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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Wanted: some help writing a love letter to the girl I fancy...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 620 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - Please help me. I fancy this girl at my school and I have only just started talking to her. I was thinking of putting a love letter in her locker and perhaps leave my number at the bottom of it but not my name. Is this a good idea? And has anyone had the experience of writing ... (71 words)

She knocked me back once. Should I try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - I recently asked a girl to our homecoming dance, but she was already going with a group of girls. I was hoping we could continue seeing each other after homecoming. I really like this girl, and don't want to just give up now. Any suggestions of how I can possibly hook up ... (63 words)

The only time I feel comfortable being sexual with my husband is in the dark!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - Please help, I am still embarrassed to be naked in front of my husband, who I have been married to for 12 years and we have three children. I feel that when it comes to having sex or anything sexual that I am embarrassed. When I am naked I feel vulnerable and exposed even to ... (150 words)

A Catch-22: Inexperience with women makes me hesitant to try dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - Hello basically I'm a 22 year old male who has never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship. This is really affecting my life and my confidence. I am good looking but I lack self esteem I am also very nervous because of my sexual inexperience. How would you suggest I ... (55 words)

Since my boyfriend got his new job, he's tired, edgy, distant... or stoned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 959 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - I have a few problems... My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months, but on and off before that for about 3 years. Recently, he has gotten a new job in construction and he is always working in the city. Now, don't get me wrong, I am proud of him getting his... (209 words)

Can I love my boyfriend and my friend at work simultaneously but in different ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - I met my friend in the same company. He's a very outgoing person, very friendly to everyone. We are pretty good friends (at least that's what I feel). We can keep on chatting many things and have a lot in common. Maybe because he's a lot older than I am (15 yrs), he seems ... (244 words)

Help put my mind at rest: How long does sperm last for outside the body?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - This is a silly question to ask but i'm sure im not the only one that has thought about this. How long does sperm last for, once its out of your body? the other day i masturbated in the shower, and i was really paranoid about cleaning everything up spotless with the fear of... (245 words)

He says he'll never cheat, but in the next breath tells me he craves "crazy sex" with other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - I really need some advice. I don't know what to think anymore. My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. He is 25 and I am 21. In the past my boyfriend has slept with a lot of woman. Probably almost up to 100... We have a very open relationship and... (516 words)

Walked in on my husband with the Page Three girl and I need reassurance that all men do this...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 819 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - I know all men masturbate and have had numerous conversations with my Partner about this, he always said he never did it if I was in the house. Recently I was still quite sleepy so he got up to have a shower. I decided to get up shortly after and walked into the bathroom to ... (194 words)

I'm confused over how to act when I have dinner with my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

23 September 2005 (M)

- Hi all, I am having dinner with my ex (we're on a break) this Monday, and for the last few months, I have made it clear that I am serious about my intentions with her. The last time I spoke with her, she could have told me it was over, or she didn't feel the same but no,... (325 words)

Isthis 'no-strings' sex relationship just a midlife crisis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - Hi I'm a 42 year old woman. I'm not too happy in my relationship with my partner of 15 years. I had an affair early in the year, but ended it as the man was married. Now I've joined a website for married people. Well I met this young man on there but he is 20 years younger ... (88 words)

Why can he control me so easily, even from 250 miles away? And how do I stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 September 2005 (?) - Is there something wrong with me because I can't seem to walk away from a verbally abusive relationship? Here is my story in short. We had been together for two years, it was a long distant relationship. He moved in with me, it lasted 10 months. He moved back home because ... (375 words)

My upbringing has made me hypercritical of flaws in myself and others...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - I have a serious issue about myself and the way I look at the world. I belong to a business family of ENTJ's and our society is not different. People with ENTJ personality types are judgers. They judge everyone on the criteria of superficial nature. Like my mother, she judges ... (368 words)

Attracted to my sister-in-law, as she is to me. We just don't talk much about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - I have strong feelings for my sister in-law (always have). We've known each other for about 10 years and get on very well. We've always had a bit of a strange relationship, as we don't talk to each other much when other people are around. I would like our relationship to be mo... (254 words)

Breaking up is harder than I expected, because we still have feelings for each other...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 961 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago after going out for 2 years. We just weren't in the same place in our lives- my career is set, but he doesn't have a steady job. He felt inadequate and depressed, and felt that he needed to be on his own. Since breaking up, we decided ... (131 words)

What happened to the buzz of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - Hi, I have dating this girl for the past 5 months. It was love at first sight for both of us, but in the last 3 to 4 days it feels like the buzz has gone. When I say "I love you" to her it doesn't feel the same. I don't want to leave her cause I can still feel something d... (99 words)

I'm not happy with the the amount of time we spend together, and I'm afraid she'll break it off if I mention it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - My girl friend has no time for me. We don't live together, we barely see each other. Since she got a new job (which is volunteer btw), I don't want to tell her how I feel because she might think that she's letting me down and break up with me to save me from being depressed all ... (59 words)