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writes: Hi,I am a 29-year-old male and I have been in love with female colleague of mine who I love truly. We have not had any sexual relationship as of yet and we just go out and have some nice time. We talk a lot and lot on phone and more often than not we end up fighting. We sometime talk for around 5 to 6 hours at a stretch and sometimes come to terms of breaking the relationship during the conversation. Is excessive talking on mobile affect the relationship??.. I am totally confused and I do not want to lose her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): Excessuve talking on the phone a problem? That is a funny thing to hang it on.
If you are arguing on the phone, the way you are ending the argument is the problem among other things....often when people argue they do not stay on topic or the issue at hand and go off on tangents and past things that have no bearing on the discussion, they do not set a goal for the argument, like what is it we are trying to work out here, and they set no time limit, they attack each others character and may even resort to name calling all of which are bullying behaviors.
The next time you find yourself in a heated discussion over the phone, decide to "table it" until you have time to cool off regain your composure and meet in person so that you can see the expression in your faces and can better guage the reaction and feelings of the other.
A lot of coupes argue, but it is how you argue and how you end it with a better understanding of each other that matters....you have to learn to fight fair if you are going to fight.
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