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*ulabell777
writes: hey, um ok so i like this guy and he likes me, he loves partying and having a drink, he has had a lot of girlfriends in the past- some quite serious relationships too. the thing is that i dont drink, hardly ever go out, not very confident with guys and im worried that im way out of his league but would hate to let him down! what can i do??????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): You don’t have to let him down just because you’re different from him, however if the type of partying lifestyle (underage drinking etc.)
You’re not comfortable with Id say let that discomfort be your guide,
Believe it or not you are acting sensibly by thinking this though and posting
Here I wouldn’t say jump straight into this lifestyle with him to “Fit In”(and because you think he’s hot!)
Although your fifteen, and believe me Chick I know how it feels to want to fit in
But I’m twenty-one now, and looking back when I was 15 I’m glad I spent my time doing things that where worthwhile to me at the time and they didn’t involve drinking and partying but involved sleepovers, camping and all my hobbies and boyfriends I had at the time (nothing serious) would come to the movies and Bowling, paintball etc.
Try going on a date just you and him and if things develop then try meeting his friends, Don’t change for anyone you will be happier and more successful in life if your yourself (be a leader not a follower) As for your confidence it comes with age and doing something exiting that makes you happy so find this hobbie or if you've got got one keep focused on this because guys will always be there and your passions and dreams we only get one chance with!
Good Luck
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reader, lulabell777 +, writes (6 January 2007):
lulabell777 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx, ill see how things go and bear ur advice in mind! x
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 He seems to like you for who you are I wouldn't worry too much how others see you.Try going out a bit more don't complain if he wants to go out and you don't just let him go on his own!
It can work, loosen up abit and enjoy yourself!
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