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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

(More questions from September, 2005)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My fiance won't marry me until I'm clinically obese!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - I am 24 and my fiance is 28. He has delayed our wedding until I become clinically obese. He said to me that he wants a clinically obese bride (me) at our wedding. I tried talking to him about it, but to no avail. What is going on with him? What should I do?... (60 words)

Don't want to hurt my husband who is a good, kind man. Do want to hook up with my toyboy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

16 September 2005 (?) - I am a 42 year old married woman. I have fallen in love with a man 16 years my junior and he loves me too. We don't know what to do about it. I can't bear the thought of him being with anyone else, but neither of us wants to hurt my husband who is a good kind man. Please ... (78 words)

I don't want an Open Relationship any more, because I can't bear to think of him with other girls...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend recently just went off to college. We decided to have an "open relationship" while he was away, but to get back together whenever he returned home. I realize now that it's too hard for me to know he's getting with other girls and not be angry about it. He still ... (102 words)

I'm seeing (and sleeping with) two different guys. Do I need to tell each of them about the other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - I am 48 - Divorced twice and 6 months ago ended a 5 year relationship. Started dating again 5 months ago. He is a great guy, and I really feel for him, but have kept my feelings to myself. We have slept together, and it is wonderful; however, I don't see him more than onc... (200 words)

I've resorted to snooping around, to find "proof" that my boyfriend is cheating...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 783 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. (I'm 20.) I am very insecure about our relationship. I don't even know why. I get so jealous when he text messages other girls that are his friends, that like him or are ex-girlfriends. He doesn't call them at all, but it has ... (186 words)

My husband's religious fervour has driven me away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - My husband has become a Jehovah's Witness and is now totally fanatical about every aspect of it, even though he's only been going for 2-3 months. I couldn't cope so left him as I love everything in life which they don't - which is almost everything you can think of - which I ... (61 words)

My boyfriend wants to have his cake - and eat it! Should I let him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I found out recently that my boyfriend kissed another girl whilst on a stag weekend. They exchanged numbers and have been in contact since a couple of times. I found this out though by a text message I saw on his phone from him to the girl. After he told me ... (492 words)

How will my girlfriend's kids react when they find out their mum's a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - I am currently seeing a 32 yr old woman. She is getting a divorce which I am willing to wait. But I am also a female, and she has 2 kids. Her kids are quite mature and loving, and 'Kerry' seems to think that they will be OK with it when she eventually tells them and that she... (91 words)

My boyfriend's sister wants to make him choose between me and our baby, or her and his mum!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - I have a big problem. My boyfriend and I have been going out together for 2 years. We are extremely happy and always have been. We are best friends and love each other so much. To our joy I recently found out I was pregnant (unexpectadly). Now we are getting ready to settle d... (630 words)

We met at camp and things were incredible. But we had to break up because we live so far apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

16 September 2005 (M) - I went out with an amazing girl this summer at camp and now that we are apart I can't get over her. We broke up because she lives pretty far away and I will only be able to see her a handful of times during the year, but going from seeing her every day to not at all is really ... (142 words)

Is "J" gone, or is there a chance we'll get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

16 September 2005 (M)

- Hi All, I was engaged when I met the girl of my dreams. My ex wasn't the one, so my new girl J, and I fell deeply in love. However, I kept in contact with my ex out of guilt. J didn't like this, and now, 3 years later, has had enough. We took a break 8 weeks ago, and she doe... (168 words)

She can't get over her ex, and it's coming between us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - My partner has an ex who constantly texts him says she misses him. This is constantly coming between us. She says he is messing with her head. She lies about him visiting her to cause trouble. She likes to buy him gifts. She won't have anything to do with me and only wants his ... (93 words)

My partner has mid-life crises every year!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - Every year my boyfriend has a midlife crisis (he's 49) immediately after he takes his children on vacation and returns to face another birthday! They go to California, where he starts thinking about his "glory days" in his twenties. He comes back to tell me that he's tired of ... (262 words)