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writes:Am I doomed?I have been engaged for 7 months and am getting ready for my engagement party. I recently been having thoughts of being with other people or what it would be like with other people. I wouldn't cheat on my fiance... but if I'm supposed to be "so in love" is something wrong? Am I making a mistake?
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reader, Ask_HanBan  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 theres nothing wrong with fantasisng,
i'm in pretty serious relationship but i still fantasize, its natraul
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reader, flower girl +, writes (22 June 2007):
 There is absolutely nothing wrong with fantasy and everyone has it as long as you don't follow through with anything then it's absolutely fine, and if you do feel you need to then break off the engagement first at least this way no body will get hurt.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): Curiousity. Maybe you have had a restrained number of partners and you haven't yet surpassed the phase of "experimenting." The desire to see what it is like with others could be a sign the current relationship doesn't satisfy your requirements or simply you have an extended phantasy that reveals this way. Tensions connected to this feeling, likely to accumulate in time? You say "other people", not somebody in particular. Only you know if it's a caprice or smouldering problems with your fiance, in which case you should perhaps try to see if they can be made to disappear before creating other such...
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