so all together there was me and my boyfriend, and my best friend and his girlfriend. We were walking back home when suddenly a car came speeding past us (turns out it was a drunk driver). I probably would have gotten seriously hurt and was expected to.What I didn't expect was for my boyfriend to push me out the way, so I could be safe he would have to but he was on the ground due to he push and got seriously hurt.My best friend did the same with his girlfriend but he has a lesser impact than my boyfriend.We rang the hospital and then they came, me and my bets friend's girlfriend came out the hospital with a few minor injuries. My best friend was in a coma but recently woke up. But my boyfriend is still in a coma and I can't help but feel this is all my fault. If he didn't push me I would've got hit the most not him.I'm really scared he doctors go he might never wake up.Should I be feeling guilty or not?Thanks for all the adviceHappy New Year
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reader, XOLoveOX +, writes (4 January 2012):
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He is still in a coma but isn't allowed any visiters.
Yesterday Night his stability became critical.
I'm so scared they go he probably doe or not even wake up.
I tried ruling for permission but it was denied. They won't evened me see him!!!!!!!!!
It's torture!
They won't let any visiters in a 20 ft radias near him!!
Why I don't know?
Thanks anyway! xoxoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2012): Aw so sorry to hear this I would not ask yourself questions like this cos you will only upset yourself even more I would concentrate on thinking positively talk to your boyfriend I know he is in a coma but they say that is the best thing you can do hope he is ok take care x
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Please dont feel guilty. He did an act of love. I'm sure if he could talk, he'd say he didn't want you to feel guilty. It's ok to be sad that this happened, angry at the drunk driver, and even flattered that he cared that much about you, that he would, essentially, sacrifice himself for your safety.
All you can do now is to hope he's ok, and stay positive. Talk to him, too, because I heard that can help....
I really hope everything ends up all right.
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reader, mimi:D +, writes (2 January 2012):
first off im awful sorry to hear this happend to you! best wishes to you and him. I dont think you need to feel guilty. First off it wasnt your fault the car hit you. it was the driver deciding to drive drunk. and you didnt tell your boyfriend to push you away. he decided to risk his life for you and this is what happend. it was not your fault. nor did he deserve this. the person who should feel guilty is the awful man driving the car.
hope this helps best wishes!!!!
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 I imagine the feelings of guilt you are feeling are completely normal, but you definitely should NOT feel guilty. Instead, you should feel lucky that he not only saved your life, but that you have someone like him in yours. I am so sorry that this has happened, it's awful. I truly hope he improves and wakes up soon! The guy is a hero! You have my best wishes.
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