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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

The end is in sight for our relationship. Should we just break up now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I met at my Uni and have been together for 7 months. He was away for 4 months this summer visiting his parents in his home state, but we remained a couple. Now he's back, but says he will be leaving back to his home state in 3 months for good. He wants to leave ... (148 words)

The kiss didn't change anything, she says, but I feel like being more than friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I need some help. Here is my situation. Two weeks ago, I met a girl, and she's amazing. We have a lot in common, and we became fast friends. She keeps making all these gestures that she likes me more than a friend, but I don't know. I'm going with her to a school dance, ... (113 words)

The only way I can think to get recognition in my family is to compete with other family members...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 958 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I compete with my father and elder brother to prove my worth to them. Is it right? I want some praise and recognition for who I am in my family but somehow I always get ignored and get taken for granted. So I am trying to do extraordinary things to get their attention and even ... (78 words)

Yes, I'm definitely going to speak to her, but I could use some "ice breakers"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - Hi Cupid. I am 26 and have been single for about 5 years. There is a girl (roughly my age) I have liked for a couple of years. I never used to see her very often as she is a friend of a friend's girlfriend's sister (complicated I know) but have been seeing her more recentl... (150 words)

It just seems wrong that my girlfriend wants to hang out with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months. I am so in love with her and have asked her to move in with me. She has been with quite a few men before, including a one night stand with a guy she used to work with. She is still friends with this guy and plans to go out for his ... (218 words)

Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 702 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We were all fairly drunk after a pa... (249 words)

I'm married, she has a boyfriend, but I feel like we're meant to make each other happy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 852 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I am a 39 year old married man with a 1 child. I had an affair about 8 years ago, I was found out, we went through a really tough time but managed to hold on. I have never felt quite the same about us since that time and I feel that it is only because of our son and the ... (305 words)

Am I wrong to feel threatened by my husband's female friend..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 958 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for just under 2 years. My husband and I have had problems communicating. Also, I have been insecure and holding him back from going out with his friends. I admit this is a problem, but the poor communication makes me feel insecure about our marriage. A... (341 words)

My girlfriend is almost perfect, except for hairy nipples...

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I have started dating a lovely girl. Perfect in almost every way except, she has quite hairy nipples. It's fine to say I should just ignore this little problem. However, how do I suggest that she might want to get rid of the hairs, without seeming rude?... (47 words)

Are we breaking up, or just taking a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 959 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. We have been together for close to two years. Our stages in life are different. She has her career started and I don't have a steady job. We live together and she pays for all the bills until I get on my feet. She says that ... (139 words)

My fiance is gorgeous and I love him; I just don't feel sexual around him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my fiance for a year. We live together and plan to marry next year. I just dont feel sexual with him. He is gorgeous and I love him dearly but I don't get turned on by him. He is getting frustrated and says it's OK but it's driving a wedge between us. He keeps... (88 words)

I'm feeling overworked and underappreciated... and I exploded about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been constantly arguing, since he hasn't worked a steady job in over 6 months, and really doesn't seem to want to work. My son (15) and his daughter (16) both live with us, I work 7 days a week overnights. I get no help around the house from him, and ... (148 words)

How could we go from lovers to friends to... this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - My ex dumped me about 8 months ago due to an illness I had, which was at the time unbeknownst to me and him. I didn't discover for a couple of months after the break-up how incredibly sick I was. When we broke up, he was adamant about remaining friends. I told him I neede... (586 words)

What should I do about my attraction? Do I say something or keep it to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - I met a man just two weeks ago (at work). He is amazing. He has been dating someone for the past two years though. I don't want to come between him and his girlfriend but I want to let my feelings be known. Is this something I should keep to myself? He shows me signs that ... (93 words)