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Is he really in love with me?

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Question - (29 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2011)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ummm, well, there is this guy and we've been friends for more than a yr n we're so open with each other. Recently he asked me out n said he's in love with me. But he doesn't call often or txt n he says he loves me but i don't know what to believe because he's a really handsome guy with a lot of girls flocking around him. What do you think guys?

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (29 June 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntHey,

I would ask him to have a serious chat, find out if hes lying or not, stringing you along or not etc.

If he says he loves you but doesn't call or text, he's either scared of commitment, wants you to go to him, or is just screwing with your emotions because he knows he can.

From experience; don't base your decision on looks, if you could have the sexiest person in the world, but their personality and emotion SUCKS, or have a cute average person with a good personality and emotion, WHICH would you rather?

The popular guy who every girl hits on, or the guy who's average, calm and collected, and isn't seen as a piece of meat by all of the other girls.

Another way of saying it:

1. Hottest Ferrari car, with a really crappy engine that always breaks.

2. Honda accord with a great engine that will always be good and reliable

Find out his deal, make a decision on what YOU feel.

Hope I Helped.

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