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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

What can I do about my loneliness and lack of self-esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 September 2005 (F)

- Dear Cupid. I have a really low self-esteem. In public situations I get so nervous that I feel I might pass out. Usually I feel like I'm worth nothing and that people don't care about me. At school I see girls hanging out with their big group of friends, whereas I am al... (77 words)

Does he think he's betraying his late wife, or is his behaviour normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - I have been dating a man for two months. He lives alone and have one grown stepson. His wife died almost three years ago, still he is stuck in a shell. He has not moved on. I finally got him to give her clothes away after the Katrina struck. He is 60 years old, I am 59, and ... (154 words)

We broke up when he said he didn't want a relationship, but now he's dating my co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - Has he lied to me about the reason he wanted to split up to protect me? I have just recently split up with my boyfriend of 3 years. We didn't have a bad relationship, well it was a lot of one sided though. He always did what he wanted to do and then fit me in. He loved hi... (326 words)

My old ex lured me back from my new ex. Now my new ex won't take me back again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - hi, I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. Earlier this year, I got to know a guy from work and I really started to like him. I told my boyfriend I needed a break and we split up for 2 months. In this time myself and this new guy... (175 words)

He's with someone, but she treats him horribly, and I think he'd like to be with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 September 2005 (?) - I really fancy this guy but he is with someone else. I know they are not happy because I hang around with the same group of friends as them. They always argue and she is horrible to him. He can't do anything right. I know he likes me too because he is always trying to make eye... (156 words)

Sex is a distant memory since we had the baby...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 962 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for nearly two years now. Sex was great in the beginning but faded out quickly. We now have a ten month old baby, but I can't bring myself to sleep with my partner anymore. I know I love him and couldn't be without him, but my sex drive has gone. A... (80 words)

It's more than just attention-seeking... my teenage son strips to his briefs in public!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - My son is 15 years old and has a problem. I found out about it at school a week ago when I received a phone call off the principal saying that my son keeps stripping to his briefs all the time in school no matter where he is. He did it in PE and the lesson had to be cancel... (221 words)

He has no excuse for sleeping with someone else! Should I forgive and forget to keep what we had?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now and we love each other so much. He even said he wanted to marry me, and I felt the same. But he told me that he slept with another woman last week and he has no excuse for doing it. He doesn't know why he did it. I was really upset at... (98 words)

I'm disappointed in my arranged marriage. Every other woman looks more beautiful than her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

22 September 2005 (M) - Hi, I got married some six months ago..I had seen my wife 2 times before saying yes to this relationship. Typically that happens in arranged marriages. I find every other woman more attractive and beautiful then my wife. She is an average looking gal will some dull featur... (143 words)

Should I make a move on the hot, funny and intelligent guy I work with?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - I have a bf have been with him for three years in November but I am not sure how I feel about him anymore because I find he is too controlling and we have not much in common. I just started a new job and have met this new really gorgeous, funny, intelligent guy. We get on l... (570 words)

Since I found out my husband was texting an old girlfriend, I can't get it out of my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, After 21 years of marriage, during last year my husband's old girlfriend turned up to see him (not at home of course). I suppose just after the last baby we had a few problems and with him working nights and me days we drifted apart. Instead of talking things o... (499 words)

Now that I'm pregnant with our child, my boyfriend would rather hang with his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 962 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - Yes my boyfriend and I have been living together for a year and a half. We are having a child in two months. But it seems like now that I am pregnant he doesn't want to be around me and he wants to go drink at places that his ex girlfriend hangs out and I don't trust him ... (76 words)

As my husband and I got to know each other, I found that he really loves someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - Hi I am "x" and married last December. In fact I had a very unusual marriage. It was an arranged marriage and I got married in 4 days. Really did not know the man to whom I got married. He left for abroad in 5 days and I joined him after nearly 9 months. That's the time we ... (256 words)

I'm interested in a work colleague, but worried I might still be on the rebound

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

22 September 2005 (M) - I have recently broken up with a long term girlfriend and find myself attracted to a work colleague. I am 34 and she is 23 but we are compatable in many ways; Similar background and upbringing etc. I have known her for 12 months and worked with her for 6 months. I am a li... (124 words)

My wife just can't break the habit of chatting and meeting people online...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

22 September 2005 (M) - I have been married for just over 10 yrs to a wonderful super woman. She is my best friend, business partner, lover and mother of our two little children. I found out she was online chatting with some guys and girls and actually called some to continue to chat. This was ... (112 words)