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writes:I've been friends with this guy and we hang out every single day. He has a girlfriend that lives in austin and I know things about her bc she tells me. She ended up cheating on him twice. And I feel stuck in the middle bc I don't know whether to tell him or not. And what makes it worse is that I have feelings for him...and signs point out that he has feelings for me too. He holds my hand and what not...and people say we give out this couple vibe and we look at each other in a certain way. But, should I tell him that she is cheating on him? I don't want to do it for the wrong reasons.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 youre going to have to put youre feelings on hold for him as he will proberly be least wanting another relatioship right now so best to give him some room and say that ure their for him if he needs someone to talk to xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, I will tell him but....I have feelings for him....how do I deal with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): Its better for him to find out from you rather than finding out from some one else and then finding out you knew about her cheating all along I think!! I def agree with helpful girl that honest is always the best policy...
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (5 January 2007):
well some people would say not to get involved with it...but my friend cheated with my sisters fiance, i ddnt know to tell her or not, i ddnt but it was eating me up inside..the main reason i ddnt tell her was i had been drinking for 3 days at this massive party (and no im not an alcoholic it was a one off lol)and my mum said are you sure you ddnt dream so i started to question myself about it, so i ddnt tell her tho i never spoke to my friend again and she ddnt talk to me so i thought it did happen but my sister was in a fragile state so i ddnt want to say anything.. she later found out and a few months after they split she confronted me about it, she said that if i had told her she might of not believed me but she wishes now i had, but she said it was all ok and it wasnt my fault i ddnt tell her it was him for being unfaithful..to me i would tell the person and deal with the consequences.. but to be honest hun its up to you , wait till he finds out , or tell him its 50/50 of the outcome, i dont know him so i couldnt tell you how he would take it ....i hope this helps and i hope what ever you decide to do it goes well xxx
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