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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She seems to be backing away from our relationship. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 977 days ago

6 September 2005 (M) - Hello all. OK check this out. I met this girl online just over a month ago. She's called Jane and she's really nice. She goes to church on a weekend and her family are great and they all like me lol. Now she has just come out of a relationship that she has been in for 9 months... (581 words)

I trusted my boyfriend not to cheat. Now I'm not so sure and I'm miserable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I believed it was a very good relationship, but I wanted to him to propose and didn't feel he was sure enough to do so. I told him, I wasn't going to wait longer than 3 years and he promised me he would propose on our 3 year anniversary. This is my dilemma. After 3 years, n... (661 words)

I can't believe that I let my lie get this far!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 867 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - Please help! I have a huge dilemma! I am at risk of getting caught in a huge lie I told to my boyfriend (we are in a serious relationship). Background: I suspected my boyfriend had cheated on me and found a possibly incriminating text message. Rather than admit I snoo... (302 words)

My friends say to forget about my ex, but I want to know why we drifted apart!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, I have just split up with my boyfriend, whom I've been with for 8 weeks, and we are still very good friends. But one of the reasons I broke up with him was because of one of my previous relationships, 'ex', that I had 12 weeks ago. It's really confusing becaus... (188 words)

I fancy my mate's brother, but everyone knows I also fancy another boy...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl and in the 6 weeks holidays I started hanging round with a group of 16 year old boys. I started to fancy one boy. They all knew about it, including him, and the flirting went on for a month. Then eventually I asked him out. He said he didn't know and kept ... (160 words)

We broke up and I want to move on... but how do I forget my feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

6 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My fiance broke up with me a month ago and I'm still in shock over it. We were deeply in love. She would say all the time how she couldn't wait for us to be married and living together. I wanted to be with her in all eternity but now, without her, I don't know wha... (209 words)

Should I give my fiance another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - Almost two years ago I broke up with my fiance because of nonsense. Since then we haven't really spoken to each other and about a week ago he came to me and we got to talking. Now the feelings that I once had are returning and to make matters worse I am in a relationship with ... (123 words)

I'm madly in love with another woman, but how do I cope until she decides about her own marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 974 days ago

6 September 2005 (M) - Can anyone help me with this...? My wife sits home every night and drinks scotch. I guess I use that for an excuse, but I have fallen in love with a woman who is married and we are madly in love, mentally and physically. I'm lost, confused and miss this woman every day. Som... (140 words)

Vaginal wind problems?

This question has 85 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - What happens to cause a vaginal wind (fanny fart) and what can you do to prevent this happening?... (18 words)

My dream guy is 19, and he lives on the other side of the world!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I am 15 years old and fell in love with a guy over the internet who's 19. I trust him and care about him a lot and couldn't imagine my life without him and he is in love with me. I would love to meet up with him but the problem is he lives in Australia and I live in England,... (134 words)

So pleased to be pregnant! But worried the baby is not my boyfriends...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I've recently found out I'm pregnant but something is nagging at me and bringing me down. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year (I'm 17 and he's 21). I really love him but I strayed a couple of months ago (when I got pregnant) and slept with someone else on a night ... (172 words)

Why does my girlfriend go from nice one minute to explosively aggressive the next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

6 September 2005 (M) - I really dont know what to do. I've been with my fiancee for two years now and I'm starting to have doubts about our relationship. When I'm around her it's like I'm walking on eggshells. One minute she can be nice and the next minute she can explode, all this can happen w... (236 words)

Feeling like I should leave my marriage and go back to my first husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I am a newlywed of one year and was divorced from my first husband 1 1/2 years ago. My ex and I were together for 13 years and married nine. We have 2 children together and have maintained a very close friendship. The problem is, even though I am married, I think I am still... (390 words)

A friend of ours was secretly meeting up with my partner. Now I can't get over the betrayal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - Please help - I really need an outsiders objective! I am 23 and have been with my boyfriend (29) for 5 years. We used to have a brilliant relationship - I used to feel so loved and safe and like nothing could come between us. How wrong was I!! Our problems began about a 1 ... (640 words)

Our age gap doesn't bother me, but it bothers him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for five years. I'm 28 and he's 52. For me the age gap is nothing, it's my feelings for him that matter. But the age gap affects my partner. My friend says he'll be drawing his pension in 13 years and I'll be in the prime of life. ... (179 words)

I'm disturbed by my new boyfriend's daughter who just won't stop flashing!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - My new boyfriend has a 24year old daughter, who keeps flashing him. He tells me when she does and finds it hilarious, but I find it a bit disturbing. Once she called him into her bedroom and when he entered she was bent over butt naked! Another time she called to tell him that ... (188 words)

I think my parents are racist, because they don't like my non-white friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

6 September 2005 (M) - Hello. I have a problem with my parents accepting my friends. Even though my parents especially my dad claims not to be racist they are. I'm a white male, 21yrs old, and my best friend is a non white. He is indian/very fair skin. My parents don't respond when I mention him as... (244 words)

How can I be sure that this relationship will make it in the long term?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 975 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been living with my partner N for three years. He is 24, I am 25. We both love each other very much, but since the beginning of our relationship I have been getting bouts of doubt about our future together. It happens every couple of months or so and I lose ... (165 words)