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writes: my boyfriend ignores my fone calls is allways late to meet me and sometimes stands me up i get told he's cheating and find texts on his fone from girls he allways has an excuse but when were together its perfect he's everything i ever wanted i love him so much and the sex is great! we'v been together 2 years now n i dont want to be without him but i cant stand the negatives please help me make up my mind
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 talk talk talk!
Is the only way out of this one, you are beating yourself up about things that MIGHT be happening!
If he refuses to talk then you have to question your relationship with him, because you don't have everything you want/need in this guy if you can't trust him when he misses a call and your brain goes into over drive.
i would be concerned if after 2 years he still stands you up, tell him you won't have it anymore and he needs to start respecting you more.
But you need to talk to hear what he thinks too.
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reader, kelpel +, writes (5 January 2007):
Have you tried sitting down and talking about how you feel together? I think that would be the best way forward. After all if he his cheating do you really want to be living a lie? The longer this goes on the more difficult it will become to resolve. And sex is a big part of ever relationship, but try not to base you relationship on sex.
Talk to him, and make it clear things need to change - get him to pick you up from home so you dont get stood up somewhere alone also, be careful - take care xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): Well...sometimes guys wants to explore further more and see who is right for him...if he chose you to be his girlfriend then that means that he is into you no matter how many girls there are...I got a few friends who loves their girlfriend with all their heart and would die for them but still goes out with other girls just to have "fun"(I know...this is unreasonable). Show him that you love him and if he loves you then thats all it matters right? Ask him for the truth and tell him that all you want is the truth and that you love him enough to forgive him.....I noe I'm crappy at this heck I'm just kid...but I hope it helps
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