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I think I'm losing her to another guy

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Question - (22 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay i have been with this girl for 4 months now and i trust her and love her to no end but every time i cant hang out she goes and hangs out with this other guy. The way our summer schedule has worked out we haven't been able to see each other for a month now and she has hung out with him a decent amount but not too much. But the thing is, i have asked her if she wants to go out to dinner or out to the club and she says no. This guy has asked her and she said she will go with him. And we have called each other every night and talked but last night she talked to him for like an hour and could only talk to me for about 2 minutes. Now there are pictures of them showing up on her facebook of them together. I'm really jealous and don't know how to handle it. Is she drifting away from me?

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (22 June 2007):

DV1 agony auntI agree. I think that she's replacing you. Get rid of her and move on from her.

DV1

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony aunti think she is trying to make u jelious and ur playin in to it. maybe u should break up if she doesn't want to meet up with u and u havent seen eachother for month maybe this is the end sorry. or u could talk to her about things like what is happenin between u 2 ometimes talking can be the best way to talk. good luck

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntShe has absolutely no respeact for you what so ever otherwise she would not be treating you in this way, i have to agree with the previous poster you need to get rid and move on with your life find someone that treats you with the respect that you deserve

Take care.xx.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007):

dude this is the clasic case of her replacing you. my advice break up with her before she breaks up with you. just tell her you dont like them hanging out together and if she gets snappy with you then end it because if you dont end it she will and you will be in even more pain. i know it sucks but it seems to me like the only option i faced the exact same problem and thats how it turned out i broke it off with her and she went to him problem solved.

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