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36-40,
*eewill
writes:There is this guy that I like a lot and certain people around me keep trying to convince me that he is not the guy for me, for instance they brought up an issue about his personality being different than mine because he parties frequently and I don't party that much, and I'm like of course he is different, because in this world no two individuals are alike right? Then someone else stated that he is not available and I know this is not so, he broke up with his girlfriend a while back. What irritates me is the fact that all of these people are in relationships etc, and they are happy, however everyone seems to think that I'm not for this guy, it appears to me that they don't want to see me happy at all.I like him and he seems to like me, I'm just tired of everyone's opinion. What should I do listen to everyone else's opinion or follow my hearts desire? Help on this issue please, thanks!
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (29 June 2011):
 I wouldn't listen to your friends and I would go for it. No major issues have been given to you as to why you shouldn't presude a relationship with this guy. So he parties a little more than you, don't put a red flag just because of this and give it a go.
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reader, Star xxx  +, writes (29 June 2011):
 Many friends said the same to me 17 years ago when I started seeing my husband and we are very happy and in love.
Listen to everyone's opinions but follow your heart.
Take care x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 June 2011):
 Usually you listen to a bit of both added with logic sense. It also depends on what sort of warnings you receive. For example, if your friends told you he was a cheater, or a player and a flirt, or that he's an asshole, that he uses drugs, or impregnated a girl, take warning.
But him liking to party more than you... not a problem at all. Go for it!
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reader, Partyboy123 +, writes (29 June 2011):
 i would go for it, see where it goes, mainly, the point is to try it and see what happens, if it turns out bad, then get out..
its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all!
and hey, if you stay with him and things work out, GREAT!, if they take a turn for the worst, oh well! move on :)
hope we could help!
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