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writes: please someone help! i think my gf is crazy. she thinks i look at other girls all the time but i dont and is really self concious. like for instance shes getting at me because i apparantly call her hot and not gd looking and so she thinks she isnt gd looking but i only call her hot because she use to always tell me to call her tht wen i called her something else. but now she is saying i never call her nice looking but i always do and i do everything she wants of me, basicly she has me whipped but she dnt appreciate anything i do or even notice it! how can i fix this or should i jus split up with her?
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 Hmmm you need to sit her down and explain to her how you feel, but also say to her that you think she over reacts sometimes, boost her confidence a little and reasure her that there's no one else for you. Say that you don't feel you have to tell how great she looks all the time.
She seems very insecure and if after you've had this conversation and she doesn't calm down then I would finish with her your young and shouldn't need to have to reasure her all the time. Everyone likes to be told that they look good, but it seems that nothing you say is right and it is a wy of controlling someone although she probably doesn't see that she's doing it. Point all this out to her and she how she reacts. Try and stay calm and reasurring and hopefully you can put a stop to this.
Good Luck!
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reader, {*HyPa~AzN~hUnNiE~*} +, writes (6 January 2007):
 awww shes not crazy, actually im abit like that, i get really possesive. she just loves you so much she doesnt want you looking at other girls and think less off her. why dont you sit down and have a chat with her and tell her how much you love her (if you do, dont lie...it hurts)
good luck
toodles!!!!!!:D
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