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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Mum wants me to be her lap-dog and she wants me to always be the one trying to please her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, Is it possible that a mother tries to destroy self-esteem of her own child (son) when her wishes aren't fulfilled or sees her son not behaving like her pet? My mother makes me feel like her dog who is there for her entertainment. Earlier I wasn't mature enough t... (169 words)

Am I invisible? Nobody wants to talk to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 850 days ago

15 September 2005 (F)

- I feel like I am invisible. No one pays any attention to me, my parents are at work constantly, my only brother is horrible to me and goes for days without talking to me. I have no friends cos everyone at school thinks I'm 'stuck up' ( as I have a bad habit of flicking... (108 words)

He upsets me and I feel awful, but I'm still sleeping with him. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 824 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I am 19 years old and recently met a man who I really liked a lot even though I was warned against. Instead of taking the advice I continued seeing him anyway. After 4 months of seeing him, I decided to sleep with him but he is the 1st person I have slept with. Afterwar... (111 words)

Sex with my older guy isn't as good as sex with a guy my own age!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

15 September 2005 (F)

- I've recently started dating a new guy and I really like him. We waited a while before we had sex, as I was with someone else when we met and fell for each other. Now we're together but something isn't as I thought it would be. I'm 18 and my ex was the same age and our sex ... (228 words)

Every time my boyfriend checks out women with big boobs, my heart sinks

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I am a small busted woman. I have always wanted bigger ones. My BF's exwife is petite w/ Big Boobs. His 15 yr old daughter has big boobs. When we have sex, foreplay to him is sucking my boobs and he gets aroused by that. That is what turns him on (boobs). I notice any woman ... (199 words)

I'd hate to lose him as my friend, but we're interested in dating each other...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 970 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about 8 years now. During our friendship, I got married and divorced, remarried and about to go through another divorce. He has always been my shoulder to cry on. When things started to go wrong in my current marriage about a year ago... (231 words)

I'm engaged to a new man... but still dream of a life with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 970 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - Who to Marry?? I was dating a guy for 10 years and he was the love of my life. We started dating when we were very young and many things happened in those 10 years, including him cheating on me, and myself cheating on him. However, our relationship was very fun and always e... (184 words)

After a scare in Iraq, my boyfriend is rethinking our relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is in Iraq. Things were going so good and then the other day he was hurt; not bad physicaly but emotionaly real shook up. Now he has started saying things like it's not fair for me to have to go through this and worry about him. I feel like he is pushing me away ... (114 words)

No libido at all! Is it my contraceptive device or something else?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I'm a 19 yr old. I have been with my boyfriend sixteen months. I'm curently on nuvaring a birth contol viginal ring. However I have no libido. I have no desire whatsoever. What could be wrong with me?... (38 words)

She's laid down the law, and she won't go anyplace with me where people might be smoking cannabis...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - Dear agony aunt, I have recently got together with a girl that I met and have been a couple for about 3 weeks. From the outset I made it clear to her that I smoke the occasional bit of cannabis. She also made it clear that she was not a fan of it, but nonetheless continue... (153 words)

I deleted one picture from my phone, and my ex broke up with me over it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I Really need help. Me and my now ex-boyfriend were dating for 5 months. Me and him were not speaking for a week and on Friday of that week I left town for vaction. He called me basically every day saying he missed me and sweet talking me. fter a week of vaction he called m... (161 words)

As soon as I sleep with a woman, I'm turned off...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - Help! I've slept with 100's of women and I start off really liking them but as soon as I sleep with them that's it. I'm completely turned off. Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I form a serious relationship with one of them??... (46 words)

I hate our long-distance relationship and the way my girlfriend behaves, but when we're together... things are great!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - Do I end my long-distance relationship of 4 years because of our different views? First, I should provide some background. My girlfriend and I met via a website for people with contractable diseases. As such, we share something in common that I dare not share with anyone who ... (1405 words)

We slept together and I fell for him, but now he tells me he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

15 September 2005 (?) - I met this guy about two weeks ago, and we have hung out at his house with some of his friends a couple of times. And the last time we ended up sleeping together, so of course being a girl, I have fallen for him. He's all I think about, but when I went to go see him at work ... (139 words)

We keep getting together as friends, so we can't properly break up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - OK, I'm giving up on my quest to get my ex-fiance' back. We were together for 3 years. We broke up 3 months ago and I couldn't get over him and have tried almost every day to get him back and nothing's working. He is not dating anyone and I am not either. Everyone's telling me ... (283 words)

What do I do with my life when my boyfriend leaves "to find himself"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just decided finally that he is going to go away for a year, basically to find himself. It's a facility that is going to help him and stuff, but i dont know what to do.. We've been together for almost 4 months, i know its not long but i truly do love him and he ... (85 words)

My girlfriend is beautiful, but she doesn't believe me when I tell her that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and a half. We live together in a beautiful apartment, I have a great job, I don't hit her or mess with her head in any way. I always tell her how beautiful I think she is. She doesn't believe that she is at all. It is ... (251 words)