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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Am I too suspicious when he says the strip-club pass was just something someone gave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I was wondering if it's OK for a man in a relationship to look at other women. What's right or not? I was at a reception and there was a very attractive woman there and he didn't see me around because I was outside the door and he was ogling her big-time as she was walking ... (249 words)

I don't feel strong enough to leave my husband, or to stop seeing the other man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I fell in love with another man about a year and half ago but I already have a partner of 18 years who is a lovely man and a great dad to our 3 children. We still get on ok but I am confused. I don't feel fullfilled in my current relationship and find myself thinking of this ... (134 words)

My friend is depressed. What can I do to help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - Hi, My friend is really depressed at the moment and she has been to the doctors. They said it was something to do with her hormones, but I'm worried about her. Sometimes she just wants to burst into tears. What can I do to help her?... (48 words)

The girl I like will kiss me any time I want her to... but she already has a boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - There is a girl that I like. I told her how I feel and I kissed her. She even kissed me back but she tells me that she has a boyfriend. I don't understand because she kisses me any time I want her to. Does she like me or is she confused as well? ... (56 words)

Are we just together for the sake of the kids? I feel trapped in my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 10 years now, and it feels as though I'm traped. We have two children and it feels to me as if we are together just for them. I'm begining to hate her more and more each day. Can you help?... (49 words)

Don't feel confident enough to stand up for myself...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - Is it written on my face "Come, use me, I am there to sell myself to you" ? This is what I have been feeling for quite some time now. I try to be too nice and kind to other people and they take me for a ride because of that. I am the one of the most gullible males in my ... (140 words)

I thought "I love you" on my phone was a joke from a friend. Did I blow my chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - Hi I am a student and in love with another girl in my group. We always looked to each other during the lessons. One day I got a message on my phone saying I love you. I first thought it was one of my friends with some stupid joke. By the time I found out it was actually her ... (109 words)

Three times a week isn't enough. My husband says I should "do whatever it takes" to make him happy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - My husband wants sex all the time. The problem is I don't. I love him deeply and am frustrated I don't feel sexual. I've tried explaining this to him but all he says is if you love someone you will do whatever it takes to make them happy. He has also threated to have ... (173 words)

Is it fishy that my girlfriend, who cheated with her ex and lives 900 miles away is sleeping over at her male "friends" houses?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - I have a long distance relationship that's been going on for over 3 years now. Most of my girlfriend's friends happen to be male. Being that we live so far apart (900 miles, to be exact), I don't see her but a weekend a month. My problem is, more and more frequently, she'... (161 words)

Why does he send me hot, sexy messages AFTER I leave, instead of when I'm with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I am a 48 year woman that is involved with a 33 year man. We have been friends for a year and just began a sexual relationship when he moved an hour away. He send emails telling me he wants hot, loving sex, massages etc., but when we are together he does not appear to be ... (103 words)

I put my foot in it when I asked where our relationship was going...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - I don't have problems meeting nice guys but basically I am too needy! I met someone really nice a month ago and played it cool, yet as things seemed to be going well, I had what I thought was an inconsequential conversation about where we were at and basically completely scared ... (81 words)

Guys my own age look old... Guys I date don't want to settle down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I am in my late thirties, very attractive and don't have problems meeting guys but I am still single and it's really getting me down. I'm never attracted to guys my age as they look so old, so I always go out with guys in their late twenties and they don't want to settle down. ... (77 words)