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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Will we still be together when it's time for my boyfriend to leave for overseas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months - he is 23 and I'm 20, and I can honestly say I've never felt this strongly about anyone before, and he has all the qualities that I could want in a person to spend my future with. I'm pretty sure he feels the same way about me... (191 words)

I'm trying to make new friends, but one single rejection and I'm devastated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - I want to try and improve on social skills by going to pubs and bars and making general small talk. Sometimes it goes well, but it really only takes one bad chat, and I'm right back there on square one again. Even when it does go well, it's not quite as well as I would like, ... (140 words)

I'd love to end things with my current boyfriend, so I can start anew with my first love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

29 September 2005 (F)

- I have been dating someone for six months. He is 51 and thinks the world of me. I have tried to finish with him three times because he has done some very dodgy things. Both his marriages failed because of infidelity, the first with his wife's sister (20 years ago). He says ... (242 words)

My brother molested me, but I'm ashamed to admit it happened!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - Hi, my name is Jamie. I am 16 years old. My big bro (20 years old) molersted me when I was 10. I thought it was OK at the time because he said it was, but now that I'm older I realised it's NOT. I'm awfully embarrassed about this, but it can't be kept a secret. My brother ... (83 words)

Would it be OK to date my ex-husband's cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - I am a recently divorced. My question is, is it OK for me to date my ex husband's cousin? He and I have been really good friends for 4 years and we want to take it to the next level. What are your thoughts on this and how should we go about going public with it? By the way ... (75 words)

When I'm alone is when I miss my ex the most... but I want to get over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

29 September 2005 (F)

- I have just broken up with my boyfriend and even though we weren't happy together I am finding it hard to get over him. I don't want him to get with anyone else even though I know we dont get on. Does anyone have any good tips on how I can get over him? I find it hard to ... (72 words)

Not sure if my feelings for my boyfriend are genuine, so I keep breaking up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have going out on and off for the last 3 years. Whenever we've split up it's been my choice because I just get all confused and maybe want more or something. We last split up in June/July and now I'm really missing him. He treated me so well and was so s... (111 words)

My girlfriend shaves her legs in public...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - I am 21 and my girlfriend is 19. She shaves her legs in public - when we were on the beach she did it, and got attention (negative!) What do I do about this habit of hers?... (41 words)

I love and trust my boyfriend to enjoy the company of his friends, but I don't feel the need to go out with them...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 955 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been living together for just under a year and it’s been great so far, except now he is starting to complain that I don’t spend enough time hanging out with him and his friends. Lately, I prefer to stay home and relax by myself while he goes ... (183 words)

I just wanted to share a story with my partner, but his reaction was unexpected!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - Recently while on lunch, a shy young gent came up to me, saying that he hopes he's not being to forward or assuming things. He said that he has noticed me many times before and that he found me very attractive and that he'd like to go for coffee and get to know me better. He ... (332 words)

My ex and I still talk and meet sometimes. Does that just prolong the break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - Im a 31 divorcee (of 3 yrs) and have recently split up with my boyfriend of 1 1/2 yrs. He too was separated, his wife cheated on him 3 yrs ago. He says he loves me but his head's all screwed up, and not just because of his ex - I'm sure he's depressed but he won't open up to ... (196 words)

Are my ex and his roommate gay..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - My ex has a male roommate to save on expenses. They go everywhere together, cook for one another, buy each other birthday gifts, and they're planning a vacation to the Virgin Islands--together....Am I being presumptuous to think they may be gay or is the writing all over the ... (50 words)

I want to marry my boyfriend, but my mom is totally against it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

29 September 2005 (?) - I really need help. I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend a long time. In 3 months time he wants to get married and has had a vasectomy. He is getting it reversed so we can start having children. Problem is I'm in great risk of losing my mom if I do. My mom is never happy wi... (106 words)

The guilt of our falling in love with each other made my soulmate to pull away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 956 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - About a year ago I realised my relationship was going nowhere but was happy to accept it for reasons of security. Six months ago I fell in love with my partner's best friend and she with me. We fought our feelings at first, but eventually had to give in to them. As this was... (197 words)

I still love my ex, and she's single again. But to get together with her means breaking up my new relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 643 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - I was with my ex girlfriend for almost six years. She was married throughout the relationship but we were deeply in love and she never once made me feel like the other man. In fact went to great lengths not to. She attempted to leave her husband but has small children and could ... (305 words)

Did we screw up by sleeping together before we get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - Hi! Okay it's like this. I'm 24 librian and he's 35 librian. Both single and both been with 3 partners each. I have been very good friends with this man for 5 years no but only together 7 weeks. During this time we have always had a connection but on his part it was always s... (179 words)

My new girlfriend is confusing! Does she like me, or doesn't she?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - I have recently started dating this new girl and am confused about the signals see is giving me. I met her at a party and we hooked up (we were both sober). I liked her but see didn't like me. Then about a month later, she all of a sudden, liked me and we are now dating. ... (164 words)

I don't feel like I measure up to my boyfriend's ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 ½ years. I’m 23 and he is 27. Recently my boyfriend is starting to talk more and more about his ex girlfriend whom he had been going out with for 5 years on and off until she got pregnant by him and had an abortion without him ... (333 words)

Are my problems with sex and intimacy a result of my abuse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

29 September 2005 (?) - My world changed when I was 12. I was sexually abused by my mum's boyfrend. Nobody knows and they're still together now. Only thing is I find it really hard to open up to people. I often sit in my room by myself. There's so many thngs in my head that I just want to get out of ... (141 words)

He wasn't the source of our problems, and I realise that. Is there a chance for us to try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 956 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - I was with a guy long distance for a while, then I moved to be with him and it was too much too soon. He called it off. He has since called me and said he doesn't know where we stand and I just let him know i wasn't angry (I now realise a lot of our problems were not his faul... (220 words)

I thought he'd chase me, but I'm chasing him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - Hi,I broke up with my bf of 18 months cos I felt he was taking me for granted and thought he would fight for me. He chased for 1 week and then it backfired in my face and I ended up begging him back. I know he loves me and if I didnt break up with him we woud still be together... (97 words)