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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My Bf and I have been together 4 years. We have a child. But how can I also continue with the marine I am seeing too, and not breakup with my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for almost four years and also I met a guy and I've been seeing him for about six months. I see the other guy twice a month, every time he comes to home, because his a marine .i really like him i feel he is the one, but i do not want to leave my boyf... (105 words)

To please him I am seeking any tips to ensure fellatio is more enjoyable please? And anything to make it taste better too, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner really enjoys oral sex. And is always asking for it. I don't mind doing it but he always wants to be able to come inside my mouth. It's something he finds really attractive. I let it happen once but I really didn't like it. I've told him how I didn't really like it ... (107 words)

I'm conflicted. What's the best advice when faced with a Love Triangle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I plan to move to another country for two years in August. The guy who i'm interested is from there. The other girl is as well. The guy started to like me first, but I felt like it was lust for him, and liked me because he was lonely. I wanted to wait and for us to get to kno... (773 words)

I want to become a surgeon, will this be possible with my qualifications?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! Ok so my Question isn't really about relationship/ life related but I quite like the advice given on here anyway. So I'm 23 years old and just recently moved back home to the UK after living abroad for 7 years. After much debating and not knowing what to do with ... (264 words)

Why does he seem so up for being together but still there's something putting him off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey aunts and uncles, for my question the boy is called A and his girlfriend is called B just so things don't get confusing. 3years ago i had an amazing relationship with A for 13months and then i started to have feelings for someone else so we broke up as i felt like i ... (213 words)

Do I give him time to figure out what he wants? I've given him chance after chance to decide.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been terrible at making me feel secure in this relationship. I have worried the entire year that he was keeping me as his 2nd choice back-up plan. I know he has feared losing me as a friend, one who actually accepts and tolerates his odd behaviour and quirks. ... (405 words)

Do you have ideas what my options are here or are we best off apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i need advice! So i have been going out with this boy for 3 months, we have loads of arguments over stupid little things. So we've just had another arguement ill explain what happend in a second, but i cant keep having all these arguments with him, they get me into such a s... (672 words)

What does a man mean when he insists that he wants to date a woman he can respect

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What does a man mean when he claims persistently that he wants to date a woman he can respect. Really stressing on it. I thought it was the vise versa- desiring to date a person who can respect you. ... (39 words)

We can't be public about our relationship and its really getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for nearly three months now and she is a Mormon and I am not. I am 19 and she is 26 and her whole family is Mormon and its all she really knows but knows she is bi but has never had a girlfriend before. I am her first girlfriend but she`s had ... (279 words)

I pushed my fiance away and he says he's numb now. I want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a got a question and would really love your feedback or any kind of advice if possible. I have been in relationship on distance for about 3 years, of course it's been hard we couldn't see each other often, but at least we would speak every day which was be... (494 words)

I'm falling for my 2nd cousin. Should I tell him of my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have recently become really good friends with my second cousin and I'm so happy about it, but the thing is I am starting to have strong feelings for him Im 16 and he is 18. We are becoming really close and I tell him everything I trust him with my life. The thing is I want to ... (71 words)

I really need help in losing weight! My dr. only gave me diet pills that didn't help

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im not sure how to word this delicately so im just going to blur it all out. im fat. morbidly obese to be precise. when i hear it i feel physically sick at myself. but why is this not enough to stop me from binge eating? i always have been nothing but overweight and i ... (186 words)

My girlfriend constantly think I'm cheating when I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need desprate help I love my girlfriend to bits but she is always thinking I am cheating on her when I am not She constantly thinks she hears and sees proof when I am not doing anything For example I'm on the phone with her all day everyday my brother says something t... (325 words)

I like her personality but am not attracted to her. She wants sex and I'm just confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im in a massive mess. i started talking to this 16 year old going on 17 online a few days ago. we got on straight away and instantly clicked. we organised to meet one day this week. we spoke about sex and i told her that im a virgin. she was understanding and she she said ... (350 words)

Why do I feel like I am single when we are not together? When we are with each it's brilliant but where do these feelings come from?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been dating a guy for about 5months, we had the talk (I initiated) and now been together officially for a further 2 and a half months. It's been a slow progression getting to know eachother. Which I have liked. He took me away for my birthday, weve met eachot... (358 words)

Should I ask him out? We only worked together briefly a year ago...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok to start off this is going to be confusing! I'm a 19 year old college student who has recently lost weight about 55 lbs and I look and feel great! Ok now to the story. (This takes part of the story takes place about a year ago) I work part time in retail and this lady, ... (332 words)

I am finding it hard to not worry about what my parents think of my partner, I think he could be the one. How do I just live my life for me and not worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm extremely upset at the moment and would be ever so grateful for your advice. I'm in my mid-thirties and met a very loving, warm man who is 2 years older than me, about 2 months ago. Having been single for a while and not having had much luck in previous relation... (569 words)

How can I keep my desires down, so to respect my girlfriends no sex before marriage beliefs, but still enjoy the relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Im in love with my Girlfreind we are have been going out for almost a year. We have a reall connection and are the best of freinds. The biggest arument we have had was when i did not like her baby names. Im finding it really hard to deal with our lack of in... (133 words)

How can I ease the pain I get when having sex with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are a LDR and so whenever we see each other we are always quite physical. However he is quite big and it took me a few times to get used to his size. After we've had sex a about two or three times over a period of a few days I literally cannot have sex ... (110 words)

Is my boyfriends jealousy going overboard? Or is it ok?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so me and my boyfriend were at my house in my room just listening to music. and than His friend comes over and jumps on my bed next to me. i just rolled my eyes and said what do i own this great honor to? he gave me a smirk and said you can be sarcastic but i know you just ... (270 words)

I'm not treated as an adult and my family favour my brother, how do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have recently had my 21st birthday. before i go on i want to say that i am not a spoilt child, i have worked since i was 16 now work in the city for a large commerical firm after completing my degree. i have always struggled at home, i fought for independance from a younger ... (670 words)

My best friend or my boyfriend?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i was at my boyfriend's house and i was texting my best friend. {ive known my best friend since me and him were in 2nd grade) But anyway while texting him my boyfriend just looks at me. he called my name so i would look up. i did and he toke me phone. i jumped up and ... (288 words)

Boyfriend telling me that there is not money for another baby, I don't want an abortion!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know what to do. my boyfriend 5 years made me move to the states with my two kids telling me storys like we gonna get married and so on. it didnt happen yet the marriage but yesterday i just found out that i am pregnant. today i was all excited to go to the hospital... (164 words)

Heartbroken and lost

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this girl for about 6 months (I am 32, she is 25). When we 1st met, it was love at 1st sight. She had a tough life growing up and got in lots of trouble but with the help of a very supportive family, she was able to get back on her feet. She moved in with me ... (1255 words)

Does it seem like this guy is interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Few weeks ago, this guy that I met through friends started talking to me which I felt flattered by that someone could have taken an interest in me. We met again last week at a friend's house and spoke for a few minutes before I left late into the night. I messaged him nea... (142 words)

Should I move on? Was he using me? Need advice about my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone...i have been really upset for the last few days :'( I was with this guy for nine months but he also has another girlfriend, when we wee together we used to meet up twice a week for a catch up and a cuddle, a few days we had sex but our relationship wasnt based ro... (235 words)

Strong feelings for a married woman. Could she feel the same way about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have strong feelings for a married woman. I am single with two grown children and have been divorced for ten years. I have recently ended a long term relationship. This woman and I work together. She is my client. She has two young children. We get along so well. We laug... (456 words)

My wife's friend is marrying my wife's 1st boyfriend and we don't want to go to the wedding, should we?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - We need advice. My wife has this good girlfriend that she's known for a few years. We're married 4 years now and everything is great. This girlfriend hasn't been a big part of our life because of who she's dating (and now marrying). This girlfriend asked my wife to be in th... (284 words)

Does he want more than a FWB relationship with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone me and this guy have been seeing one another since march last year well I think were more fwbs than a proper couple even though I do want to be with him properly the last week he came round mine drunk n I heard him whisper he loved me and he calls me names like babe ... (76 words)

My wife has take the joy out of my for too long! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age - I have been with my wife for more than 20 years and I am coming to a realisation that I have been duped. Sexually things are awful - at the beginning she made many promises that were never fulfulled, and in fact kept me waiting to have sex while she wanted me to have an aids ... (287 words)

How many chances does one get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, I hope someone out there can help, cos Im at my wits end. Im in my 30's and have had 2 serious relationships, recenltly i met this great guy and we got on brill, however, I cant drink alcohol, I black out and get agressive, cry uncontrolable and am jus... (228 words)

Is he just a touchy feely person in general or is he flirting with different girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this is about a guy I met in Spanish classes (something I do for fun it's not at school or something, just a hobby). After classes, he's asked me out for a drink 2 times. We really had a nice time. After the Spanish course ended he said to me that we should go to the movies ... (354 words)

Why do married co-workers take advantage of me because I am single?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do my co-workers who are married and/or have children take advantage of the fact that I'm single and childless especially when it comes to changing shifts or working overtime? I seem to always end up with the worst shifts, last minute changes because someone's child is... (168 words)

My boyfriend is sexually confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts were combined... Hello I have been with this guy for 4 years and he has been discretely logging on to shemale websites I have confronted him about it when the proof is right in front of me and he gets offensive like he wants to fight me or he just denies i... (99 words)

I feel so irritable and I seem to have totally run out of patience with everyone and everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel angry all the time and I don't know why. Especially this holiday. I almost screamed at my sister because she invited me to dinner on a day that I had to work overtime while the rest of the family were on holiday so they had no problem with the arrangements. I feel li... (127 words)

How can I cuddle with him but be subtle while in the cinema?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I've had boyfriends in the past but we never really went on dates. However i've met this boy who i really really like and we're going to the cinema together tonight, can anyone offer any advice about cuddling in the cinema? how should i subtly cuddle into ... (113 words)

What behaviour suggests that a guy feels rejected by a girl??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this might be an obvious question. However, I'm still quite unsure myself. I think I 'rejected' a guy but I'm not too sure..if that makes sense? He always used to flirt with me but then always act a bit funny with me. As in he'd awkward but without me actually knowing ... (217 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to think I am crazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well me and boyfriend got into a bit of a fight. He said i don't have time for him and i didn't want to tell him why i don't! i go to counselling and i have to focus on school but i'm scared to tell him about the counselling because maybe he will think i'm crazy. but i ... (65 words)

Making the best of a situation .... or the worst

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So i was seeing this girl for a couple months and i wanted a relationship and she wanted to a have a fling i didnt want that so i moved on. I didnt see her for a couple weeks came back and she asked if we could talk i said i didnt think it was smarth then she was like i ... (302 words)

My much older ex won't let me move on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex kicked me out of our home in may. he then used me once a week for 4 months until I told him I wanted more commitment - his response was that he was happy how things were going between us and didn't want anyone but me but if I want to rush things (I had been with him for ... (232 words)

My stomach makes noises in class, how do I stop feeling awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When I'm in a quiet classroom I tend to think and worry about my stomach making funny noises around other people. It makes loud noises that people think are funny because it sounds like I'm passing gas or have to use the bathroom. I'm the cause of it because it only does it ... (135 words)

I want to have a baby but it's not happening!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 and me and my fiance live together..everything is perfect! I am beyond in love with this man.the problem is,I want to share more with him..I bet you're thinking "what more could she want?" this may sound crazy but I want to have his child.His father passed away not ... (86 words)

I am asking the questions about her past, and she says its none of my business

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am almost 40, married, to my grade school crush, I love her, more than anything. We were found each other 2 years ago after over 20 years graduating high school, we led very different lives, and now I am having big trouble dealing with her past. The details have not been... (449 words)

I have trust issues and pushed him away... I love him , what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship with this guy and i dont know what to do anymore. i'm young and afraid of love and have trust issues and i dont know why i have broken up with him so much. I am so confused, he used to call me and would always treat me wonderfully but then ... (123 words)

Why is my boyfriend suddenly being nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So this guy im seein for six months now, and him and I have small fights once and a while, but this time I did not talk to him for over 2 weeks, and he was the one for the first time to cave and call me. So we had a viste and talked about everything that bothered us about each ... (119 words)

I just want our spark back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, do you ever want to try to make your husband/b.f feel loved? Or appreciated? If he were to tell you that he didn't feel it, and let's say you have been together for a couple of years, would you you try harder to please him? What about physically? If he said he missed ... (121 words)

My best friend no longer likes me dating her cousin. What do I do?

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3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a thing with my best friends cousin who i happened to lose my virginity too. and now she doesnt like me hanging out with him and says it makes her uncomfortable. ive been seeing him on and off for the past year and half and didnt sleep with him until this summer. and its ... (136 words)

I feel like I can't breathe in this unhealthy co-dependent relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - im in a relationship with a really wonderful loving caring man. it will be 2 years in Feb. BUT i feel like a child in this relationship. I cant put my finger on what is bugging me but i just feel like not myself with him. I moved in with him in June and it has been so hard. I ... (500 words)

My boyfriend does really crazy things to be entertaining. I'm not sure if I want to be with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just don't understand my boyfriend. He enjoys drinking, but when I am not around he does crazy things when people are around. Its like he needs to be the entertainment. People always look to him for the entertainment and whatever idea they come up with that they would never ... (251 words)

If I'm more attracted to girls but still like guys, am I bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have always been attracted to, fancied and gone out with boys but i find some girls attractive and it is getting more frequent that i am finding girls attractive. Also if i see a girl and a guy naked i prefer the look of the girl. Am i Bi? ... (50 words)

Husband hasn't even tried for another job since he got his degree!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for two year but have been with my husband for ten. We both wanted to wait til we were done with college before we got engaged.Well now I am the one with the good job and paying the mortgage, while my husband still works his college job. He lacks the ... (150 words)

I need to get rid of her boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I know its selfish, and ignorant... I have no troubles with women, and i have ran in to the problem. Well, she is cute, funny, and has what this guy wants. the problem? Her boyfriend... She has told someone she likes me, and she almost came to a party with me, but she was ... (163 words)

We dated, we broke up, he kept in contact, I said wait, now he has gone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a guy I really like for about 6 months. but we had to break up because my parents found out that I was seeing a boy which is not allowed in our religion. although he is the same religion as me. but since we broke up just recently like a month ago my ex started to ... (175 words)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close friends/hookup buddies. That ... (274 words)

Are we moving quickly and acting out of lonliness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just met someone two weeks ago and things have moved quickly for us. This is NOT a pattern for me. But Ive been single for a bit (him too) so Im worried maybe we are both just acting out of lonliness? HOWEVER, I do feel VERY comfortable with him and in a different way then... (203 words)

Whenever we get even close to having sex I stop my boyfriend. Am I afraid of sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and I know we're both ready to move on to the next part of our relationship, meaning sex but we're both virgins and the whenever we get even remotely close to doing something I stop him. I think I'm actually scared of ... (56 words)

How to tell your lover you want him as your boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

3 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody, I have one question.I've been dating with someone for about a half year now. He's not my boyfriend, we see each other once a week or once on two weeks. We usually go to my or his house and we sleep together. Or we go just for a drinks. And between our date... (293 words)