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My wife's "best friend" is a man...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - My wife of eighteen years has a male "best friend" at work that she just talks to. She says it is no different than my best friends but I don't have female best friends. I have asked or suggested that she invite him and his wife over for dinner but she won't do that. And she ... (85 words

My female friend has gone snappy, and I don't know why...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Hi, I am having a problem with one of my female friends. We used to be quite close and would hang out every day and do heaps of things together. Ages ago we slept together, but she didn't want anything more so we just continued to be friends. The thing is, over the last few... (148 words

We just want to be with each other, but we're both married, so things are complicated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - I have known a man for 14 years, he has been my best friend for 10 years and now we have found out that we are attracted to one another and we would be happy if we were living together. Unfortunately we are both married, and we are both unhappy in our marriage but we have chi... (159 words

My 23-year-old boyfriend wants to retire... now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 23. He has recently been talking about retirement and pensions and says he wants to retire NOW. I can't understand why he is in such a rush to retire... and, retired at 23?? It sounds odd that someone would want to retire at 23. I'm confused. ... (95 words

If my parents knew I'm in love with another man, they'd be devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - Dear Aunt Agony Irish49/Bev Conolly/anybody!!! I'm in need of help. I love this guy and we want to be together forever. I know my family will have a complete fit if i tell them and definately break their hearts causing it to never be fixed again because of me. if they fin... (697 words

As soon as I told him about my feelings, he stopped talking to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Me and this boy have been talking and as we were talking I started falling in love with him... Now this has been going on for 2-3 months and I finally told him. Now he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. What do I do?... (46 words

Am I imagining it, or is my boyfriend pulling back from us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - I have been dating my new guy for about 5 months now. In the beginning, we both established that we weren't looking for serious things, and most likely it would be more of a "fling". However, we clicked and we clicked hard. After 1 month he had already brought me back to his ... (254 words

Since I'm back at uni, we hardly see each other. Will our relationship stand the distrance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - I am going out with a really great guy and we are talking about moving in together and having babies and getting married in the future. But since I have gone back to college he has had more work hours and we hardly see each other, and it's getting hard. Does distance make the... (76 words

I broke if off for personal reasons... but suddenly people are saying nasty things about me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Dear Cupid, I just broke up with my boyfriend, and now everyone is saying how nasty I am. I didn't do anything wrong though. I even asked if we could still be friends because I don't want us to be enemies like my other ex-boyfriends (I didn't say the boyfriends bit). I didn't ... (104 words

Am I being paranoid after my dream about my sometimes violent fiancee?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - i am about to get married and last night I had a dream that i was confronted by a woman who had sexual relations with my fiance recently. I know it is my subconscious going crazy but it has brought up issues from our lengthy relationship where many times in the past I ... (127 words

I want to be friends with my friends, but they seem to want to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - hi, I am an 18 year old girl and mainly have male friends. I do prefer male company as I tend to argue with girls. I have been friends with a group of males for a few years now! However I dated one of them for 1 year, it did end well but he still gets jealous of me although ... (128 words

My girlfriend cries... And cries... And cries...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1581 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - i think my girlfrend crys too much, i want to have more sympathy but i find it hard. I realised that my sympathy ran out when she was crying because she was ill and she 'dident have time to be ill'. Surely no one has time to be ill? and crying will make you feel worse. This is ... (83 words

I can only orgasm with a vibrator: Is this physical or psychological?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Im 22 and I can only orgasm using a vibrator, I don't know wether this is a physical or psycological or physical problem, My boyfriend is very understanding and we have tried all different positions but it doesnt help. I was abused when I was 7 but I barely remember it. Please ... (53 words

Our relationship is in trouble, but I want to fix it. Can it be saved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - My relationship with my girlfriend is going bad to the point we will most likely break up. I want to fix it, but she does not seem like she wants to. Can it still be fixed?... (36 words

I sent some SMSs in the heat of the moment. Now I'm sorry, but he won't listen!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Dear Cupid My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other (long distance relationship of 600kms) for a year. We are both divorced mine being 3 years and his being 1 year. We met unexpectantly and we had feelings for each other right from the start. He had a fairly me... (518 words

How do I persuade my family to give my boyfriend another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend who got me pregnant but promised me to acknowledge the baby when it came, but suddenly he changed his mind. My father was mad and decided to keep the baby and me away from him. Now he regrets his choice and asked for forgiveness but my family ... (65 words

My boyfriend has lied all his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. We both love each other very much and I want to spend the rest of my life with him but his compulsive lying is ruining any chance of happiness together. He's told me that he's lied eversince he can remember. And because his ... (93 words

A jealous friend is spreading terrible rumours and now everyone hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - I have had a girlfriend for about 3 months now and everything is perfect! Communication, affection, whatever you can name is perfect. There is just one problem that isn't either of our faults, and that is her friend. Her friend got very jealous and started spreading rumors ... (209 words

My girlfriend has stopped sending me affectionate texts...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - I have this girlfriend for less than a year. Intially we were very loving towards each other. Every morning we will wake each other up, call and check how each other is doing, as and when, message each other with those sweet heartening words. Till recently, she stop doing al... (134 words

Now that my wife is finally ready to have a child, my feelings for her have moved on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

7 September 2005 (M - Ok, need some help here. Married for 14 years, no kids. I've always wanted children, but she just kept saying she wasn't ready, and she worked on her career. I've never really felt we've connected, and it's becoming more obvious to me as the years go by. I guess I need to ... (352 words

My husband wants a child of his own. Could he donate sperm to our friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

7 September 2005 (F - Dear Abby, I moved in with my 4th husband just 3 days after meeting him. We were married 2 years later and married 8 yrs this May. We have lived together 10 years, and I have never regretted a day of it. He is the love of my life and I would do anything in the world for hi... (366 words

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