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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've been married for a few months now and I can't lose my virginity I feel like it is something so traumatic that I cry. And I love my husband very much please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): I am in the same situation but I have been married for more than a year and I am scared to death- I dont know what to do. My husband is so patient with me- i dotn know if I can go to the doctor for this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): Is your husband also a virgin? Also is there any religous issues?
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reader, {*HyPa~AzN~hUnNiE~*}  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 i completely understand how u feel cos im also the sort of person that really respects my virginity, but u dont have anything to worry about because you love your husband and should feel comfortable with him, if you are still worried you should visit your GP
good luck :)
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reader, DeeDoc  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: This question is a bit confusing. I believe that you already have lost your virginity, but not yet had an orgasm. Losing your virginity hurts like hell (for a female). That's a part of life. Now, on the other hand, an orgasm feels wonderful! If that is what you are missing, I would suggest that you do some reading. I could sit here for hours and tell you what SHOULD feel good and what doesn't feel good, but that is MY personal preferences. You need to find out what makes YOU tic, and WHERE it makes you tic. That's the beauty of a relationship, you can experiment with each other. Everyone has their own "feel good" areas. You need to express yourself to your husband, and trust me, he will ablige in helping you find out what makes you TIC! Good luck sweetie. Don't cry. Be excited for what's to come! New areas to conquer!
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reader, Reebe +, writes (6 January 2007):
 I could suggest all the usual things about relaxing and getting used to each others touch etc, etc.
I would go and see your GP and ask them to check you out physically, and if this comes back all clear with I think it will, then set up a therapy session with a sex therapist. They can guide you and help you into feeling about sex the way you want to. Try to relax though your husband sounds great and very understanding. Make that appointment today! and soon you'll be at it like newlyweds!
Good Luck!
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