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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How could I be so stupid? I had sex with an older guy, because I really thought he liked me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

27 September 2005 (?) - I feel so stupid. I met this guy as soon as our eyes met we flirted. He got my number and we started texting each other. He called me 'gorgeous' and said he wanted me. A week later, I followed him home. Once inside we started snogging and things got out of hand and we ended up ... (139 words)

I'm only 15, but it seems like I'm getting a reputation already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - Hi I am only 15 years old, and I am worried about my reputation already! I lost my virginity in Feb of this year (I was 15) while in a relationship, but 2 weeks after we had sex, my boyfriend finished with me. Then in May I went on holiday, and on the last night I slept wi... (186 words)

I'm a serial dater. I just keep meeting guys, getting bored then moving on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 956 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I have no problem attracting guys, but have a huge problem keeping them. I get bored easily, because after a while they start losing interest in me and I don't get what I want, so I move to the next guy. I'm talking to this guy right now and I wanna keep him. What do I do to ke... (67 words)

My friend doesn't want to risk our friendship, but he doesn't know how strongly I feel...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I have liked one of my best friends for ages, and we flirt heavily. We are very close, but he doesn't want to go out with me cos he thinks it will ruin our friendship. The problem is I think I love him and am desperate for us to have a go at it.... (54 words)

Why can't I get over my cheating husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - My spouse and I have been together since we were kids. I had just found out that he's been having an affair and he left me for her. I feel like I can't get over him. Why? What's wrong with me?... (41 words)

I slept with my boyfriend's best friend a time or two, so when I see the friend I still get the urge...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 956 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I am dating this guy I've been on and off with for about 5 years, and during one of the times that we broke up, I slept with his best friend a number of times. Now, I'm back with my ex and every time his best friend is around me, I get these urges to want to sleep with him ... (72 words)

I'm pregnant, but my boyfriend spends all his time with his female "friends"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up last month on the 26th. I found out I was pregnant. I told him, we got back together this month. He seemed happy about it, but he doesn't want to do right. I ask him to come over when he's at home sometimes. He says he's coming but he never shows up... (113 words)

When he told me "it's over", he was just having a last fling. Now I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I moved 120 miles 10 months ago to buy a house with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 and a half years now. 2 weeks ago he woke up and told me he thought it was over. He cried and was very adamant. I went back to my Mum's for a week. It was hell. I came back a week l... (225 words)

Could he really be over his ex? And why do I feel so threatened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (?) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now. The problem is I've met his ex twice. She has cystic fibrosis. He says she is dying and will die in maybe 2 years, is that right? She's in her 30's. He was with her 21 years. Is he really over her and into me? He ... (82 words)

I can't understand why my boyfriend's family say such hurtful things about me and my dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - Hello my name is Emma and me and my boyfriend have been with each other for about 10 months now. I love going out with him but I find his family a real problem. I've tried so hard to get on with them but I just can't. I'm not very confident as it is and his sister makes ... (231 words)

My son had 27 bottles of slimming pills in his room... Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I am a mother of two. My sons are 16 and 21. When I was cleaning out the house the other day, I found 20 bottles of slimming pills in my 16-year-old son's room. (They were all unopened by the way) I also found 7 more bottles of slimming pills under his bed as well - al... (261 words)

Why does he keep taking photos of guys at the gym?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I am 25 and my boyfriend is 28. Recently he has been banned from the gym for taking photos of men getting dressed; so he went to another gym in the city and was banned for doing the same thing! Now he's joined another gym in the locality, and I hope he isn't doing it this ti... (126 words)

How much is too large an age gap?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I am 28 and my boyfried is 2 1/2 years younger. It's not an issue for us, but is that too big a gap? His friends don't seem to approve although they are my age. Princess... (36 words)

We'll probably get married. The problem is, I don't know if we're in a relationship yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I've been communicating with this wonderful guy for the last nine months. We both live in the same country and have known each other since babies basically but we because re-acquainted after a long absence. I study in London now and we communicate every day, either by phone or... (183 words)

With him, it's all or nothing... and right now, I have nothing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (?) - I miss the sex with him, and can't fathom being sexual with anyone else other then him. What should I do? We broke up and he moved out back to his house which ia 250 miles from me. I started driving up to see him again, but he pushed us living back together every time we ... (241 words)

Things were great at first. Now he's quiet and tired and the sex has disappeared...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I've been with my fella for 9 months. Everything was great at first but recently things have changed. He doesn't seem to make the effort and with regards to sex, he won't unless I initiate it. I love him dearly, he's 38, I'm 26. He's a quiet person too and doesn't make the... (127 words)

Feel like it's time to end it with my partner, but I just don't have the courage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I have been thinking about breaking up with my partner now for a few years but can't find the courage to do it. I had several affairs a few years ago and met this lovely man who I have kept in contact with. My partner forgave me for the affairs and we have been trying to patch ... (132 words)

My ex keeps hanging around, saying he loves me. So why is he stalling on getting together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - Alex and I dated for 4.5 years, but in February 2004 I broke up with him over a petty fight. He spent the next year begging to get back together with me. When he found out that I would be going to school in Florida starting in Fall 2005, he moved there hoping we would get ... (200 words)

After 9 years, my ex-husband wants me back. But I've got someone else who loves me now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - My ex-husband and I have been divorced 9 years and I have never stopped loving him.l Lst week he called me and said he wants me back and I am his soul mate. The problem is I've lived with a man for 7 years and is very good to me and I know he loves me. I just don't know wha... (98 words)

I had another sexual experience after she said to "get it out of my system." Now she doesn't trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (M) - Hi, I have dated someone on and off for about two years. During the summer we happened to bump into each other again. We started to hang out again, things became more serious and I told her that I loved her. However, the problems from the previous times we dated was ... (365 words)

How can I give him the unmistakable message that I'd love oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a number of months now. I really care for him, and our relationship is perfect....well almost. We have sex most days, and although the sex itself is fantastic he hasn't once given me oral sex. I don't know about you but I really enjoy a ... (120 words)