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writes: I started dating someone I knew in high school (20yrs. ago). we hit it off famously, and I really thought there may be a future in it. Then he stopped calling and just emailed. for 6 weeks.the last set of emails was how much he missed me and loved me. I asked him to call. please. he emailed back I love you. I always have. I always will. Why didn't he call? I like him so much, I don't want to blow it. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you ! i'm glad my intuition may not be wrong. I'm so sad... because I want this really bad.. but i guess it's like the book, "he's just not that into you."...He's a lawyer working two jobs breaking away from his firm and starting his own... so i understand the business..but his emails are SO wonderful, can't wait to be together, I've always loved you, always will.. all that keeps me hoping. but then, no phone. i can't find out anything about him because he lives 2 hours away, and justmoved into a loft somewhere downtown. i know where his firm is, but don't want to be a stalker. AND i know he broke up with his girlfriend of 2 years because she had been cheating on him, WITH HIS BOSS. so he tells me he hasn't dated since (1 year ago) and just buried himself in his work. ugh. men.THANKS Lilly. I really needed aresponse like that. you're awesome.S
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 It sounds to me there is more going on that you are saying, or he is admitting. Guys CALL you if they are really interested, not ignore your request and email. Is he married? Is he hiding something from you? Maybe he feels like things between the two of you became too intense too fast and he is intimidated. Dunno... But, something is going on here that needs some more investigation... only you can find out th answers, but I'd highly recommend you take a much closer look at who he is, where he is, and why he has a telephone phobia. There is something fishy about this whole thing.
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