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writes:So,here's the thing, I have been single for 1.5 years.I have had various love intrests and now I'm really into this guy from work, we get on well and flirt,I didn't want to pursue anything as he had a girlfriend but they just broke up and now I think I should. but Iv been out of the dating game so long, I just haven't a clue how to go about it, I know that he likes me, as he offered to but me a drink and yesterday he was being flirty in a sexual way e.g he mimiced being tossed of and smiled at me, then whenever I said something like "stop aiming for my face" he would say that sounds dirty,and I said only you could think of that and he said "you love it". however now he has a new love intrest, nothings going on but he knows that this girl likes him, and I think he's considering dating her. please help, how can I win him over and make him like me so much that he'll ask me out, as I'm scared to say something to him and get knocked back.Please, please help, how can I be desirable to him?
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 timm is right, take him up on his offers. he mgiht assume you're not interested if you say no. don't throw yourself at him, but go out with him and see if things go anywhere
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reader, TimmD +, writes (15 April 2010):
 If he has given you opportunities such as asking you out for a drink, you HAVE to take him up on his offers. If you do not, then there is only so long a guy will try before he believes you are not interested in him.
If you ARE interested in him, the next time you see him say "So when are you going to buy me that drink?"
Do it soon before it's too late.
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