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writes:i am a 39 year old male who's wife passed away 9 years ago i have not been with another person since.Here is my confusion and question about four months ago i met this great looking girl at a bar she was nice and smart and everything well i went back to her house we watched a movie and started kissing which was nice had not done that forever.about an hour later she was giving me a massage and next thing i knew we were making out. With out getting to into the details while having sex with her i got a big surprise she had a penis i wont get into how far i let it go .I am confused as to how i let the sex continue that night didn't try to stop it and actually enjoyed it .This is a real situation and i am confused is this common or am i now some kind of freak?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): Not a freak at all you were responding to her femalness which is most of her. Don't let this stop you from getting back into the game. It has probably happened to other men but they would never say.
On another note, she was being very deceptive to do something that she knew would upset the average man. She is playing a dangerous game and is not a good person. But, that's her problem not yours.
Get back to dating as quickly as you can and don't let this stop you from dating, you really need to find love in your life.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (16 April 2010):
 It's fine man. You were lonely and someone showed you some affection and kindness. I don't blame you for responding and I don't think anyone else would either.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 There are always two sides to a coin. It does not matter what others think because you will have different sets of values from different people across the broad span of our society.
The general consensus may not be to your liking but it matters not as long as you see the truth and believed in yourself.
Don't listen to those stereotype thinkings and generalizations of such people. They are normal human beings and are not freaks.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 No you are not a freak! A person was being nice to you and you responded.
As anyone who lives in Asia knows many pre-op transsexuals can look absolutely stunning and without doubt can be extremely feminine despite not being actually female. I've never been with a transsexual but I'm sure that if I had to make the choice between spending the night with beautiful 110 pound transsexual or a rough looking 160 pound natural born woman I'd choose the one that looks and acts more feminine regardless of the penis. What we respond to as men is the femininity not what sex organs they have.
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reader, kanja  +, writes (16 April 2010):
No your not a freak,completely normal in fact,life is one new exsperiance after another and sometimes we get really caught up,if you enjoyed it then there was nothing wrong. You were really attracted to this women,and yes she is a women despite questionable extras.I meen maybe its something you want to look into,if your comfortable with it,but just no it's not wrong and it doesnt make you homosexual,maybe just somewhere between.Most of us are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): She had a penis as in a transexual pre-op? or penis as in a hermaphradite?
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reader, Myau  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 You realise you had sex with a man.... Truth is we are all bisexual really. So its not that big of a deal.
I guess its upto you to decide if this is the lifestyle you want, but no your not wierd ok
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 No you are not because she is basically a woman. She is not a freak either, just very special.
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