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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Our relationship seems to be fading... and fast! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 963 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - The first few months or so of my relationship he used to phone or at least send sweet good night texts every day. This stopped and seemed as though we wouldn't talk unless it was me that called. We didn't have sex for about 3 weeks and he said that he was stressed and busy, ... (89 words)

Everything feels like it's going to crash down on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 963 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - Hello. My name is Robert I'm 15 years old and I have a problem. I live in Spain and 4 months ago my father got chucked into prison. This is absoloutely terrible for me. I have a great relationship with my dad and now I can only see him once a month. My mother crie... (122 words)

He hurts me and threatens more harm... but I can't just kick him out? Can I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 963 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I am 19 years old. I have been with my boyfriend two years next month. We had a "great" relationship at first, not really, at first I was blind. I had an apartment and he was staying with family friends. Short story, he moved in. Five months later I find out that the girl who... (249 words)

This girl and I are practically best friends, but we've never met in person!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - I've known a girl for four years, but I've never met her! We met via a friend of mine. He was on the phone to her and I snatched the phone off him, whilst drunk. Four years later and we are practically best friends. We speak every day. We spend hours talking to each other on... (325 words)

My chick-magnet boyfriend just loves the attention he gets from other girls...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

21 September 2005 (F)

- I've been dating my b/f for almost two years, but we had just made it official 7 months ago. He's a chick magnet, this I know. I fell in love with him the first time I ever saw him. He treats me great, but, to me, there is one problem. He LOVES attention. No matter where we ... (196 words)

I can't help wondering if the "grass" would be "greener" with the other guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 963 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship with a great guy for a little over a year. He is great, by far the best boyfriend I have ever had. I can really see myself with him for the rest of my life. Ok, here is the question. I was "talking" to a guy before my boyfriend and I st... (180 words)

Would it be easier to break things off before he has to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 964 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for nearly 4 weeks now. It was meant to be nothing too serious, but as time goes on my feelings for this guy are getting stronger. I think he likes me too, just by the way he is with me. But he's going away to work for the winter in a couple of months. ... (121 words)

Reeling from my husband's announcement that he wants a divorce. Opinions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - My spouse of nearly 7 years came to me on Labor Day and said that he was no longer happy with himself and that he wanted a Divorce. He has moved into his barracks so that he may have the time apart he asked for. He has said that he needs to find why he is unable to love and... (241 words)

We're only friends, but our finances and obligations are tangled together. Is it time to sort them out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 964 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I have friend and we have been become really close in the last 3 years. Like married, but not. He is gay and has always asked me for advice and we have even have accounts together and credit etc... He has moved now and we have not had the same relationship. I want to cancel t... (188 words)

Could my pubic hair be off-putting to guys, even though it's tidy?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I have pubic hair insecurities. I am an attractive 23year old girl who is confident with my body, however I am afraid that my pubic hair could be unattractive! I know this sounds dumb, but how important is it to a guy? I wax my bikini line to keep it tidy (though I would ... (111 words)

We're friends with benefits, but I'm ready for more than that. Should I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - Confused about my relationship with someone who is an friend and lover. I have been friends with this guy that started out as no strings attached. We are great friends now. I have grown to love him. I never told him that. I love him so much that I want more to this relation... (108 words)

I'm on eggshells most of the time, trying to avoid getting into an argument with my partner...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together two years. He has only said 'I love you' to me once, in the very begining. He says he doesn't know if he loves me and he says 'sometimes I do', but he never actually says those three little words. We argue a bit about the fact he's always w... (358 words)

She thought I was getting stalker-ish, but I just wanted to talk to her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - I was trying to talk this girl at school, but in a week of me trying to talk to her, it turned into her thinking I was following her too much. I wrote her a note saying I was sorry and she said that it was okay, but to just not follow her. What should I do to be able to talk to ... (71 words)

What can I do to get my fella's attention again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and some times I get the feeling that he is losing interest in me. How can I get the spark back into our relationship and make him notice me the way he used to? ... (44 words)

He says he needs space. OK, but how much space?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend told me he doesn't want to break up but needs some space. How long should I wait before I call him? Or see him? I want to respect him and give him time to work out his issues, but not give him permission to leaving me totally hanging indefinately.... (52 words)

My mate has moved away and I fancy his girl... Should I go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - I like my best friend's crush, and I think she likes me. My friend has moved away and but he still talks to her on a regular basis. I know he likes a girl up where he lives, but he still likes the one here. My friends say I should go for her, but I don't want to hurt my ... (69 words)