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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Stuck in the middle... Do I choose with my heart or my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Never, ever felt so utterly confused in my life. At least there are no kids involved. I married my partner, Tom - not real name - (of 6 years) 2 and a half years ago. I never so much as looked at anyone and 'thought' I was happy...until someone moved to our area to work in ... (724 words)

I'm afraid I'm going to be a lousy kisser!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - I'm a 14 year old boy and I want to make out with my girlfriend but I don't know how, I've never done it before. She's not a virgin and I'm too nervous to make out with her. I'd never even kissed a girl until me and her started going out. We've been together 3 months now and I ... (70 words)

Why can't I just be happy with what I have, instead of trying to forget my problems with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for 8 years and from the day we got married I have been really unhappy. Anyway to make matters worse I had a baby and things have got from bad to worse. Anyway I met a guy in a club a few months back and he knew I was married and so on, but we started seeing ... (129 words)

I don't want a relationship... I just want to feel sexy and special for a few minutes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Hi everybody, I don't know what to do. I am in a very difficult part of my life. Me and my boyfriend of 1 and a half years broke up just over a week ago over a silly argument. He got nasty and called me offensive names btu then he told me he was sorry and he said if I gave him... (405 words)

My love offered me financial assistance for my business. Now it's a bone of contention between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 961 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - 11 years ago I met the love of my life. He was seperated from his wife and although I resisted, I fell head over heels in love with him. He explained his situation, in that he knew his marriage had been a big mistake, but he had stayed because of their adopted 3 year old ... (459 words)

I'm nervous about going public with my attraction to my best friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - I have been best mates with my friend for about 4 years now. I am 19 years old and she is 17. We kissed not long ago and have a lot of horny fun together. I don't think I'm gay - maybe bisexual - but I'm so scared of going public with her. I'm scared that people will look at ... (67 words)

I think I'd be ready for sex with my boyfriend, if only I didn't have to show him my naked body!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - I am so scared of showing my boobs or downstairs to my bf. I am 18 and I'm ready to get phyical with my bf who I have been seeing for about 6 months but I'm so scared of showing him my body. I feel fat and I think that my body isn't good enough. My bf is tall, blonde and ... (70 words)

I never stopped thinking of my old flame, so when we met again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Last night I went out with my friend and bumped into a man I fell in love with at school. He was my soulmate. I have been married 8 years been with my husband 14. All this time I have thought about what could have been. We did not sleep together when we were young and I regret... (157 words)

Should I have a go with a woman of 39?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - Hiya, I'm 16 years old and I'm dating a woman of 39. She looks good. We are always having a laugh. She's always there for me and we are great together. We're talking about making a proper go of things. She doesn't have any children, and is divorced. I've never felt so g... (90 words)

Can anyone share an experience when they fell for an older man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 831 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - I am 47, and have met a girl who is aged 19; I have now become completely smitten with her. I think she fancies me, but cannot be sure, we flirt constantly. I would like to know if anyone else has been in a similar situation, if you were the girl, what first attracted you to an ... (69 words)

My pregnancy drove my boyfriend back to his ex. Is this really my fault, like he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - I would like some help as the problem I have is eating me up inside. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and have always had an issue with his ex wife and their child, in the sense that she rings him a couple of times every day to see if he is OK, not to talk abo... (381 words)

The guy wasn't interested when he was single, but he is now, since he has a girlfriend! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, About 5 months ago I told a guy that I really liked him but he turned my down and exclaimed that we should just be friends. I told him that I had got the wrong impression and he was giving me false signals. Now he tells me that he was stupid to let me go and we... (79 words)

My husband could have me any time... So why does he need to masturbate to porn?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - When I go to work my husband downloads porn and plays with himself. It hurts my feelings because he could have me anytime he wants. He could have had me before I went to work. He has even looked at porn when me and the kids were sleeping. It makes me feel un-attractive and ... (98 words)

My partner is distant and doesn't make the effort to see me or the kids...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - My partner of 9 years is being very distant. He's working all the time, and when he's not at work he is at the pub. We have three children; one is only 3 months old. He says he loves me but still hasn't made the effort to spend time with us. I need to know what is going on... (79 words)

I didn't specifically state "no lap dances", but I think it's cheating anyway...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 812 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend had a one night stand 2 years ago. I had a lot of trust issues, but I gave him a second chance! I have just found out that he has been going to lap dancing bars since this period. While we hardly set down what he can and cannot do, he has lied to me and I think ... (77 words)

My ex wants to stay friends, but she also wants to prevent me going out with her best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - My ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend but she is jealous because I want to go out with her best friend. We stayed friends after we broke up and talk on the phone a lot, but she is always trying to make me jealous and I'm not that kind of person. What should I do?... (54 words)

How do I pick just one of the 2 girls I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - I like this girl, and she knows I like her, but I also like another girl in the same way. I am torn between the two of them. Both are single and flirt with me in their own ways (so I am told by friends). I am really close with one of them, but not so with the other. Somebody... (64 words)