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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I know I was insecure and I accused him. Now, how can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 781 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I need to know how I can possibly put my realationship back together. I know I messed it up between us because I was a jealous person who always acused him of something that he did not do, due to my insecurity. I really want to get him back but he will not even talk to me he... (105 words)

When I know I have to move on, I start avoiding my intimate relationships. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - Why do I keep doing this? Whenever I am with someone for a long time, I develop a deep relationship with them but whenever time comes to move on due to my career demands or something else I tend to forget my relationship and start avoiding the people as if I do not want to ... (122 words)

He's more into porn and less into me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I've noticed my boyfriend has recently been searching for porn on the web and recently we haven't been having sex half as much as we used to. Is it me?... (30 words)

Can't stop thinking about my doctor, even though I'm engaged and he's married...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I am 23 years old and have been with my fiance for 6 years. I have seriously attracted to my doctor. My doctor is 33 years old and is married. He also have two kids with his wife. I can't stop thinking about him. I think about him at work, school, in bed etc. He alway seem ... (86 words)

We weren't really together, but it still hurt that he'd have sex with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have known this guy for five years. We were off and on. He had sex with this other girl. We weren't together but we still hooked up, and I told him if he ever did that I wouldn't talk to him ever again. I found out that he lied to me and that he did that. I told him I wo... (166 words)

My husband is a hoarder and when I try to talk about it, he puts up the wall...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - The bottom line is that I'm fed up with my husband's disregard for me. I really don't know what to say to him because it's just a waste of time. When I try to discuss anything he always gets nasty, yells and puts the wall up. His behavour intimidates me so much that I walk ... (190 words)

I'm scared of being on my own and I think that's making me too clingy with friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have a problem which I experience a lot and it is that I'm just too dependant on everyone in my life. I hate being on my own and I feel so pathetic all the time because I need someone there to talk to or to do something with, as I get bored and lonely if I stay in. I've... (213 words)

He starts texting, then he stops. Now he's disappeared. What's the deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

28 September 2005 (F)

- Hey! Im a 16 year old girl. I really fancy this guy J* who is a couple of years older than me. When we first got to know each other, he was sweet and I started really liking him, so we started texting each other, just a bit of fun. Then he turned nasty when he thought I had... (373 words)

I want to say something to the girl at school, but something keeps stopping me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 957 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - Please help me, I really like this girl in my school and I see her every day. I am getting stressed out because it is like one part of me says say something to her and the other side is stopping me from doing this. Has anyone experienced this before? Please can someone help me! ... (59 words)

Did I cheat just because my relationship is stale? And what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - Please Help!!! I am just a regular guy, a nice bloke who doesn't drink or do any drugs but good fun. I thought I was going to be with my fiancee for the rest of my life; however I cheated on her which I swore I would never do, with someone I had known for a number of years. ... (152 words)

Should I cheat on my boyfriend? He'd never know!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I am out on a holiday without my boyfriend of a year and a half. I met another man that I really like and know he likes me too. I can't stop thinking about this other man. I am thinking about cheating one my boyfriend as he will never know. I can't pick between the two. what ... (60 words)

Sixteen years old and I'm still a virgin! Why can't I get this guy interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 16 and still a virgin. I really want to have a sexual relationship. I don't currently have a boyfriend. However, I really like this guy who I have known for about 2 months and he has a great personality. The problem is he doesn't really seem to be interested... (76 words)

Anyone got any really wild sexual suggestions for me and my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Hello, I know this might not be the best place to ask a question like this but I'm needing some help! I have been in a relationship for a number of years, and we have always had great bedroom chemistry. After a few years I guess you grow out of the honeymoon phase where it's... (159 words)

I suspect my husband is cheating, but I'm not really sure I want to know.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for 11 years, but have been with my husband approx 15 yrs. He has cheated on me (twice that I know of), and yes I forgave him....well, I stayed with him. We have 3 children and they are the main reason I have stayed as long as I have. Once again he has prov... (257 words)

My relationship with my friends is starting to change, and I'm getting the blame...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I've got two best friends and we've known each other since we were about 4 years old (we're all 17 now). Recently, one of my friends (*Dee) has got a boyfriend and she spends all of her time with him, and as a result, me and my other friend (*Shannyn) have became closer. Now ... (125 words)

The girl I like won't even talk to me when her ex is around, in case she hurts HIS feelings...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - Over the summer me and this girl became very close. We would talk every day and we hung out a lot and eventually I started to have feelings for her. All of her friends said she always talked about me and likes me but there is a problem. She and her ex-boyfriend (who knows I ... (148 words)

I've realised that I don't fancy him, but I have to tell him somehow...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Hey I have a bf and we have been going out for a few days, and I've decided I don't fancy him... We were friends before, and he was flirting with me ever since.. I really like the attention, but now we are going out, he won't leave me alone!! In class he'll throw things a... (192 words)

I think my girlfriend might have had a sexual relationship with her half-brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 956 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - I recently went through my girlfriends emails, which I know was wrong but I suspected something sick was going on. I found emails from her half brother from before we got together suggesting they were having a sexual relationship. It was consensual. My girfriend is 18 ... (369 words)

I'm too paranoid around my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 581 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I'm scared my boyfriend is cheating! I'm 19 years old and I'm going out with a guy. We've been together for 6 months now. I love him so much! The thing is he has alot of contact with this girl and he says she is really nice, which makes me paranoid! Whenever he gets texts... (128 words)

My ex-girlfriend is a bit messed up, but she she says she still wants to be with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 581 days ago

28 September 2005 (M)

- I'm 16 I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months. She's great but she is really messed up. She does drugs and lots of other stuff. She has had lots of relationships over the last year, not all with blokes. We broke up befor the end of term and were going to get back... (98 words)

I'm 35, bored and depressed. Want to leave my relationship, but don't want to break up the family!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I'm 35 and have 3 lovely children and a partner who I have been with for 18 years. A few years ago I had a term of depression and had a string of affairs. I'm still not sure why, just being with the same person for so long...boredom...mid life crisis! So a counsellor told me.... (137 words)

Desperate to have sex, but terrified of STIs. Am I pathetic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

28 September 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm Jack from England. A statistic I read up on said that "1 in 9 people in England has had an STI". For that reason and the scary stuff about STI's being on the increase I'm scared to have sex, yes it means im still a virgin at 18 1/2 and it winds me up that many 13-15 ... (256 words)

I not only found out my husband was cheating on me, I heard it over the phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for 16 years. We have always have a fairly turbulent relationship but he love is strong. Three years ago he cheated on me. He doesn't know why he did it but he did it twice. I knew of his adultery when I received a phone call. I answered but recei... (117 words)

Help me decide if my relationship is worth saving...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Should I stay with him if...? We were together for 3 yrs and broke up, then got back together for 6 months and I'm ready to call it quits again. To my 3 calls he has one. Sometimes doesn't call for 2 or more days at a time. Is never around when I need him to be (but when he i... (124 words)

I didn't realise how much I still loved my ex, until he moved to my city!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - My first love, who dumped me after I decided to move away for school, has now - a year after me - moved to the same city. Ever since he told me that he wanted to move here I have been confused and now that he's here I realize I still love him. Do I ask him if he still loves ... (82 words)

My partner can be terribly bad-tempered, but every time I leave he coaxes me back to him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - The man that I have been in a sexual relationship for 2 years is confusing me. He is bad tempered and can be really nasty to me telling me that it's over and doesn't seem bothered at my distress... However I have stayed away and he always comes running, telling me that he ... (127 words)

Even little things my girlfriend does and says are starting to annoy me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for 1 and 1/2 years. I feel really close to her but lately the relationship has not been great. Phone calls are often long and boring, so we decided to stop phoning each other as often. The problem is when she does ring me now, little thi... (139 words)

Mum doesn't know I'm engaged. How do I break it to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a bit of a pickle. I been seeing this really nice guy for nine months and we are now engaged. The problem is I'm 17 and he's 23. We really love each and he never disrespects me in any way. He even agreed to wait til our honeymoon to have sex. The probl... (87 words)

Nothing's right with my boyfriend and I want to split, but we've been together so long!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a year and I don't think I could leave him although I feel like leaving him. I have never been totally happy with my boyfriend. There's something about the relationship and it doesn't feel right. I love him but probably more like a friend, but if i... (124 words)