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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My girl didn't seem to care about me, until there was a chance I'd go out with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - I was recently seeing a girl for about 2 months. I went on holiday and when I came back she seemed different. After a lot of chasing on my part she said she didn't want to be with me. This was about a month ago now but the other weekend she found out that something might happen ... (110 words)

I want to fall in love and my actions seem to say it, but when she falls for me, I lose interest!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I love girls and love a lot of them. I have probably fallen in and out of love with more than 10-12 girls so far in my life. I am 23 yr old guy and have always been like this since my childhood. I loved to be in company of girls and always fancied of being in love... (341 words)

Me: quiet and traditional. Her: loud and bubbly. How would I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - The girl I love is very flirty and I don't know how to interact with her. She is loud and bubbly while I am more quiet and "traditional" about such things. She knows I like her a lot but shows me no recognition. I just don't know how to introduce my personality to her ... (75 words)

After I slept with my ex, all those old feelings came flooding back! What are our chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years nearly 2 years ago. We didn't really have much contact as he had a new girlfriend! I saw him out clubbing a couple of weeks ago and we got on so well as if we had never split. I ended up going back to his for the night, I... (127 words)

There's no sexual chemistry in our relationship. Is that because I don't have orgasms with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

13 September 2005 (F)

- I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Lately, I have noticed that their was something big missing in our relationship. My boyfriend and I discussed this matter and he actually made me realize what it is, it's sexual chemistry that is missing. I have realized... (213 words)

Sex. Should we do it drunk or sober?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - When me and my partner are drunk she wants to act sexually, but I would prefer to do so being sober. What's your opinion?... (26 words)

At 15, am I too old for my 13-year-old girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - Right. I am 15 and dating a 13 yr old and we have been going out for a while and that. I really like her and she realy likes me but there are a few wee daft guys at the same age of her doing my head in, saying I'm too old, although the people the same age as me for instance are ... (78 words)

Can't face my boyfriend since I cheated...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 922 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for 4 years. My partner and I recently had a break because I cheated and couldn't face him. He doesn't know that I have been unfaithful. Things are not going well, although he has moved back in and we are both trying to make it work. I love ... (77 words)

Worried my big sister's new MSN contact I chatted to will turn stalker!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - hi, im 14 years old and i dont chat in chat rooms or msn very much but my big sis does. her and i share an msn account bcoz we usually know the ppl we both talk 2. but i went on msn yesterday and there was a new contact, a 22 yr old guy from london 2 whom she had sent a picture ... (226 words)

Should I take the risk and move interstate to be with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years was accepted to med school in the next state, 3 hours away. I am currently finishing my MA, so I will be done with school and looking for a new job about the time that he moves. Yes, we have discussed marriage. No, those dicussions have not gone ... (99 words)

We had a great time in bed, but I never orgasmed, and I want to know why not...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 971 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - OK, this is sort of embarrassing so that's the only reason I haven't mentioned my name. I have been feeling shitty recently. Problems with a guy I love or thought I loved. I went and fooled around with someone I don't know. Basically I felt trashed. Yesterday I, for the first... (196 words)

My boyfriend prefers to stay up with porn than bed me. Am I too idealistic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I moved in with my boyfriend 6 months ago. So, maybe i'm too idealistic, but our pattern has gotten me down. I go to bed, he stays up and masturbates to porn on my computer, thinks he erases it from the history, (but isn't as computer literate as I), and passes out on the ... (110 words)

Ladies: what kind of romance book should I bring for the girl who asked for one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 971 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - I'm a librarian that is has just started courting a girl. She asked me to bring her a romance book from the library. Do I settle for the Danielle Steele-type sob-stories, or do I go for broke and get her some Mills and Boons ?... (45 words)

If I vent my feelings to my abusive ex, would he try to find me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I broke up from a man who was very abusive towards me about a year and a half ago. I have since entered into a healthy realtionship and have become engaged. Knowing all of this I still keep thinking about my Ex. I think it may be because I feel that I never had closure, ... (223 words)

Best way to punish my boyfriend for his deception? But still forgive him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - How do I forgive my boyfriend for deception, but still make him know he can never do it again? My boyfriend lied to me about something major (not just a little lie). There are parts of our relationship that are wonderful and I'm willing to give it another try. But I don't ... (107 words)

My married guy says he's "not strong enough" to leave his wife...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I met a guy several months ago and he is married. Recently we started seeing each other as a bit of fun. Neither of use expected it but we ended up falling for each other. He said that he would leave his wife to be with me but when it came to it he said that he didn't have the... (111 words)

My husband treats me like I don't have any sense. He's considerate to others, why not to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, Am married for almost 18th years now. I love my husband but sometimes I can't understand the way he treats me. He doesn't want me to be with my friends or outside family activities. He treated me not as his wife but like a daughter, coz he can easily raise his voic... (272 words)

Is it playing games to try to get my ex back into my life again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - Thanks for the quick reply on my question I posted last month! Well I took your advice and feel soo much better for it! The guy friend (I had at work) had promised to just be a "friend" but then he started flirting with me through e-mail and I told him I wouldn't be talking ... (422 words)

We're both straight and we don't have gay feelings for each other... but I feel almost "lovestruck" about him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - I am a 20 year old single straight guy and am confused about my friendship with my (male) best-friend. We always have a good laugh together, enjoy each others' company, share problems etc. etc, and I feel like I can speak openly with him about anything at all. Over the last ... (275 words)

We argue and fight over stupid stuff, even though we love each other!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - Okay, me and this boy have been together for a long time. I know he loves me, and he knows that I love him, but we argue over the stupidest stuff ever and it gets us into a huge fight. We always say, well maybe we should break up, it's for the best, but I don't know. I hate to ... (115 words)