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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My son can see his dad, but I don't like him being around Grandma!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - When my son was 2 years old I decided to file for child support since he had a deadbeat dad that would not come around. After I did this, he took me to court to get revenge and get visitation rights. I think a lot of it had to do with his wicked mother talking him into it. ... (269 words)

My boss and I had a relationshp that went sour. Now I don't have a job...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Me and my married employer formed a relationship. Afterwards he kept changing his mind as to whether or not he wanted a future with me. I decided to just apologise for any upset so he would employ me for the next 1 years contract. He switched and said he hates me and never ... (68 words)

Too shy to ask her out directly. Can I hint around a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - There's this girl whom I like and I know she likes me. I'm too shy to ask her out. Do you know any tips that might give her a hint without directly talking about it. Thanks a lot.... (39 words)

I don;t want to hurt my girlfriend's feelings, but I just don't feel the way I used to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - Hi I am 22 years old and recently went overseas for a year to study. My girlfriend and I were very close before I left and now that I am back, we still are. The problem is that for some reason I just don't feel the same way as I used to before I left. We managed to stay ... (120 words)

My boyfriend says he'll change his behavioural problems, but in the meantime he yells and screams...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Help! I'm living with my boyfriend. He is 26 and I am 35 years of age. I've had to move two times because when ever we argue, he yells, screams, and or damages the apartment. I've lost about 2500 dollars in security deposit and damages. He has also damaged some of my ... (162 words)

My 16-year-old son wants to marry his girlfriend... soon.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 783 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I am concerned about my 16 year old son who has expressed the desire to marry his girlfriend soon. What problems will he face if he marries now? Thanks, Janet... (37 words)

I'm confused about the way my father shows his "affection" to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am confused about the behaviour of my father towards me and our relationship. He likes to have so much intamicy with me, though I am a boy, that I feel uncomfortable and strangled in his emotional confinement. Also as I remember about my teenage days, my father ... (286 words)

I fancy my teacher and I don't know if I should tell him...

This question has 141 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I wondered if anyone can help me. I am 16 and I am really friendly with a 32 year old male teacher at my school. He is like a best friend to me he has helped me through some really tough times in my life. I tell him everything, but I don't know if I should tell him ... (94 words)

I want to end my 8-year affair, but how do I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have been having an affair off and on for the last 8 yrs, with the same person. I have been married for 18yrs. Right now I am trying to figure out how to stop seeing this man that I know is not for me, although I love him deeply and I am so excited when I hear from or see ... (91 words)

Should I help out my engaged friend by having sex with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I really want a engaged man!! We have spent the night together after a few drinks and have been out a lot. After that we are so good togther! His fiancee lives miles away and he tells me how much he needs sexual attention all the time as he hasn't seen her for 2 months. ... (66 words)

I need to see the person I'm with, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for a year....he had flown down to see me about a month after meeting and we had a good time so we decided to try this as I had never tried being in a long distance relationship. He had been open to me me about his past relation... (240 words)

I'm married and a father. but I long to be with my lover...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - I am 25 and have been married to my wife for only 16 months. We have a wonderful baby daughter of 6 months. The problem is we don't have anything in common and don't share any interests. I don't feel in love with her anymore, and I suspect she feels the same. The sex is nonex... (190 words)

Why can't my friends see that they're dating losers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Why is it that I can see the men my friends date are losers, and yet they still think that they are perfect? It's almost like they can see the bus coming but just stand on the road until they are squashed. I am normally the one to scrape them off the road. I just wish that ... (70 words)

Not sure where we stand! Are we dating? Are we friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I was seeing a guy 9 months ago for about 6 weeks, we both been single for 18 months due to bad relationship breakdowns. We got on well. Then we said I wasn't taking it seriously enough, that he was falling in love with me, etc., I was shocked and didnt say anything. Next d... (221 words)

How do I handle the interloper who seems interested in my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is ten years older than me and is very loving. However whenever we go out with a group of his friends there is one girl (22) who is very pretty and he always dances with her and seeks her attention. It is obvious that she is charmed by this and he continues to ... (149 words)

Is my boyfriend right, that "all blokes watch porn"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend has always watched porn and I only have a problem with it because it makes me feel inadeqaute. Is it normal for all men to watch porn? (he is 34) I am particularly worried now because he has just set up the internet and I know he will be sitting there al... (86 words)

After a fight, my husband can sulk for days...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have only been married for 4 months and even though we are very much in love, whenever we argue my husband sulks for about 3 days. He has occasionally spent the night at his parents when we have fallen out, knowing it upsets me. He also punishes me in that he will ... (88 words)

Snooping in my partner's phone only exacerbated our relationship troubles...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - My partner and I are both 31 and have a 3 year old daughter, I really need advice at teh moment. I first got suspicious about my girlfriend about two weeks ago. Then I did something stupid. I looked at her phone and saw a bunch of messages to and from a guy she had met on a ... (362 words)

My husband and I have been separated for 9 years, but we still talk and we're still married...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I just wanted to see if anyone can help me. I've been separated from my husband for 9 years and he's been with this other woman for 8 years. He has asked her to marry him a long time ago, but of course that has never happened, because he's still married to me. I've spoken t... (311 words)

If my husband's texting someone else is just "harmless fun", why doesn't he stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I'm having problems with my husband. He is texting some woman at work. I have spoken to him about it and he insists that there is nothing going on and I have spoken to her briefly. But I can't stop checking his phone and see some off the messages. Most of the messages are ... (100 words)

I knocked back most of my ex's sexual requests, but he wants us to meet again! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I recently met up with a very old flame, who I am trying not to think of as the love of my life. He wanted to show me his new house and we both knew where it would end up. However, his demands began with oral sex and got more extreme, and included watching porn together -I said ... (83 words)

We haven't had sex yet and suddenly he doesn't even seem interested in the topic...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 8 months. He is 36 and I'm 21, so there is a real age gap. Neither of us have had a lot of luck with relationships, in fact, he has been married before. When we first started dating we would meet up with each other ev... (146 words)

He says he'll give me anything when he's a success. Is it worth waiting for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I'm 19 and have known my bf for a couple of months but been with him for a little over a month. I recently just lost my virginity to him, maybe because I thought i felt love or whatever, or becuase I needed to satisfy my lust. Anyway, he's 26 and honestly has nothing to show ... (277 words)

He doesn't see the point in us getting married, but I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 1/2 years- ages!!! We only spoke of marriage in the last month, as he wouldn't talk of it earlier. At the weekend he sort of said 'why get married?' I want to. Am I wasting my time? I've moved countries to be with him, and I'm not getting ... (66 words)

Afraid to say or do anything that might brand me a fool. Help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - All my life I've been seriously affected by an inferiority complex - which has worsened over the years by an abusive relationship. Recently I met someone I really like but I'm afraid-afraid of making a fool out of myself--- What should I do?... (43 words)

My friends say he cheated, even though he denies it. Now we're broken up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - hello everyone! I really need some advice about my ex-boyfriend. We were together for 3 years (high school sweetheart) and have been seperated for 3 months now. I found out that he had cheated on me while he was away at school. I confronted him about it, and he denies it and y... (205 words)